I'm not sure if a childhood friend of mine is Really my friend.For instance, I told her about this guy I met.I told him that he was 25 and he still lived with his parents, and that he was really religious, and he worked double shifts.And the only thing she has to say is Oh he's weirdo, Or Oh I don't like em" and I 'm thinking you don't even know him, and she goes on with her negativity saying I don't trust religious people because they're hiporcrties so how would you trust him" and then she abruptly ends the conversation and says we'll I gotta go now" and honeslty right now, I'm trying to figure out if this is my friend or foe, not just based on that one incident, but she always have something negative to say about all my friends, or anyone I'm dealing with, she'll just tell me" oh I don't like that person" for such and such reason, or just anything postive I tell her it's always negative, can anyone tell me what is going on..
2007-03-11 17:32:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, she's only doing that cause she scared that u won't be her friend anymore if u hang out with ppl she doesn't know.
2007-03-11 17:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by Katie K. Loves Jordan C. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People who are religious or spiritual just look to a higher power and put their faith whatever that may be! Which means they have "FAITH". They usually believe in bettering themselves and trying to help others. They look for the good in others. Still living a life like everyone else except they feel good about the future because there is "Hope"! And that does not make them judgemental only seeking for goodness and happiness in their lives. If this person drains you of your own positive energy, you will not serve goodness to your self or anyone else. You can "LOVE" someone but you do not have to have them in your life! And most certainlly, you can always set the example! That is what we are here to do! God Bless.
2007-03-12 00:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by lee c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. well, some ppl are juz very negative.. some even like being pessimists... I think I used to be one... (whispers: I think I enjoyed it... XD)
but anyhoo, dun let her get u down... some ppl become pessimists after hanging around ppl like her... therefore, I think u shud feel sorry for her... pessimists are normally not as happy as optimists.. & if ur an optimist.. maybe u can influence her with ur optimism.. she juz might change... cuz I did.. the ppl u hang out with can really change u sometimes...
sometimes... the stuff she says might not even have gone thru her head & she juz blurted it out unintentionally ( I do that sometimes... ) so, forgive her.. it can't be good bearing hatred... ^-* or juz bad thoughts abt someone...
someday, she might change.. so look to that day & bear with her.. if not, then take a break from her...
friends are friends no matter how they are... =D
have a nice day!!~
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2007-03-12 00:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by Serenity C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your friend is a coward. She's quick to tell you the bad things because she has no self esteem for herself. There's people out there that find complaints about everything. They can't help it. They think it's normal and it's always someone else's fault and never theirs. Find a new friend because this one is just going to get jealous, angry, selfish, and mean everytime something good or positive happens to you. Misery loves company and she will try to drag you down with her.
2007-03-12 00:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend probably has nothing going on in her life. So she is jealous and wants to bring you down.
Drop her as a friend TODAY. You do not need that poison in your life. If she can not be happy for you or supportive she has to go. Hell if he were a millionaire she probably say "He's got too much money". Kick her to the curb.
2007-03-12 00:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by SuperKdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Negativity breeds negativity. If you want to talk with her about whats going on in your life, know what will come from it and don't let it get you down.
A positive outlook will get you alot further in life and you don't need to depend so much on a negative friend who will bring you down with her/him.
2007-03-12 00:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mangomum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you always talk about yourself to her? Maybe she wants attention to be put on her.
If it is truly that she is negative then do not tell her things that you know she will be oppinionated on. It will only weigh you down and you will not get the answer that you want.
2007-03-12 00:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by InspireTomorrow.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur friend is giving u more problems and giving u second thoughts about ur relationships. Tell her to stop, and if she keeps on doing this then ur not going to be her friend anymore. If she is truly ur friend, then she will stop being so judgemental. if not, u said u had other friends.
2007-03-12 00:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that who continously put me down in disguised innocent talk and I recently said goodbye to her. It's caled toxic friendships - read more http://www.relationship-affairs.com/toxic-friendships.html
2007-03-12 00:43:40 · answer #9 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your negitive friend and place her next to the largest magnet you can find. apply a live wire to the magnetic and throw a bucket of cold water on the magnet.
this will either kill your friend, or make her positive.
2007-03-12 00:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Atlas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋