Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

Recently I had sex with a guy knowing full well that it wouldn't lead to anything, hoping that our friendship wouldn't change. Well I'm afraid it has....my ques is, is it possible for a man or a woman to have sex without an attraction? Doesn't their need to be something there, since they are doing it in the first place??? I'm attracted to him, when I asked him, he gave me some crap about pheremones. I hope I've made some sense...and thanks ahead of time for your answer(s).

2007-03-11 17:07:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 19, in college, and chill being single. I wanted a guy, but the thing is, I am content to enjoy my life without the drama. Well fate decided to entervine and sent me a guy- be careful what you ask for- that I could never see myself with. I am not attracted to him. But he seems to be into me- he makes comments about me being funny, liking my dress style, and keep touching me. I hate that. Touching is personal, and he keeps grabbing my hand, touching my knee, mussing my hair (annoying!) and I can't stand it anymore. I don't want to hurt his feelings, I know where he is coming from, but he keeps inviting himself places, trying to sit next to me. I don't know what to do to make him understand, I cannot ever, ever be with him.

2007-03-11 17:07:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i am in 6th grade and he is in 8th should i just not like him?

2007-03-11 17:06:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He broke up with me among other reasons because of the distance; I'm in New York; he's in Tokyo. We started dating in Tokyo, then I had to move to NY last Sep and we dated long dist. The break up was not mutual, but it was open ended, in that he did not completely rule out the possibility of getting back together once I moved back to Tokyo. I'm moving back to Tokyo to start work there in April; he doesn't know that yet. I should add that another major reason for breaking up was that he did not feel good enough for me due to his educational background, etc, a point of great frustration for me because I don't share in his opinion. He said he could not marry me because he could not make me happy, because he does not and could not have a proper, decent job. I wouldn't mind providing for him, and letting him do what he likes, but he doesn't like such a situation. Now he is being sincere, and I think this makes him even more difficult to read. When we were breaking up, he said his feelings

2007-03-11 17:06:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married and faithful to my husband for 9years, recently found out he has been repeatedly cheating on me for about 7years. I thought we had a good sex life! He says it's only sex and they mean nothing to him. I feel like he has made a fall of me and totally disrespected our marriage vows, he says they mean nothing and I'm the only person he loves and ever will. He says if I leave him his life is over. I still love him but he's totally blown me out of the water. Any advice would be great>

2007-03-11 17:05:54 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

stabbed you in the back? How?

2007-03-11 17:05:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There's this guy that has liked me for a long time and he just told me he likes me the thing is i broke up with a guy not long ago cuz he cheated on me and right now i dont feel like having a boyfriend i told him that but i'm afraid when i want a boyfriend he won't be there which i can't blame him for. .i dont know what to do. should i go out with him?

2007-03-11 17:05:21 · 4 answers · asked by Kayla 1 in Singles & Dating

Which is worse? staying with someone who you are still very attracted to and in love with but treats you poorly, or staying with someone who you have no feelings for anymore and physical attraction is completely gone but who treats you very well??? pls. tell me coz i am in one of these situations...

2007-03-11 17:05:00 · 5 answers · asked by 3kidsandahubby 1 in Friends

SHe thinks i'm going to just call her to wake her up, but i'm going to her house and waking her up, she doesn't know that. What can I do, all i could think of was screaming in her ear or taking part of my drumkit to her house and playing while she sleeps.

2007-03-11 17:04:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when i tell her that i raelly like her
and ask her if she likes me

we live pretty far away, only seen her 4 days in reality (we've emailed alot after though)
should i tell her and ask her ?
or should i just not do anything ?

please and thanks

2007-03-11 17:03:30 · 4 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and want to break up with him. butttt, i can't. He's too into me and i love him, but not IN love, so i don't want to hurt his feelings.

i don't want to cheat on him, but i can't think of anything but for him to just simply dislike me for him to break up with me!
is there any other solutions other than telling him how i really feel?

2007-03-11 17:03:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that I am going out with tonight for the second time. Hopefully I be able to get her back to my place tonight and put the moves on her. Anyway, she is already telling people we are going out on her myspace. She mentioned on the phone that she wants to bring a camera tonight and take some pictures?? I have a feeling she is going to post them on myspace and so forth. I'm not taking any pictures with her under any circumstances... if she tries to take some pictures, what should i say to get out of it that will still end in my getting some tonight??

2007-03-11 17:02:39 · 3 answers · asked by Shakespeare, William 4 in Singles & Dating

Please help me I've gotten a few of useful answers but not alot of people have answered my question.
But anyways there is this guy in my class that I really like, and he likes me but one time he asked me out and I told him no because I didn't know I had feelings for him, and now not too too long ago I realized I like him, but the problem is one of our former classmates is going to go back to school with us and I'm afraid that he might start to like her because my friend told me that she is real pretty. Please help me I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
P.S. I'm not gay my older brother let me use his computer. I am a girl!

2007-03-11 17:01:42 · 6 answers · asked by ilk 1 in Singles & Dating

She says I'm "very very funny" but when I see her now I become speechless. Our eyes lock and we both become intense. What if I loved her? I know I am physically attracted to her, so it must be just lust? No other girl is like her, she has nice brown eyes, dimples, medium straight/curly hair. Alittle shorter than myself. Like an Ann Frank kind of, and she's brilliant. Kind, Full of heart. Smart,talented,gifted. If I open up-- I want to...... I'm 16 and so is she. I'm 5'9 she's probablly 5'6/5'7. It is tense. I want to open up to her. But the problem is, I have barely talked to her. She has always initated the "conversation" and I become dumber than usual and don't say much. My sister and friend say talk to her. I want to take her to the movie #23 on the 23rd. Is that too quick? My sister says don't overanalyze everything she might only like you as a friend. I however, am deeply attracted to her. I think of her constantly. She thinks I'm funny, all her friends seem to like me. If I

2007-03-11 17:01:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 17:00:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am so confused.I really liked this guy and he liked me to. but once he asked me out then it felt like it didnt matter anymore.It felt like once I knew he liked me it wasnt a chace anmote.And I know that sounds really stupid right now but he wont really talk to me and it fills like he is talking to my friend taylor more then he ever talks to me.And the thing is that him and taylor never even spoke befor until him and I started going out.I dont know what to do to get his attention, but I am only in the 8th grade so there really isnt a lot I can do. does anyone have any sugestions?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

2007-03-11 17:00:48 · 5 answers · asked by magan m 1 in Singles & Dating

even if your married with kids do you have secrets you will never ever tell? jus wonderin

2007-03-11 17:00:44 · 26 answers · asked by chelle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been friends with this guy for 7 years and he has told my friends that he likes me but he admits that he's too much a coward to ask me. Alot of people think that we should be together and we've been mistaken as being a couple a few times when we go out. We have never talked about having a relationship and I don't think I could ever ask him myself. Should I just wait for something to happen? leave things as they are now? Is being shy even an excuse?

2007-03-11 17:00:34 · 7 answers · asked by Nickname 1 in Singles & Dating

I was curious because I thought she was, and if so I'm wondering how long and if this happened while she was married.

2007-03-11 17:00:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we've been seeing each other for 2 month really passionately. We'd be together almost everyday, night, and sometimes all day. We'd have meals together consecutively.

so then i was a bit bored of her and she was of me. so we agree to give each other space ( it was like a few hours a day . and sometimes not sleep together). then i get most of my feeling for her back. but she says she still doesn't have feeling for me. and now she's mad. cuz i didn't answer her calls ( called her back 2 hours later), because i was a bit mad at her for ignoring this morning. she asked if i knew she was calling, i said yea. and she hung up. what should i do?

2007-03-11 16:59:39 · 22 answers · asked by taang 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy at my school hes a jr and im a fish. im kinda of an oddball i didnt notice before but he stares at me alot i dont kno why but do u think he might like me or do u thenk he just thenks im weird?

2007-03-11 16:58:16 · 3 answers · asked by Danielle A 1 in Singles & Dating

ok ive been dating this guy off and on for about 9 months and hes got a bad temper he went off on me last week yelling and crap and im getting sick of it but im scared to leave him

2007-03-11 16:58:15 · 8 answers · asked by snowflake 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my Army Reserve unit has been put on alert for 90 days and theres a 50/50 chance (chea right thats what they say) that we may be going over sees. I dont mind,but my exgirlfriend and I havent been together for a couple months and just a few minutes ago I called her ( Ino Ino it was a bad move) and we got into a fight. I love her and I cant stop thinking about her. Its been through hell and back after our break up. I dont know what to do If im sent over and I dont end up getting back together with her before I leave. I dont wanna have this on my mind while im over there. We went for 1 year and three months. I just need to talk to her 1 on 1 and tell her how I feel, but as obvious she says no. I feel like im racing agianst time. HELP???

2007-03-11 16:58:11 · 2 answers · asked by Danny/Edgar B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

late to to the dress try on and were so not into the whole thing that the lady at the bridal store noticed and commented to me on their attitudes. To top this all off, they hated the color of the dress and commented to the lady at the bridal store and my matron of honor when I was in the bathroom that the color was for kids and is too bright and will not look good on the other girl. I was told this later by my MOH. So guess what next thing I know they have the color swatch book there and they are picking out all of these dark color dresses for me for my summer wedding so feeling frustrated I changed my color to a lighter pink instead of my fuschia color which will suit the one girl's skin tone. I don't now what I was thinking at the time just completely annoyed with the whole thing and full of regret.
I made a bad judgement call to want to include these special co-workers in my wedding and now I want them out. What is the best way to remove them without a lot of BS to deal with?

2007-03-11 16:57:08 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We were together off and on for 5 years, i really loved her but her lifestyle i couldnt stand, she was always out, she always had to talk to all the guys in the club etc, and she had very foul language. I devolepted a drinking habbit, therefore we were always mad at eachother. she had her view of things, and i had mine.I desided to break up with her because all we did was argure, and my drinking didnt make anything better! Now Its been 3 years we havent talked since and now I miss her. Should I try calling her?

2007-03-11 16:57:06 · 19 answers · asked by Loverboy 1 in Singles & Dating

its been 5months since i broke up with my gf of 4years. since then we kinda been friends. Last week i spent the weekned at her house with her family and i kinda felt a spark between us. we spent a lovely day but when i left she started to deny anything had happened and acted like nothing happened.
Two days ago i went to watch a movie with her and when i was dropping her off we had sorta like a momment and she confesed that she still had feelings for me but she was confused.
but now she is acting like nothing happened again. i still love her and hope that we will get together again. the problem is that every time were together its fine but the moment im away things go awry. i cant handle the emotional rollercoaster of being really happy one moment and really down the next.
im thinking of just ignoring her and moving on but its hard since ive known her for 4years and i love her and think she still loves me but is to egoistict to acknowledge it.

2007-03-11 16:56:57 · 4 answers · asked by Nanook~Maybe I need a longer Name?~ 6 in Singles & Dating

Alright lookie here here is this girl i like in my school. i have two classes with her of the two there is only one i can talk to her in because at my school it isnt really accepted to flirt. also my parents dont know. In the beginning i was sure she liked me we would stare at each other in the class i cant really talk to her in and we would talk and talk and talk in the class i can talk to her in. She would look in my eyes and i would look in hers and i would wanna soar over and kiss her. but lately she has been acting differently she seems more shy she would always sit next to me now she sits on the other side of the room she doesnt talk to me as much and she seems sometimes a little ummm sirly. However we talked like we used to the other day and i caught her looking at me and looking away quikly when i looked at her. But i am just not sure anymore.
WHAT DO I DO!!!
P.S. I am 14 and in 8th grade.

2007-03-11 16:56:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am really good friends with this boy at my school. and in a way i love him. a good way though. like i care about him and stuff. ive tried to make a move, but it didn't go anywhere. should i pursue or foget about it and keep the good friend?
p.s. he does get annoying often. we might break up and make up every other week!

2007-03-11 16:56:38 · 4 answers · asked by iheart_boomer 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 16:55:24 · 24 answers · asked by beckyse_2005 1 in Weddings

I really like this guy and everybody keeps telling me 2 ask him out but I dont know how I should do that cause im really nervous!!!! Should I ask him over myspace message????

2007-03-11 16:55:16 · 2 answers · asked by mcrgirl94 2 in Singles & Dating