Please help me I've gotten a few of useful answers but not alot of people have answered my question.
But anyways there is this guy in my class that I really like, and he likes me but one time he asked me out and I told him no because I didn't know I had feelings for him, and now not too too long ago I realized I like him, but the problem is one of our former classmates is going to go back to school with us and I'm afraid that he might start to like her because my friend told me that she is real pretty. Please help me I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
P.S. I'm not gay my older brother let me use his computer. I am a girl!
2007-03-11 17:01:42 · 6 answers · asked by ilk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be honest and truthfull with yourself and him.
either tell him face to face or ASK him out.
or write him a note or a letter...or text message him, that you would like to go out sometime.
advice: never worry about the competition, if you worry about what someone else is doing or if they are better than you, you are already limiting yourself and makes the other person once step closer to winning.
2007-03-11 17:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by Marcus M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely need to tell him. Walk up to him and tell him that you feel really stupid for saying no, and that you would really like to go out with him if the offer still stands. (You could word that differently if you want to..) Anyway chances are he still likes you. If he ends up asking out this mutual friend because she is really pretty, then chances are he wasn't really looking beyond "looks". I also suggest talking to your older brother if you can. Maybe he could give you better advice from a guys perspective. All in all if you don't tell him, you will never know. Then you'll spend forever wondering "what if I had said something?" So you choose. Good Luck!!
2007-03-11 17:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you just need to weigh the risks with teh benefits. What's the worst that could happen, he says, " No thank you, i'm intrested in someone else right now." That's the worst that could happen. No one dies, you simply find out wether he likes you or not. But think of all the benefits of asking. You could have a great relationship with this guy.
I recently watched a video on positive thinking through visualizing a goal. It's scientifically proven that positive thinking and visualizing your goals, opens new doors to accomplish your goal.
Hope that helped some. Just ask the kid. :)
2007-03-11 17:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
quick, ask him out before she even gets a chance! there is not a real good chance that he will like you no matter what... unless you give him a chance to get close and then maybe he will have that level of feeling for you.
2007-03-11 17:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you scared me i thought you were a fag for a second but anyway, I think you need to just tell him how you feel.
2007-03-11 17:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by gtest11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach him and tell him how you feel before its too late!
2007-03-11 17:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by 4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋