2007-03-11 17:00:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, just like one of you said. black guys are usually the ones who like larger ladies. you guys gave some kind answers that make me feel better. as far as feeling attractive and confident, no i don't really. because i was very buff before i had kids. now i have to work hard at just having nice legs. i walk 2 pr 3 miles 5 days a week. i have a big butt too, i guess thats why the "brothers" like to try to talk to me. my boobs are average to small. if i have plastic surgery, should i get a boob job to look sexey or a tummy tuck, which would be sexier?
2007-03-11 17:25:08 · update #1
Definitely. I know women bigger than you that are beautiful inside and out. I also know women smaller who I wouldn't have anything to do with no matter their size or looks. It's not about size, it's the Whole person.
"Too big" or unattractive to me is an individual-to-individual thing. There are many facets to a person, looks or size is just one, it is important because we are visual beings, but it isn't the only thing.
Good luck!
2007-03-11 17:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but I don't think that looks are everything. If for medical reasons you want to lose weight that's great, but I would never do it for someone else. You should be proud of who you are and not worry about your weight. I think that looks first attracts people, but it's the personality that counts the most. I hope that this helps.
2007-03-12 00:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by random 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very realistic size woman believe or not every guy is not attractive to the skinny chics. I like for a woman to have some meat on her bones. Do you live near me?
2007-03-12 00:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Big girls have hearts too,and a lot of fun,i don't know why so many people put down big people,as long as that person takes good care of there self.
2007-03-12 00:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
bbws...oh yeah....some guys love the big women....mostly black guys>>lol..but hey they got big dongs....i am not 40, but i could see a girl your size very attractive (the weight has to be in all the right places)
i am 18, so i probably shouldn't of answered this question..but what they hey
2007-03-12 00:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No complants from this end! I prefer ones that are VERY confident. And with a sense of Humor. If you have those? I know you'll be happy soon. Good Luck
2007-03-12 00:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im in my forty-i date so called big ladies-i date unattractive ladies-im no catch my self -but hey big ladies and even unattractive ladies are down to earth-not hung up on them selfs- go out with a big lady or unattractive lady and i find that i had a beautiful time-we both forget thats she a big lady or unattractive lady-and if i can say with a big lady and a unattractive lady with me the sex been wonderful-better than with a foxy or sexy lady-there so much feeling it hard to image- i know i stick with the big ladies and unattractive-ladys
2007-03-12 00:13:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but it all depends on where you are proportioned. If you have a small waist usually you are fine.
2007-03-12 00:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by tha_best 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are attractive. Many guys would date you.
2007-03-12 00:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by Dumbass 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, i don't mind as long as they are goodlooking and not a snob.anything above 100.
2007-03-12 00:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by alec. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋