If I open my heart to her?

Question

She says I'm "very very funny" but when I see her now I become speechless. Our eyes lock and we both become intense. What if I loved her? I know I am physically attracted to her, so it must be just lust? No other girl is like her, she has nice brown eyes, dimples, medium straight/curly hair. Alittle shorter than myself. Like an Ann Frank kind of, and she's brilliant. Kind, Full of heart. Smart,talented,gifted. If I open up-- I want to...... I'm 16 and so is she. I'm 5'9 she's probablly 5'6/5'7. It is tense. I want to open up to her. But the problem is, I have barely talked to her. She has always initated the "conversation" and I become dumber than usual and don't say much. My sister and friend say talk to her. I want to take her to the movie #23 on the 23rd. Is that too quick? My sister says don't overanalyze everything she might only like you as a friend. I however, am deeply attracted to her. I think of her constantly. She thinks I'm funny, all her friends seem to like me. If I

screw up with the good girl, I will be deeply depressed to the point where maybe I need more anti-depressants. lol?

Answer 1

Take her to the movies ASAP! You will find out how much she likes you there. Don't tell her how much you like her right away because you might scare her away if it's too early. Show her with your actions. Open doors for her and treat her like you give a damn. She will respond if she likes you and if she doesn't let her go. Being funny is cool but don't get caught in a situation where you get branded as the "cute funny guy" nobody wants to date. She wants a man so act like one. Show her you know how to go for what you want in life. If that's her right now so be it.

Answer 2

I think your sister is right, you are over thinking the situation. If you want to get to know her a little bit better don't ask her to a movie, but ask her for coffee or lunch or something. Some place where you two can sit down and have a conversation. You don't have to tell her that you think about her all of the time but don't be afraid to tell her that she makes you nervous. I think girls get a little bit of a kick out of that. Then ask her to a movie or even just spontaneously go to the movie after your coffee.

Answer 3

You have to learn how to relax...this most likely has nothing to do with love, however. Nonetheless, the attraction is there. I would say, instead of opening up with her, show her you admire her. compliment her, flirt with her. Plus, the more you do this the more comfortable you'll be talking with her in general. Trust me, she notices you get tense when you're together, and she probably thinks its cute. Don't tell her you like her though-because she already assumes this. Leave her on edge, and drop hints that you "might
be into her. But most affectively, you have to get her to like you. Build chemistry and desire. Get her attention, after all she got yours. So be appealing to her and just practice relaxing around her...being funny doesn't always get the girl, but being attracted and liked does...i know this is long but i hope it helps.

Answer 4

I don't think anyone gets so confused, nervous, and willing to share their story with the world in yahoo answers over lust. So you must really like her. As your sister tells you "dont over analyze and go talk to her"
It's not too quick to go to the movies on the 23rd. But this week, make sure you talk to her. Next week, you ask her out. Just breath deeply, and go for it :)
Good luck

Answer 5

obviously you are in lust with this girl. it is normal when you meant someone... the reason i believe you are is because you havent said that you always talk to her.... you need to do this... looks can be deceiving.... and her personality maybe total opposite of what you image it to be.. bottom line is you need to be her friend before you tell her all these thing... friendship is the base of ANY relationship. I've been with my boy for 2 years now... If you rush things you may scare her off... and of course you dont want to do that... BE HER FRIEND FIRST... and if the feeling is mutual ..... a deeper relationship WILL follow.... so do what your sister say.. talk to her... dont over analyse... get to know her as a person first so you can reassure yourself your dont only like her for her looks.. get to know her.. good luck!

Answer 6

Hey there well I think you are in trouble i think it might be that you are just attracted to her i would say but if you like her for real figure out what you're true intentions are with her like fore say;she makes you feel special, you miss talking to her, you think of her a lot during the day, things like that then take it easy when you ask her to the movies.But ask the questions to you're self first or else you might get hurt.GOOD LUCK!

Answer 7

hahaha
it's cute.
you know... just take it easy and take it as a friend.'
the best thing that can happen is, that she likes you as a friend first and than she falls in love.
don't go to fast on thing in spy of relationship and everything.
things happen by them self if you do your part.
but you can;t start in the middle of the rode, start from the beginning.
friendship is always a smart first move.
by the way, my boyfriend is the same way, he is soooo funny, always laughs and jocks but when he is with me, he gets so quit at times, and seams like dumb. whats that all about????

Good luck

Answer 8

omg go for it you sound so sweet
aww i really really hope it works out for you
i haven't heard a guy describe real feelings for a girl in a long time
i always hear how much they want to sleep with a girl and dump her
you really should go for it
a true connection on more than just the physical-that's hard to find!
good luck!!! =)

Answer 9

I think you need to keep it simple and just let it roll if she is always talking to you then let her talk but girls really like it even if thy are doing most of the talking if you start it, just say hi and ask her how she is and then let her talk girls like to talk lol

Answer 10

don't over analize this buddy...you are thinking too much....just tell her that you want her number...do it this week...she will probably give it to ya.(then next week give her a call)....ask her out on a date type thing...she will probably go cause she will think you have confindence....then you never say anything to creep her out..(like i want to open my heart to you)...take it slow and see how things go...Rome wasn't built in a day....you just got to come off to her that you are interested ....(not obessed)

Follow my advice and you will get this girl