Which is worse? staying with someone who you are still very attracted to and in love with but treats you poorly, or staying with someone who you have no feelings for anymore and physical attraction is completely gone but who treats you very well??? pls. tell me coz i am in one of these situations...
2007-03-11 17:05:00 · 5 answers · asked by 3kidsandahubby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If I were you I would leave both of them and find some one who will respect your feelings and treat you for what you are.
2007-03-11 17:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same exact situation. The one guy is so nice and yet just doesn't do it for me. The other guy is so sexy but can be the ultimate jerk most of the time. I have spent alot of time with this ussue and here is what has worked for me. I had to let the nice guy go because when it comes down to it, it is just not fair for anyone to pretend to have a connection with someone. As far as the guy that is hot but treats me badly, well, I still speak with him on the phone but no matter what I know in my heart that being treated poorly is not the way to go and I deserve better. So my advice, put yourself first, find a guy who is the whole package because anything else is unfullfilling and a complete waste of time, Get rid of them both and move on because you never know what else is out there if you are wasting your own time, Good luck girl.
2007-03-11 17:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
someone who treats you well.
if you choose to stay with the person who treats you poorly,you are likely to get hurted.
if you feel guilty for the someone who treats you well, you can started treating him/her better.
so..NICENESS!
2007-03-11 17:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by ddeprressedd .- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see, physical beauty doesn't last forever. So find someone who loves you the way you are and should not consider you as a mere dumb doll.
2007-03-11 18:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Would Want someone who is nice to me, because at least then, i wouldnt be getting as hurt
2007-03-11 17:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by shalini s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋