Recently I had sex with a guy knowing full well that it wouldn't lead to anything, hoping that our friendship wouldn't change. Well I'm afraid it has....my ques is, is it possible for a man or a woman to have sex without an attraction? Doesn't their need to be something there, since they are doing it in the first place??? I'm attracted to him, when I asked him, he gave me some crap about pheremones. I hope I've made some sense...and thanks ahead of time for your answer(s).
2007-03-11 17:07:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if a man and a women have sex than there is an attraction. if u just found out that he does not have any attraction than u are called a b****. or he just used u to have sex...
2007-03-11 17:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sagar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i fyou want to be with someone there absolutely has to be love and attraction and it has to be mutual. other wise things get messy. If you love someone but your not attracted to them DO NOT have a romantic relationship because sex is part of a healthy relationship and you need to feel the attraction to have good sex, without good sex you wont be truly happy together.
2007-03-12 00:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there has to be attraction (or alcohol) and it will change your relationship with him and his line about pheromones is crap he either wants you or doesn't (having already slept with you though apparently he wanted it).
2007-03-12 00:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by donaldjasonblair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋