Well my Army Reserve unit has been put on alert for 90 days and theres a 50/50 chance (chea right thats what they say) that we may be going over sees. I dont mind,but my exgirlfriend and I havent been together for a couple months and just a few minutes ago I called her ( Ino Ino it was a bad move) and we got into a fight. I love her and I cant stop thinking about her. Its been through hell and back after our break up. I dont know what to do If im sent over and I dont end up getting back together with her before I leave. I dont wanna have this on my mind while im over there. We went for 1 year and three months. I just need to talk to her 1 on 1 and tell her how I feel, but as obvious she says no. I feel like im racing agianst time. HELP???
2007-03-11 16:58:11 · 2 answers · asked by Danny/Edgar B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I say tell her how u feel, wether its a text message or something, i know u wanna linger to ur relationship, but if ur being deployed, it means she's back to being single. Because obviously u wont be there for her. I dont think getting back together is a good idea. But whatever choice u make, u need to talk to her first.
2007-03-11 17:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by sourgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a letter, that youd like to see her and that you are about to be deployed, and tell her in the letter how you feel and be real honest with her now if she does not want to talk to you after that then your gonna have to let her go get on with your life. Find some one new. Maybe that fish was not the one ment for you.
2007-03-12 00:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by dianemelloniemarlenejerryginder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋