suppose your 2 yrs partner loves you so god damn much and you equally love someone else that much. It has come to a point where you think you can't be happy without that someone. what will you do? would stay with your current partner, considering that s/he has been with you for 2 yrs and gave you nothing but love and loyalty and be unhappy for the rest of you life; or will you go after your that someone and try to be happy in your life?
2007-03-11 17:42:40 · 11 answers · asked by Danny's Not Cool 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You must have been with the partner for two years for a reason. If you've changed now what makes you think you won't change again? What makes you think you'll never love them again and will always love the other? And are you sure the other one will love you too?
I say try to forget about the other one and see what happens in a little time. See if things get back to how they were with the first one. If not, well, there you go.
2007-03-11 17:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by John's Secret Identity™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People like you are why there's so many divorces in this world today.What are you asking is it okay to hurt someone and cheat on them rip their heart out so YOU CAN BE HAPPY...you would not know happiness if it hit you in the Face...Come on do the right thing You don't know what Love is.or you would not be in this dilemma.Period & Pargraph.
Try being honest with yourself and both Ladies involved.then make a clean break from both of them and get some Counseling.You need it.Romeo.
2007-03-12 01:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your sure that you do love the other one as much as you think you do. Or if its just a crush that you havent seem to check off your list.
You need to really ask yourself do I love her or do I just want 2 be with her cause shes available now. Does she feel the same way as you do for her?
But I say if you dont love your current gf then your gonna have 2 tell her cause its not fair on her that you dont return those feelings that she has 4 u.
So your gonna have 2 end it with your current gf but br8 it 2 her gently but honestly.
Sorry if this sounds harsh but sometimes you have 2 be cruel to be kind
2007-03-12 00:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy you are in the middle! Have you asked yourself if that person you like only gives you pleasure or love? you should leave the person you are currently dating you're only lying to her and you're self if you don't like her don't her her tell her the truth if you like someone else you are obviously not happy but if you feel something for that relationship you've had for a long time i would totally choose the long time one and fight for her.Keep this in mind though You're happiness comes before anything or anyone! Good Luck!
2007-03-12 00:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by Lorena N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy answer. If you go chasing someone else you will hurt (very badly) the person you are currently with. This same thing happened to a friend of mine. His girlfriend was my friend but I no longer speak to her because I feel what she did was selfish. If you don't want to be with someone then leave but leave that person with there dignity intact. Do not under any circumstances ever tell the person you are leaving them for someone else, it would destroy the person. Please make sure you don't love this person anymore before moving on, and take your time getting involved with a new relationship. Ultimatly you have to be sure you are comfortable with your decision. Good Luck.
2007-03-12 00:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by Chrissy #1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you leave someone that gave you love and loyalty for someone else it will come back on you.What make you think this person is going to love you more.I would give just about anything to have someone that gave me love and loyalty.
2007-03-12 00:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lady T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st of all i'd say you owe it to the partner to tell them how you feel so they can heal and move on.but i also am a firm believer in what goes around comes around so when you do let the person that is so devoted to you go for another you person that you love just as much,the same is gonna happen to you.good luck
2007-03-12 01:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by mrs.dynomite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not happy then dont stay in the relationship, i was just in the same situation. yeah it will hurt them but if they truly love you then they would want nothing more but to see you happy, even if that means you being with someone else.
2007-03-12 00:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by Nicolle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i've been thier. it was also around our two year mark. But i stayed with him and eventually things did get a lot better.
remember Your relationship will only die if you let it.
2007-03-12 01:00:10 · answer #9 · answered by night_lilly66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably be grateful for what you got.
2007-03-12 00:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋