Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

a question then i think its only fair that they vote you had the best answer, dont you agree? Why dont people vote?

2007-03-09 01:34:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i never known, what was the best thing that happened in my life. and am still searching of it. how about u?

2007-03-09 01:33:30 · 12 answers · asked by EJ 2 in Friends

my stomach hurts when i think of her and i know she likes me because she flirts with me and the way she's protective when other girls try to talk to me. i just need help i dont know what to do. should i stay quit?

2007-03-09 01:32:43 · 9 answers · asked by DiSGUY 2 in Singles & Dating

long story on how we broke up- though it was her doing and we met up a few times after- was stringing me along and messing with my head. eventually turnt round and said she never wanted me to see/speak to her again.

left it few days then phoned her when i was drunk- we spoke and she seemed different, left it that i said for her to txt me.

to this date havent heard anything- been around 2 weeks. i miss her company but dunno if i miss her/us.

Id lvoe to see her again as we have stuff of eachother and photos she asked for when she broke up.

Should i give up hope of her ever contacting me? or just give her space? been told by alot of people she is a fool for ending it with me and it seems as though she works alot more and just goes up the pub!

if your with someone for two years then suddenly they are gone....do you miss them? because id love to know whether she misses me or not

2007-03-09 01:32:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm seeing this guy and we are kinda "hanging out" (if you know what I mean), but now i think I want to be more serious. How do I broach the issue with him without scarying him away?

2007-03-09 01:30:50 · 10 answers · asked by Tweety 2 in Singles & Dating

I was at my Chiropractor's office and he knows I'm going through divorce proceedings. After a few visits, he mentioned that he would rather have me for a patient, then my soon to be ex husband, (who was his patient also). He's said this a few times to me. Then, one day, I dropped off something for him (some food) at his office. His receptionist came down to the lobby to get it. She said to me that he said to tell me he was going to marry me as soon as I was available. I brought it up to him again, and he shyly smiled and said yeah. Then, a few weeks ago, I told him I was still working on the financial details of my divorce; but I was going to take him up on his proposal. He said yeah, that's right, and gave a little laugh and smile. I am extremely attracted to this man. I had asked him once during a phone conversation if he had anyone special in his life and he said no.

2007-03-09 01:30:43 · 22 answers · asked by wayouthere 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I posted a question last week saying that my mom was sick and should i go to see her after 10 years, Thanks for all of your helpful answers...My mom died last night and I did not feel anything nor did I cry at all! My siblings are calling after 11 years expecting me to give them money for flowers and such, well i feel I will bring/send my own flowers if i feel the need and i don't want to have nothing to do with those IMBECELLES that have not thought a thing about me for over 10 years and now asking for money? give me a break! Am i wrong for not wanting to be bothered with those loooooooooosers? I guess some part of me still loves my mom but i can't get it together right now to visit the funeral home.

2007-03-09 01:29:36 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Watch your wife get in on with another guy? Especially if he is bigger than you? or do you think it would excite you?

2007-03-09 01:28:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well, i am really interested in this boy.... (if you havnt read my other q's) and his family takes their faith very seriously. they think that it is a sin to wear make-up.
so do i stop (and just look horrible) or go nuetral.
what would you do?

2007-03-09 01:28:15 · 11 answers · asked by smcopeland16 3 in Singles & Dating

I use to have a really great relationship in every aspect of a relationship. Now, we are a great team with our girls and we are great friends but if I could put our sex life in a scale from 1-10 I’d rate it a 5. In the other hand, my husband sees our sex life as satisfying.

Communication is the key right? I’ve noticed communication only works if the other person is willing to listen. I have tried everything, I can think of to spice it up and nothing seems to work.

Now I ask myself, is this the way life goes, you do the school thing, get the career, the house, the children and just live the rest of your days enjoying everything you have worked for. While deep inside you walk around feeling like somewhere along the way a mistake was made.

You can't start over.

What would you do?

2007-03-09 01:28:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I can't deal with this anymore. We are planning our wedding (2.June) and instead thinking about that, my fiance keeps annoying me with his NEED of money. I'm employed and he's not, and keeps asking money from me, it is never enough for him. I plan on spending money on a trip and he argues how I spend and I won't give him money. He really annoys me. He doesn't won't to askhis mother for money (who takes two sallaries and lives with us). I think he wants to squezze me. What should I do?How can I explain him that ? Just don't tell me to leave him.

2007-03-09 01:27:32 · 20 answers · asked by bilezlatko 3 in Marriage & Divorce

onetime there was this girl at chruch she saw me and she got touge tie after i shake her hand she looks on the ground and lauge and smile and after she say i was cute sometimes when she see i am looking at her she twist her hair and looking at me and she stares at me alot to. what does it mean do we love each orter we look in are like 80 secs sometimes why?

2007-03-09 01:27:16 · 7 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

im a stay at home mom now. my husband owns his own company. we have a 6 year old and 3 month old. i am not very nice to my husband. i dont really talk to him, not very affectionant, go to bed without saying good night, and so on. maybe its just stress from a new baby. i dont think im depressed cus im happy most of the time. i just think about a lot of stuff. i wish i had a real wedding, a honeymoon, i would like a bigger car, i have a lot of medical bills, our electic bill is past due, i want to have money to get my hair done and eyebrows waxed- but dont want to use money for that. i have no money available to me unless he gives me some. my name is not on the bank account-this bugs me alot. i just need some advice. i love him with all my heart and he deserves to be treated better

2007-03-09 01:26:55 · 13 answers · asked by mandyleigh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-09 01:26:51 · 5 answers · asked by Angel S 1 in Friends

(Please assume all contestants are equally good-looking).

- Joe from accounts. She wears a skimpy blue blouse and is often referred to playfully as 'the office bicycle'.
- Paul, your boss. He is slightly balding, but happens to be rather rich.
- Samantha, your other boss. She happens to be in the first blush of her middle age and dresses rather prudishly.
- Charlie the intern.
- Silent Bobby - not very talkative.

2007-03-09 01:25:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and are working things out. Why are they always told NEVER to bring up the affair again. How do you heal yourself or the relationship if the issues and questions are not resloved? And how can you put a time frame on the healing and needing answers. I understand that you should not harp on the subject 24/7...but sometimes you just need answers and reassurance. Why should the betrayed suffer alone with questions and concerns when the other spouse is the one that put them in that position? I am in the process of forgiving, and we are doing quite well...but I do not know what I would do if he expected me not to EVER bring it up again. He has been perfectly willing to answer any questions I may have. Just wondering if I am the only person that feels that "ignoring" the unanswered questions or concerns will do more harm to the relationship?

2007-03-09 01:25:44 · 8 answers · asked by Nothing but the truth...!! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend just lost her father last week and ever since, she has been really distant. She doesn't want to talk to me, and she is not affectionate at all. I can understand the affection part, but she doesn't talk to me. I want her to know I'm there for her. I'm afraid this is going to be permanant, and it's going to drive a wedge between us. What can I do?

2007-03-09 01:25:30 · 8 answers · asked by traemarlow 1 in Singles & Dating

random question, can get some interesting answers though

2007-03-09 01:25:05 · 3 answers · asked by Kelsey K 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 01:25:01 · 6 answers · asked by nick 1 in Singles & Dating

i like two people at the same time, im dating one of them and was going out with the other, i know what one i should be with and he's a really decent bloke but i miss the other one i cant choose, i dont wanna hurt anyone but in the end i know its me who's going to loose out in the end. need advice its all i can think about.

2007-03-09 01:24:24 · 18 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a Christian girl and I want my man to be man enough to ask me out- not me ask him..But I feel like I will stay single all my life and it freaks me out. I want a loving husband and family. I get depressed and feel my life has no future...What can I do..

2007-03-09 01:24:09 · 5 answers · asked by country gal 1 in Singles & Dating

Either for fun or because they need or want discipline in their lives. In both cases--consensually.

2007-03-09 01:23:24 · 9 answers · asked by bwelter1951 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, my mother is driving me insane. I am paying for my entire wedding, she hasn't given me a dime or even offered to physically help. When I ask her to buy a nice dress it's a problem. She doesn't want to spend a lot of money on a dress that she can only wear once! She is fighting with me that she wants a black dress because she thinks she can wear it again. I am ready to kill her, I told her any color but black!! She more concerned with the fact it should be versatile then the fact that it's my wedding. I have only ask her to do this one small thing for me!! We are going to David's bridal tomorrow and I know it's going to be a fight. One of my bridesmaids said I should just give up and let her wear a black dress to keep her quite. I also think because my mother has been constantly negatively commenting my wedding and plans it making me even more pissed that she won't listen to me. For example, I registered for Mikasa china because it's nice but it's not as $$$ and it goes on sale, plus macy's allows you to use a coupon on it. So it's a nice set but at the same time, it won't cost my guest a fortune plus I can afford to buy the missing pieces after the wedding. My mother looks at a piece of it that I just got (for my birthday) and comments on how it's cheap and that Wedgwood is soo much better!!?? She fighting about buying a $200 dress but she is commenting on Wedgwood???!!! AS if she would buy or own a piece of Wedgwood!!?? And she doesn't like that I registered at Macy's because she doesn't like going in there.... she much rather I registered at Wal-Mart but she commenting on Wedgwood!!??
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!
Ok, with all that said- Do I try to make her look presentable or let her wear a black dress??
PS- I am paying for everything else for her like to have her hair and professional makeup done for the wedding. She seriously only has to buy a dress and a pair of shoes!!

2007-03-09 01:23:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-09 01:22:44 · 14 answers · asked by LusT aFter INsaNIty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it possible to last long with your bf or gf,and your pregnant?Im 19 and Im pregnant,My bf and I love each other very much and we are thinking of gettin married now,can our relationship last? I mena we are young and WE do want to get married its our decision.but can it last?

2007-03-09 01:22:09 · 21 answers · asked by Curiouz 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 01:22:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am really shy to ask girls out, but what can i do? How can i ask them out knowing i won't get rejected?

2007-03-09 01:21:34 · 12 answers · asked by hellopanda 2 in Singles & Dating

I started seeing this guy a month ago and for the first two weeks things were really really intense and he seemed really interested.. in terms of texting taking me out... meeting up etc.. he said the best things to me...

Things all got a bit insense and so we decided to calm things down a bit... that was a mutual decision as we were both scared as we had got really close...

now he hardly texts, i feel like I am chasing him and even though I do see him, its once a week and although he seems interested its very different..

should i bother?? is he really bothered?

2007-03-09 01:20:24 · 11 answers · asked by Lola* 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 01:20:10 · 21 answers · asked by you are my angel 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 01:19:47 · 21 answers · asked by Buttons 1 in Marriage & Divorce