But now that we are married and in the same house, he never touches me! He has a 12 yr old and I have a 16 yr old g& he is so worried "they'll hear us(an excuse)." Even when we are on vacation alone, he is not interested in me. I am very attractive, fit, and get men's attention all the time. He tells me I'm "too aggressive" or "assertive", & it turns him off. So I ignored him and before I knew it - a month went by and he never approached me!! Then he tells me I bring it up too much, so I didn't bring it up for a month and guess what? Nothing. I am so frustrated and angry with him. Otherwise, he is a loving, attentive and responsible man in every other way except for the bedroom. I've tried sexy lingerie to suggesting watching porn together - he is not interested. I feel like we're roommates. We are finally going to therapy next week, but he says even that is a "turn-off". I thought he was cheating or gay, but with a little detective work & today's "technology", I found nothing.
2007-03-09
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festivus64
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Marriage & Divorce