Prom situation NEED ADVICE?

Question

Ok here is the deal i am a senior guy and attend a small school like under 40 in my senior class. I am 18 and a great guy i mean im well liked, senior favorite, class rep etc.... As most know prom is approaching and I am seriously considering to ask this girl. THE PROBLEM: This girl is 14 and a freshmen. Now before you all think im sick....I have ZERO intention of doing anything bad because I really dont want to get into trouble. All i want to do is ask her and give her the opportunity to go and have a good time. Keep in mind I DO NOT WANT TO GET "LUCKY". All i want is to have a fun time. So what is everyones inputs on this?? Any advice is wonderful because Im going to ask someone soon and it would be great to ask her. Thanks

Answer 1

Aww, why not ask her?! You seem like a nice guy, and she'll probably have a lot of fun.

Go for it!

Answer 2

I think that you should ask her to the Prom, there have been several situations of Seniors asking Freshman. Let her know that you would like for her to go to Prom with you, tell her parents that you would like to take her and show that your intentions are good.

Pick her up on time, get her home by her curfew and you should be fine.

Have fun and enjoy yourself!

Answer 3

If your intentions are pure, and you really just want to invite her to have a good time then go for it. As a Freshman I went to prom with a senior who did the same thing. He invited me to go so that I would have a good time, and be able to attend.
First things first, make sure she knows you are not expecting anything. secondly make sure her parents know this also.
If she and her parents agree...then by all means take her and have a good time. Make sure you stick to her curfew on prom night.

Answer 4

I understand that you don't want to get some from this child, but you need to remember that she is just that, a child. You are 18 find a girl who is 16 or older. you really shouldn't ask her. It's just not right. Do you honestly think her parents would approve of her going to prom with you?

Answer 5

A girl in my class was a grad escort in grade 7 and she got made fun of until her own grad for it. Not viciouly, just teased a bit. It depends on the girl though. How old does she look and act? I don't mean look in a superficial way, it's just that it will make a difference if she looks older. And how old do you act/look?

btw my school had no classes over 20 people

Answer 6

I would ask her soon AND (bc of the age and experience difference betw. you), make it clear to her, and to her family, if need be, that:

--This will be a "group date" to the prom,

--There will be NO alcohol,

--No after-parties will occur that are unsupervised or unchaparoned by an adult(s).

--No hotel rooms will be filled with just kids, etc.

--One of her friends and that friend's date are included in the "group".

--There will be a designated driver if there are people in the party old enough to drink--but to be safe, request/require that everyone in the group be clean of substances and sober all night.

Have fun.

Answer 7

First ask your real friends to make sure what they think; not a whole bunch of people you meet on the net. Next talk to her about it and see what she thinks (don't mention your going to ask her to the prom). Probably talk to your parents about it but thats your choice it depends on your parents. And if they all thinks its cool then you should ask her (and if she says anything about you telling her you weren't going to ask her just say you were embaressed and didn't want to tell her right away).Good Luck

Answer 8

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Answer 9

dude, im older and ive been to dances with younger.lol. theres nothin wrong with havin a good time. good times dont always have to include sex and drugs and all that crap. ppl do stuff with younger ppl all the time, its jus hangin out havin fun. thats all. id say, from my exp. dont sweat it. if you can, try someone around your own age, just so ppl wont git the wrong idea bout you. but you know your friends know who you are, so they arent gonna think your some pedophile, your just a dude tryin to have fun at your prom with your friends right? its just some of your friends are younger than others, some ppl wont be able to see it. but some will, so i say dwai (dont worry about it), youll be cool.

Answer 10

its just a dance, and so what if you are four years apart. go ahead and ask her. if she says yes (and why wouldn't she) make sure to arrage a meeting with her parents, they may not be cool with the age difference. put their minds at ease, treat your date like a princess and have the time of your life.