Whenever I do something my brother always come anf disturb me.Can u help me that how can I stop him.If u say beating him then it will not work because I had already tried it many times.
Please! Please!
Help me
2007-03-09 00:46:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell your mum, what's the problem, that's what brother do.
2007-03-09 00:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep patience, do not beat him any more and do not complain against him to your elders every now and then, at least not in his presence . Raise your consciousness to a little higher level and take a wider look at the problem. Be cool and try to understand the situation.Its normal, its OK. First of all accept him as he is, understand him, love him, show your care and concern for him. When he disturbs you, do not get irritiated, pretend that you are not getting disturbed by him but you are enjoying his presence. Get involved with him, participate actively in conversation with him and slowly and tactfully divert his mind towards some interesting & constructive conversation or activity. Identify his good aspects/traits/habits/talents/interests etc and appritiate him for these in personal and sometimes infront of others also. Motivate him to do better things and support him in doing so.This will make you to gain his faith and respect. After achievig this only, you should tell him that his so on so thing/habit/act disturbs and hurts you. Now you will find that he has started understanding you and caring for you. Though it will take quite a some time, intelligent effort with enough of patiece from your part but be sure that it will work and will make your relations sweet, warm and worth for ever.
2007-03-11 17:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ravi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case your brother disturbs you the subsequent time, first talk to him with courtesy telling him to not disturb you. If he maintains to disturb you, purely tell the subject on your mothers and fathers. they'll definetely form this subject.
2016-10-17 22:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe itz bcoz ur brother doesn't have a friend to play with. or it could be his way to get ur attention. well, beating him is not the good answer. u could talk and ask him not to bother u with wisely attitude. but if its not working, maybe u should tell ur parents about it. good luck.
2007-03-09 01:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky you have a brother to disturb you!
2007-03-10 23:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by jammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants your attention?
2007-03-09 01:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's his job!!!!
2007-03-09 01:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋