One special night, your boyfriend chats with his friend ( a girl ) happily. And you feel uncomfortable. You just want to be alone with your boyfriend.
2007-03-09 00:33:38 · 11 answers · asked by Kirsch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learn to trust him.
2007-03-09 00:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by loveless_sselevol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to get rid of it, it's a human emotion, but you don't have to show it to him.
Feeling jelousy when it's over something you described is a good thing because it raises little red flags to you. It doesn't mean that he's a dog, but it keeps you alert to that possibility. People who turn a blind eye and miss all the signs are the ones who get treated like a doormat all their lives. Now I don't mean that he's cheating, I just mean you need to look for a pattern to get to know what kind of guy he is and if he really puts you first.
His conversation may really have been innocent, but being uncomfortable about it, just means you're alert and that's good.
Don't show him though since this is his first time and nothing came of it. You want to be aware, but you don't want to show that you're an insecure girl.
2007-03-09 00:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by TJTB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is such an ugly virtue, find things fun and interesting to talk with him about. If its meant to be it will all work out. Just because a boy talks to a girl doesn't mean that they will get it together. Good Luck
2007-03-09 00:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hai ya,if my bf chat with a girl it is very normally one.pls open ur mind n relax it is a friends look like a small matter 4 ur self ok!why want to be a jealous person n u also can chat that girl mah. good luck!
2007-03-09 00:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admit I have trouble with Jelousy...(Jewish girls are born with it I think). But sometimes you have to pull yourself back and stop thinking negative and the feeling passes. But its hard when you really care about someone to not get jelous. The point is to not make that person suffer for your own silly jelousy / insecurities.
2007-03-09 00:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by one 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohhhhhh i'd wanna scratch her eyes out. I always get SO jealous and dont know why even little things send me mad my partner just thinks its funny cos i'm a bit fiesty. You unfortunately cant get rid of jealousy its just part of who we are
2007-03-09 00:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a stinky colonge..You need to get over your insecurity because jealousy will ruin a relationship.
2007-03-09 00:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
go over to that girl and give her a big sloppy kiss and the feeling of jealousy should dissappear. Scientific fact and will entertain your man
2007-03-09 00:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by Wookie the Cookie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i dont know. i only get 'jealous' if there is a bond going on. or if she seems really happy and doesn't give me attention.
my intentions are to kill the guy, though.
2007-03-09 00:36:49 · answer #9 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I PERSONALLY THINK YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO BE JEALOUS. I WOULD BE. WHY IS HE TALKING TO HER??? I WOULD BE IN DIVORCE COURT IF MY HUSBAND DID THAT. IF HE IS DOING THAT AS A BOYFRIEND THEN YOU KNOW HE WILL DO IT AS A HUSBAND. YOU DON'T NEED THAT DRAMA IN YOUR LIFE. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN IT GOES FROM TALKING TO SEX . WITH A BOY AND GIRL FRIENDSHIP IT ALWAYS WILL.
2007-03-09 00:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by CNT 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋