actually, i m a muslim n she iz hindu but we r very gud frnd she also likes me. but she cant go against her family we both cant live widout each other plz help me
2007-03-09 00:37:28 · 8 answers · asked by welcome2parisworld 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Buddy you got 2 more years to mark your career. Don't waste your time. Life's gonna offer you a lot more later if you could contribute to your own values.
And if you still feel like sticking yourself with your so called love. Just try and impress her parents. If they like you, religion won't be an issue.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-09 11:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still studying in first year and the girl in second year.
at this age there is every chance of mistaking companionship for ''LOVE''.
You told that you have been in love with her for the past 1 year and month exactly.So you know the time elapsed between the incident you first saw her and now, you very consciously remember.But in true love this does not happen and you feel you have fallen into love ages back and do not remember anything like the time.
Next, you are still students .....without any degree or post graduation to make yor life happy.This is not the time to lose time feeling that you are in love with some body, and lose your exam.Concentrate on the studies you both.Come out with flying colours in the exams.Until then be friends,true friends and exchange your views and try to understand what Life is and what your plans are.By the time you finishyour educational courses , you will understand each better and there might be many changes during the period.Perhaps she may find another friend of her choice or you may find another more attractive friend and , then you can exchange your views openly.A friend always wants the other to be HAPPY.So don't get disappointed or try to cry.That is not the end of the world.
FIRST FINISH THE EDUCATIONAL COURSES WITH COMMITMENT AND COE OUT SUCCESSFULLY.
Meanwhile so many changes may take place.Don't entertain ideas like marriage etc now itself, you both.
Next you told that you two belong to different religions.How far can she get adjusted to your culture and traditions, and how far you can get adjusted her culture and traditions is a BIG QUESTION.
Now, at this stage it looks simple...but in the long run it creates a gulf of difference and you may not live together.
Don't mistake LIKING or INFATUATION or the Physical attraction to be TRUE LOVE.
You will know what it is later.Even, what Iam telling now may sound unpalatable to both of you.
It is very very difficult to adjust to the traditions,food habits and cultural activities of another religion.So after completing your educational courses you can think of living together or marrying.
Also ,remember your parents who are toiling like anything to see that you become some worthy citizen and be of some help to them in their old age.Remember what they are doing for you.If you decide to go against their wishes, think or imagine tomorrow your son or daughter behaving in the same way you decide.What would be your reactions and feelings.
So youngman, don't be carried away in the stram of so called Love.
THINK,USE YOUR MIND,THINK FROM HERSIDE TOO.
Definitely ,I think you will appreciate what has been said.
Good luck to both of you in exams and Life.
May wisdom dawn upon you both.
God bless you.
2007-03-09 01:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by Radhakrishna( prrkrishna) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God, this is hard when religion gets involved. As Asians, I understand the concept of parental acceptance. Now, unless you can both convince your families, it's ill-fated and you should both be prepared to accept that. So sound her out and let her sound her family out if she feels like doing so. She can tell them you're a nice guy & they might want to meet you to be sure. And you do likewise with your family. Be prepared to have it blow up in your faces though. Some parents can be very strict. But you both decide if it is worth the risk. If it seems ok, then go for it. Else, remain good friends.
2007-03-09 00:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do u think that you r living in that 1960-70 or 80 we have already leave our unrealistic views, I know society, religion, is a factor but if she wants & you wants to love her then why you are are going indulge another life. she never be happy without u. Convince her that god is one and love is the blessing of GOD. So just open your eyes and say that I love U and wanting to marry you.
2007-03-13 00:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shahrukh khan is a Muslim and his wife GAURI is a Hindu. set religion apart and love blindly only then will u be able to love and enjoy this only life.
in our vast family we have..
Hindu, gujrati.christian,parsi.muslim.bengali, name anyone and we have in our family, jat and Sikh lineage too. believe me we must follow sania mirza 4 her boldness. how much longer will we remain mentally dwarfed? follow ur religion yes but never let it come in the way of LOVE. BE BOLD a faint heart never made a lover.
2007-03-09 01:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the beginning, does the two of them extremely be responsive to what love trully is? i don't see something incorrect with 2 childrens falling in love. If each and every physique waited until they have been "mature" sufficient to ensure their destiny no person could be married. until you're an previous formed couple, no person could "direct" the dating. additionally, why might it remember in case you won't be able to get married "outstanding now"? greater importantly, if the guy asking this question is a sort of two human beings, you at the instant are not waiting to get married.
2016-10-17 22:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something out of a movie..In the end they both run away together and have a happy ending but then the guy gets shot
2007-03-09 00:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by IC4NDY_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sharukh Khan is muslim and his wife is Hindu. Wohi Hoga jo Manzur-E-Khuda Hoga
2007-03-09 01:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by Bacti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋