Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

is it better to be with a guy whom u luv or to be with the 1 who luvs u? i had a boyfrnd and we were very much in luv. but then suddenly after around 2 months he stopped talking to me n never replyed my calls or msgs for next 1 month. i simply accepted that he had broken up. then 1 guy from my nearby college called me up and asked me to be his friend. he said he has seen me many times n really likes me...... well then we startd datin n he made me feel like he cares for me. my ex came to know about it n then he clarifyed that he has always cared for me but bcuz of his strict mom and some exams he couldnt talk to me i realised my mistake but it was too late. now my ex and i realised that we cant stay without each other and r back again. my 2nd boyfriend has never made me cry and says that he still luvs me and will be always there for me . he is not even seeing any other gal. my bf fights with me.many guys *** 2 me n every1 says im hot n swt whos the betr one? who wants 2 jus use me?

2007-03-09 01:03:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just my doubt.

2007-03-09 01:02:33 · 5 answers · asked by babu v 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 01:01:20 · 23 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

When he and I got together, he had just come out of the hospital and suffered a divorce which left him pretty much penniless. So I have helped him. I love him and want to marry him, but he says he is not ready to get married. Will this relationship last? Is it love?

2007-03-09 01:01:19 · 38 answers · asked by black widow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We r both married and say we will not have an affair nor r interestead in each other, however at work we are always joking talking, going for coffee. When talking to me she often touches me and sometimes hesitates touching me. When we work we work but when we play we do just as hard. When talking to me she is often in my space and often appears jumpy and recently there have been things if you dont do this I will swueeze the juice outa u or what do I get if and insinuations of can I see then I say yes then she says grioss. When on the phone we talk and one of us will say we have to go or don't u have to go then we talk even more. We from time to time buy each other drinks and talk personal. This week she was late for a meeting and on entering the room walked up to me looking for a place to sit and looked lost as if I should have kept an open space. Generally she will always sit next to me. Is there something happening we cannot control or is this imagination.

2007-03-09 01:00:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cant stand her whining, nagging..she acts like she knows everything. And she believes she's better than me in any way ...she keeps me down all the time. i always think that she brings negative vibe around me.

2007-03-09 01:00:21 · 17 answers · asked by didie y 2 in Friends

My boyfriend has been acting rude and i don't want to tell my parents, because then they will go whack!!!!!

2007-03-09 01:00:19 · 13 answers · asked by Kylie W 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 00:59:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He is one of our pastors.The note was saying how much I encourage him and how I am a good example and a good mother. This person knows my husband is neglectful of me. Also, his wife has never seemed to like me much. He always notices me when I walk in, and at times is very attentive. At other times he pointedly ignores me, especially when his wife is around. I am very attracted to him, but have always tried to hide it, since it is so wrong.

2007-03-09 00:59:13 · 25 answers · asked by LaMariposa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-09 00:58:37 · 4 answers · asked by snehil s 2 in Family

My husband's ex wife is an evil plotting slug. She is on her third marriage in a span of 5 years. My husband being the first.They have one child together. His ex has been trashing him saying he is deadbeat. He has paid his child support every month, and has always been a parent to their daughter. His ex is always sending us nasty letters and having anonymous girls call our home and claim they are sleeping with my husband. We know it is her because of where the phone numbers register to. We now have a six month old son together and that has seemed to really anger her. We sent his daughter a birth announcement and we received it back a couple of weeks later, torn to shreds in an envelope.She makes up lies and is always trying to hurt us. She is always needing more money she used to say was for their daughters tuition. We later found out the tuition had not been paid in several months. My husband seems to be afraid to do anything about her behavior. Should I leave?

2007-03-09 00:58:21 · 13 answers · asked by momof5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had met a guy about two weeks ago at a friends pool party after getting thrown into the pool with my jeans,tank top,sneakers & bikini under. I had gotten out & taken clothes off & this really cute guy had thrown me in. After getting out i had went to shower,change & went to say bye to everone before leaving. My pal walked me to the car& told me that he liked me & stuff. She gave him my number & his been calling me everyday,& night to chat before he sleeps. He had asked me to go out with him tomorrow night tomorrow. I would not mind because we often get/got told that we made a very cute couple together.

My thing is, is it not a bit to short to get into something?? Or am i just been way to extra careful?

2007-03-09 00:57:57 · 2 answers · asked by MEHNAZ B 2 in Singles & Dating

i use condoms ,extra strong and tht always work but ma mate got pregnant the other week and its made me think,if i start taking the pill will i be taking them for the rest of my life,will it have any side effects (apart from the obvious)Do i actually need it or should i carry on as it is,i do wanna have kids wen im older but not just yet

2007-03-09 00:57:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean married for better or worse...warts and all, marriages that are time tested with a few bumps in the road behind you.

What's your secret?

2007-03-09 00:56:29 · 24 answers · asked by musicimprovedme 7 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy in school who is such an asshole and he thinks he is so tough just because he's got backup. I want to beat him up but i might not graduate if ido that or i might get beaten up by his friends.

What do you guys out there recommend me to to do?

2007-03-09 00:55:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hiya wot xactly do you write in a 1st text to a guy who gave you his number?I don`t know him that well but quite like him and i`m stuck on what else to write except Hi,hows u?I`ve not had to do it in 6 years so i`m a bit stuck,help??

2007-03-09 00:55:32 · 21 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Singles & Dating

Should I extend her personal time to 1 full hour? I just don't want to let the extra 1/2 to go to her head. She needs to work harder as it is. I mean she has been slipping a little in her duties of giving me my back and foot massages, when I get done golfing, and I am thinking that the extra 1/2 to herself my detract further from her female purpose in life. Thank you...

2007-03-09 00:55:10 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just started dating this new guy and he asked me if I was dating someone other than him. I told him yes and I have been dating the other guy for about a month. Do you think that was a bad Idea?

He is a cool guy and I wanted to be honest. Do you think that shows a guy that you are not really looking for a serious relationship and you just want to have "friends"?

2007-03-09 00:54:37 · 11 answers · asked by Doubtful Debbie 2 in Singles & Dating

One of my husband's jealous employees decided to send me a letter in the mail that was meant to destroy our relationship. They didn't sign it, and we're trying to find out who did it for sure. We have our suspicions. Anyway this letter was very upsetting and graphic and a big lie! I am soooo angry. What can we do????

2007-03-09 00:54:36 · 7 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met up with a guy friend yesterday & told him something which i am now regretting. Last night when i chatted to him he said he would still wanna meet up but not as often but like once a week or once in two weeks or so. I had went & we chilled on campus yesterday he needed a lift to the other side of campus which i had given as we were close to my car & i was leaving. What would it mean?? He only told me that we could meet like once a week or once in two weeks later on that night? Why?

2007-03-09 00:54:26 · 4 answers · asked by MEHNAZ B 2 in Singles & Dating

Fight after fight and he still means more then anything to me. Tell me why is it that we have been fighting all week and now he has all these plans to go out and go away for the weekend.. whats going on.. he saids he loves me but why is he going out now?

2007-03-09 00:54:25 · 6 answers · asked by twistedinlime 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy through an SAT prep class, and we really got along. He goes to a different school, though. Well, Wednesday was our last class and he asked for my number during our break, but we had to sit back down before I could. Well, short story long, I ended up not getting my number to him ):

I know he's in plays in the other school, so would it be taking a chance to try and see him there? I don't really like any of the guys at my school, and for me, a guy I like doesn't come around too often. So should I try getting in contact with him, or is it a lost cause that I should just forget?

2007-03-09 00:54:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex partner blames everybody else for making him drink. Is this the case usually with problem drinkers? I find it tiring

2007-03-09 00:53:06 · 10 answers · asked by Abigail 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and what others like about you
mines
1 im fun
2 up for a laugh
3 put people and my pets first
4 allways there for family and friends
5 and very kind hearted

2007-03-09 00:52:25 · 18 answers · asked by you are my angel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-09 00:51:41 · 4 answers · asked by smoker 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 00:50:52 · 13 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

everytime i go to chruch there is this girl stareing at me she did say i was cute. and everytime when its time to shake everyone hands she stareing at me i was like 3 feet of her and i was stareing to and i go back to sit she stareing right into my eyes she looks back and stareing we stare in are eyes like 40 secs.

2007-03-09 00:50:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im going out with my ex for dinner tonight. I dumped him 5 months ago because he was cheating on me.
He has not stopped texting and calling and obviously wants me back. would it be wrong of me to take the free dinner and a great night of sex?????

2007-03-09 00:50:14 · 40 answers · asked by pinkkitten 3 in Singles & Dating

i am in love with my ex boyfriend. i think about him all the time. even though we have been broken up for a while now and we were dating for a year and a half. He cheated on me...........though i forgave.....twice.... i hae tried to talk to himand text him and call him and he wont have anything to do with me.. i am best friends with his best friend and i miss him alot.................................................................................................i am not sure if he has a gf right now. but the other thing is that i am the one who screwed up last time.. i didnot cheat or anything like that but did soemthing that i critisized him for doing a long time ago... what should i do? should i give up on him or still try in get in touch with him.. he was and is my only love. i would do just about anything for him

2007-03-09 00:48:56 · 9 answers · asked by Gidsswtgirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-09 00:48:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce