Am I dreaming?

Question

We r both married and say we will not have an affair nor r interestead in each other, however at work we are always joking talking, going for coffee. When talking to me she often touches me and sometimes hesitates touching me. When we work we work but when we play we do just as hard. When talking to me she is often in my space and often appears jumpy and recently there have been things if you dont do this I will swueeze the juice outa u or what do I get if and insinuations of can I see then I say yes then she says grioss. When on the phone we talk and one of us will say we have to go or don't u have to go then we talk even more. We from time to time buy each other drinks and talk personal. This week she was late for a meeting and on entering the room walked up to me looking for a place to sit and looked lost as if I should have kept an open space. Generally she will always sit next to me. Is there something happening we cannot control or is this imagination.

Answer 1

THERE MIGHT BE SOMETHING THERE, BUT YOU NEED TO PUT A STOP TO IT NOW IF YOU DON'T WANT TO HURT YOUR WIFE OR HER HUSBAND.

Answer 2

There is something happening, but you have full control over what comes out of it.

Since you are both married, I suggest you kill the together time. It's not like it's inevitable, you set up times to have coffee and talk on the phone. I'm sure if your mates knew what you two were doing, they would not be too happy about the whole thing.

You can control what happens from this point onward.

I hope you make the right decisions! Wish ya well! ♥

Answer 3

Sounds like you're heading for an affair. Do you want this to happen? Affairs take on a life of their own and often end up out of control. Do you want your marriage to end. It is quite likely if you continue. Your choice.

Answer 4

I could swear this question was on here last night.