2007-03-09 00:48:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No you don't. Love is a constant feeling, but the desire to love or be in love isn't. Once you desire not to be in love, you become in sort of a numb state of mind until you desire being in love again.
The desire in which you do/doesn't want to be in love is a transitional period happens between the highs and lows of old/new relationships or the on/off again relationships.
Life long relationships have high level of love you feel like you are a fish in a sea, and if you are out of it, you die.
2007-03-09 01:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a simple matter of "falling" out of love with someone. It's much more complicated than that. But in my opinion it is possible to love more than one person at a time. There are many different kinds of love.
2007-03-09 08:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by Rissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. As time passes, you can just keep falling in love with someone more and more, or falling in love with the new things that you learn about them...
It's the reason you would renew wedding vows, or "marry them all over again".
2007-03-09 08:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by musicimprovedme 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to fall out of love first, although the 2nd person may always be on the back of your mind, and haunt the way u feel about the current relationship.
2007-03-09 09:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not....loving more than one person is quite normal. Having an affair with more than one at a time can be tricky, but the world revolves around people following the smallest head.....yeah, if you can't be, with the one you love, love the one you're with.
2007-03-09 08:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Curious_Yank_back_in_South_Korea 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, it is possible to love too people...in different degrees. You may love someone but, not be passionate about them, yet you fall in love with someone whom you love, are passionate about and find yourself ga ga over. It is possible. Just make sure its not lust, becuase true love gives you the warm fuzzies, lust gives you the quick pulses etc.
2007-03-09 08:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. I believe you can be in love with two people at the same time. It's not much fun though.
2007-03-09 08:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it does not have to work that way. In fact for the majority of people in the world it doesn't work that way.
2007-03-09 08:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but it does cause stress and tension, and will start drama in your head every once in while... i was "in love" with somebody, but it didnt work out... now im engaged to somebody else... dont git me wrong, ill always feelings towards the other chick... ill always love her... it just depends on the extent that you love somebody...
2007-03-09 08:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by uirrid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really.....I recommend the book 'love life for every married couple' by Dr Ed Wheat....GREAT advice in there !
2007-03-09 08:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋