Im going out with my ex for dinner tonight. I dumped him 5 months ago because he was cheating on me.
He has not stopped texting and calling and obviously wants me back. would it be wrong of me to take the free dinner and a great night of sex?????
2007-03-09 00:50:14 · 40 answers · asked by pinkkitten 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not about trusting him again...thats totally over its just about the dinner and sex
2007-03-09 00:54:37 · update #1
hell no go for it, be a taker
2007-03-09 00:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by terry s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As the song goes, "he had a little time and he had a little fun" and now he wants you back - the grass wasn't greener on the otherside for him then so he has come back to you as it's safe. But then again, why not go out for a free meal and a night of sex - use a condom because I suspect he has been sleeping around somewhat, don't assume that you are the only one he is doing this with though and don't take him back. Once a cheater always a cheater. Have a nice evening - saves on cooking!
2007-03-09 00:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by Bexs 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um...no....if you don't mind sleeping with every woman he has. Why would you want to even give him the time of day?!?! Just because there's a free meal in it, that's sad!, and as for the sex, it would be really great if he knew how to be faithful. The problem I see here is that with perseverance he's getting you right back where he wants you, and if you give the green light on sex, then your letting him know it's OK. Why would you want to share the most precious of all "your" valuables with a guy who didn't appreciate you enough to remain loyal to start with. Blow him off! Remember the heartache he made you feel, do you really want to start back down that road? I wish you well!
2007-03-09 00:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by Green eyed girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you think you can do the dinner and just sex and not want more or want to get back with him,then hey go for it girl the men do it all the time, give him a taste of his own medicine and you get a nice meal and a night of passion out of it too.
however if you still have feelings for him i would advice you to stay well clear i wouldnt even do the dinner.
good luck x
2007-03-09 01:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you want from the relationship. Remember, once trust is broken or lost it is very hard to regain, the fact the he cheated on you before could be in the back of your mind for a long time to come.
2007-03-09 00:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he's asked you out to try to get back together and you are coming from a different angle. If your happy using him that's fine but your mind might starts to think well great sex and maybe he wasn't that bad. And before you know it your back in his cheating arms!
2007-03-09 01:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been thinkin about the same thing with my ex, the sex part not the free dinner. she keeps sayin it will be "no strings attached" but i dont think it will be. i finally figured id just be using her and lots of feelings would get involved. i wouldnt do it. im sure you can find another guy who will give you what you're lookin for...
2007-03-09 01:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by LawDude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to disrespect yourself that way.He is your EX leave it that way.I suggest you put him in your past and move on.Unless you like to be treated like the other woman if he cheated on you then he obviously has no respect for you and you should have more respect for yourself.If you go out with him you are giving him all the power and showing him that he still controls you and he can treat you any way that he wants..
2007-03-09 00:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no hes just going to use you. i no its not the answer that you want but it is true. hes going to use you and once he gets what he wants hell then think he has control over you and come back for more. also whay made you break up in the first place. well whatever it was say for example he had a bad temper. just saying that if he does ti once hes bond to do it again. and by the end of the night your just going to end up feeling hurt
2007-03-09 00:55:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
DONT DO IT
it will leasd to more nights out/in and youll regrett it as youve said he cheated and chances are he ll do it again so call to say thanks but no thanks if you have any respect for yourself
i know how tempting the sex would be as you know him and would feel safer but you would be better off going to a adult shop getting some good toys and staying by yourself wait for a nice man to come along and enjoy "toys" in the meantime
2007-03-09 00:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes! mainly to yourself but hey if you let that known at the start i don't want a relationship with you i just want to use you for sex and dinner then i guess it would be okay. but i think its a cheap call out from staying non lonely..
i use to do this and now that i don't i feel much better about myself!
2007-03-09 00:54:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋