i am in love with my ex boyfriend. i think about him all the time. even though we have been broken up for a while now and we were dating for a year and a half. He cheated on me...........though i forgave.....twice.... i hae tried to talk to himand text him and call him and he wont have anything to do with me.. i am best friends with his best friend and i miss him alot.................................................................................................i am not sure if he has a gf right now. but the other thing is that i am the one who screwed up last time.. i didnot cheat or anything like that but did soemthing that i critisized him for doing a long time ago... what should i do? should i give up on him or still try in get in touch with him.. he was and is my only love. i would do just about anything for him
2007-03-09 00:48:56 · 9 answers · asked by Gidsswtgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Move on!
2007-03-09 00:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make it sound that your ex does not WANT to even talk to you. DO NOT chase him...........you will chase him even farther away, and you will get very depressed, more than now. Try dating others for a while, or not dating at all. Stay clear of the ex. It sounds as though you had a relationship full of 'explosions' for both of you. Just get back on the dating track, and soon, you will find other people interesting. You cannot make someone love you. It's hard to realize that someone can fall OUT of love with you when you still care so much.........but, it happens. Let him be. Leave him alone. Stop waiting for him to return to you. Get on with your life.
2007-03-09 01:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by laurel g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinkyou should just forget about him,wait a while.Write a letter of apology.But if he doesnt respond then just forget him,because you both did each other wrong and if its been more then 1month without any contact then its OVER! not moving on is being selfish to your own self!
2007-03-09 00:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by Curiouz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi beautiful lady! I have been through things similar. Here is my advice. You will always Feel like you love him.... This is were it is hard...... You must make a choice about what is BEST for you..Be your own advocate. Does he raise you up?..There is a great book called ..Its called a break up..because it is BROKEN!! It really helped me. Find a guy that treats you like a princess! YOU DESERVE it!! {{hug}}
2007-03-09 01:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by janetw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound kinda like more lust than love... I think you need to mve on (just the similest way 2 put it)
2007-03-09 02:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by squ_ishy07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just kick him out from Ur life or be ready for next cheating....cos that guy doesn't know the value of true love.........
2007-03-09 01:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by maddy_28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget this kind of bastard , go out and find another so many fish in the sea
2007-03-09 01:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE WITH A GUY LIKE THAT. YOU CAN DO SO MUCH BETTER THAT THAT. YOU DESERVE BETTER. DON'T GO BACK TO THAT LOSER. HE IS ONLY GOING TO CHEAT ON YOU AGAIN.
2007-03-09 00:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by CNT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you did to make him mad, maybe you should just move on.
2007-03-09 01:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋