One of my husband's jealous employees decided to send me a letter in the mail that was meant to destroy our relationship. They didn't sign it, and we're trying to find out who did it for sure. We have our suspicions. Anyway this letter was very upsetting and graphic and a big lie! I am soooo angry. What can we do????
2007-03-09 00:54:36 · 7 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are very certain that the letter is a lie...........then, just throw it away, give each other a hug, and let it go. If there is a chance of truth in the letter, and you and your husband are very close, are honest with one another...............then, just throw it away, and give each other a hug. If you think there is ANY chance of the letter being the truth..........talk to your husband about it, without anger...............a truth finding talk, consider the facts, realize if your husband and you still love one another, THEN, throw the letter and away, and give each other a big hug. You and your husband have your marriage to protect.................just do it.
2007-03-09 01:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by laurel g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, If i had my suspicions I would Say things around them that would make them confess, if it is possible. I have had a situation like this last year. It wasn't a fellow employee it was a associate that we both shared a class with. she sent me 4 letter during a one month period none signed and all graphic about how my b/f at the time was enjoying the other women's time.
She didn't sign it so i couldn't say it was her at the time but When I was around her I would talk to someone else about the letters after 3 weeks she admitted to the Friend that she was the one writing the letter then three days later she confessed to me that she and my b/f were intimate yet he swore they were not. at this point we had been dating for quite some time and i thought that it was absurd that he would do such a hing. it took 4 months for him to even hold my hand let alone go any farther.
I know it doesn't help much but All i could do was get a restraining order and got the girl suspended from taking classes at the college.
Hope it helped
2007-03-09 09:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by Branwen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, just ignore the letter, don't make a big fuss about it, because obviously someone is trying to upset you or get your attention. I'd keep it, along w/the envelope it came in, just so you have a record of it, and if anything else comes, keep that too. If it gets to the point where you have to take some sort of legal action, you'll have the documents as proof of harassment, etc. Good luck!
2007-03-09 12:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by prplluva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore it. It sounds like whoever sent the letter got pretty much what they wanted. They wanted to see you upset and worried. Don't let it get to you and they will see that it doesn't bother you. You will come out that way on top.
2007-03-09 09:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why give him the satisfaction of letting it bother you? Go about your life and forget it.
2007-03-09 09:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It should stop if you ignore it.
2007-03-09 09:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Miko 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not a lot... you dont know who did it
2007-03-09 09:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋