We have been together for about 8 months and for the last two, quarrels keep interfering our love. These few days, she keeps fnding faults with me and then starting a new round of debates. Also, when i ask her questions, she tend to reply with a mere "I dunno". What should I do?
2007-03-09 00:40:22 · 11 answers · asked by bball_dallan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ASK HER IF SOMETHING IS WRONG. IT COULD BE ANYTHING FROM FAMILY PROBLEMS TO SHE DON'T WANT TO DATE ANYMORE. SHE MIGHT JUST NEED SOME MORAL SUPPORT. GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-09 00:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every now and then when things get a little hairy in a relationship, I notice that for a short time there seems to be a lot of "picking" at one another that goes on. She probably has some underlying qualm with you about something you said or did, and instead of being honest about why she's really upset with you she's opting to be passive aggressive. If I were you, I'd sit down with her, tell her you've been feeling bad about all the arguments you two have been having, and you want to know what you can do to make it better. Tell her if you've done something that really has upset her that you need to know so you can try and fix it. Communication is the best tool in a healthy relationship.
2007-03-09 08:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by Green eyed girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to steppin! Nothing is worth this quarreling and bickering. When things go this sour, it's time to learn from the relationship and move on. Just tell her you're not willing to settle for this, and end the relationship on good terms, agreeing not to disgree anymore.
2007-03-09 08:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time out. She's picking a fight for a reason. Tell her honestly that you don't want to fight anymore and ask her if she feels something is not right in the relationship and how you both can correct it. If she responds with another "I Dunno", then say honestly that you both need to talk about it or wait for the relationship to fold. See how she responds. Don't forget her to tell her if you feel that you don't want it to fold & you really want to try & make it work. If she is reluctant, then well, time to separate and go your own way.
2007-03-09 08:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are the pair of you.She sound's immature and maybe she is just not ready for an adult relationship.If you are adults then she is probably just not ready to be in a serious relationship.Relationships are all about communication and if you can't get her to communicate with you then i am sorry to say but you are just wasting your time.Good Luck to you.
2007-03-09 08:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe something is bothering her and she doesnt know how to open up about. i know because im like that we my bf sometimes i pick arguement with him when im mad and its not his fault, i guess its my way of telling him i need someone to talk to..he gets the picture.. just tell her how u feel she cant sit there and be selfish, tell her and if she refuses to listen and isnt working with you then drop her, find a new chick..
maybe she did something she shouldnt have and doesnt like the guilty feeling..but then again arguing is another way of getting to know people. trust me i know.
2007-03-09 08:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by boricuaspot21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure,but when a person starts to act different overnight means,something is bothering them OR they are trying to bug you so then YOU can break up with them,and they wotn feel guilty if they broke up with you!Talk to her IMMEDIATELY!
2007-03-09 08:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by Curiouz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 14 I was dating a guy who was 36. I was pretty immature then too.
2007-03-09 08:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by Lökásennäaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel...ask her if she wants to end the relationship. If she says "i dunno" then tell her you can either talk it out and try to make the relationship work or you can keep doing what you are doing and the relationship will end.
one major key to any relationship is communication.
be cool...
2007-03-09 08:46:00 · answer #9 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone for awhile to sort it all out...thus giving her an opportunity to miss you.
2007-03-09 08:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋