I was at my Chiropractor's office and he knows I'm going through divorce proceedings. After a few visits, he mentioned that he would rather have me for a patient, then my soon to be ex husband, (who was his patient also). He's said this a few times to me. Then, one day, I dropped off something for him (some food) at his office. His receptionist came down to the lobby to get it. She said to me that he said to tell me he was going to marry me as soon as I was available. I brought it up to him again, and he shyly smiled and said yeah. Then, a few weeks ago, I told him I was still working on the financial details of my divorce; but I was going to take him up on his proposal. He said yeah, that's right, and gave a little laugh and smile. I am extremely attracted to this man. I had asked him once during a phone conversation if he had anyone special in his life and he said no.
2007-03-09 01:30:43 · 22 answers · asked by wayouthere 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you think he's serious or am I taking this too seriously that he likes me? Your opinions please.
2007-03-09 01:31:36 · update #1
I'm not looking to marry again right away. It just seems he's sending me signals. There have been other hints he's given, but I'm cautious.
2007-03-09 01:40:45 · update #2
I told him that I was working on the financial part, because I am. I going to sell my house, and I make plenty of money and don't need his. Geez.
2007-03-09 01:51:08 · update #3
Yes, he's divorced for 8 years now. We've chatted briefly.
2007-03-09 01:55:24 · update #4
As exciting as this could be ... it should be taken cautiously , for the sake of both you guys hearts and future life , talk , communicate , love is not just attraction , a new relationship after a divorce is always surrounded by some psycological thingies , so you need to be mature enough to know , how valid is dealing with a new guy , is he serious ? well , give him a chance to talk about it...dont push ,just ask if he wants to consider talking about that , during a talk having a coffee , be smart , know what you want ... if he is honest and you want to get closer to him , tell him ... start talking ,if you dont , you could loose a good chance to a good fresh nice start with your love life ...
2007-03-09 01:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by robertman30s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change chiropractors immediately. Any professional in his field that would talk about another patient (be it a family member or other wise) is not what I consider a good "doctor". Plus he should not be telling his receptionist anything about you either. I would be majorly creeped out. And you dropping off food to him is a big NO NO. Get a divorce, give yourself some time for you, then if you are still thinking about him in 6 months or so, go out in a public place. But until then, I would change chiropractors. Who knows he is probably keeping your soon to be ex up to date on what you are doing in his office.
2007-03-09 09:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by GreeneyedCowgirl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, back off of this guy! He is playing you bigtime! He just wants to get in your pants. You need to find another chiropractor before you get yourself into something hurtful. You're not even divorced yet! Why jump from the frying pan into the fire? Get yourself together WITHOUT a man for a while before you start looking for husband material. I'll be willing to bed this guy tells all the single-or soon to be single women that and he's just tapping his source....don't be foolish. Give yourself some respect cause this guy isn't giving you any! Godloveya.
2007-03-09 09:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel it would be a big mistake to get married as soon as you've divorced.
i dont' see what is wrong with dating this person, but all you seem to know about him is that he is a chiropractor... what about the way he lives? his "at home" personality? his prioritoes in life?
i think you might consider getting to know this person, before you dive into another fire!
also, seeing that you're getting divorced, you need a little time for yourself, to discover what you really want in life. it might be the chiropractor? who knows?
take care of you.
2007-03-09 09:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are jumping from the frying pan into the fire. Relax your not even divorced and looking to get married again. I would take some time for yourself and if you want date this guy. If he is looking to rush it then there is something wrong here.
2007-03-09 09:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take it literally. My boss runs the same line on me when I bring him his coffee. Don't get me wrong, he is probably attracted to you, but I wouldn't expect immediate wedding bells.
Do yourself a favor, finish your divorce and spend some time with yourself before you jump head first into another relationship. You'll be glad you did.
2007-03-09 09:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband told people WAY before we were ever involved (and when I was involved with another) that he would marry me - and he stuck around until he could (he never interfered). So the guy could be serious.
Ethically, you have got to stop being his patient if he's interested in you. That may be the way to test this. Tell him that you want to be his patient, but realize that it would violate his ethics if you were romantically involved with him. That should make things go one way or the other. :) Good luck!
2007-03-09 09:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by searching_please 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should at least go on a date with the man before you start talking about marriage. You just went through one divorce. What is the big hurry? He obviously like you so when your divorce is final date him.
2007-03-09 09:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by angie a 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get your divorce first then worry about husband #2
2007-03-09 09:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be taking this to seriously ask him out as a friendly date now or after the divorce and hopefully u hit it off good luck!
2007-03-09 09:37:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋