long story on how we broke up- though it was her doing and we met up a few times after- was stringing me along and messing with my head. eventually turnt round and said she never wanted me to see/speak to her again.
left it few days then phoned her when i was drunk- we spoke and she seemed different, left it that i said for her to txt me.
to this date havent heard anything- been around 2 weeks. i miss her company but dunno if i miss her/us.
Id lvoe to see her again as we have stuff of eachother and photos she asked for when she broke up.
Should i give up hope of her ever contacting me? or just give her space? been told by alot of people she is a fool for ending it with me and it seems as though she works alot more and just goes up the pub!
if your with someone for two years then suddenly they are gone....do you miss them? because id love to know whether she misses me or not
2007-03-09 01:32:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah im trying to forget about her- im happy am i am just miss her at times when i have nothing to do.
ive taken up volunteer work and ment to be doing a charity expedition to africa end of the year.
I cant figure out though whether I miss her coz i love her. or whether I jsut miss spending time with her- like as a friend or what ever. and someone said im still cut up about her- i suppose I am in a way seeing as she doesnt want anything to do with me now....just hard to understand thats all
2007-03-09 01:48:23 · update #1
it's over, harsh but true. Don't hang around in the hope that she will contact you, just live your life, go out, have fun and forget her.
You are bound to miss her, two years is a long time to be with someone, but the bad feelings will pass I promise you. Don't contact her, and if she contacts you then tell her you juts want to be friends, sounds as if you've had enough messing about.
plenty more fish in the sea mate, enjoy yourself.
2007-03-09 01:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Nickynackynoo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel man. i was in a 4yr relationship. she broke up with me. yeah i miss the GOOD times, we had a lot of good memories but then again some bad ones too.
I miss talking to her daily b/c we did have a lot in common. I miss our inside jokes and etc...but i don't miss her quick attitude or her hissy fits and quick frustrations she can have all that. So I guess I just miss the good times and I'll keep those memories with me.
I'm sure she thinks about you I mean we're human...2yrs is a long time, those feelings dont fade overnight...even if she does start talking to other people. If she wants to talk to you then let her make that move. But don't sweat her.
Look at it like this...now is your time to perfect YOURSELF and become a better person for the next female. If the next female happens to be your ex then great you'll have grown since you broke and you can get it right. Good luck.
2007-03-09 02:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by so_sincere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmn tricky one mate. Two things I will say:
1 - She might have been drinking as well when you called her. So she might have been drunk and not meant anything she said.
2 - When I'm drunk I ring women & tell them I fancy them, even though I don't fancy them. A couple have done the same to me as well. My point - she might think you were drunk & didn't mean what you said. Hence, she thought she would wait for you to text, rather than het text you as agreed.
You said she was stringing you along before - perhaps she was just stringing you along again when you spoke to her on the phone.
Whatever you do make sure you look at it from a neutral's point of view - good on you for asking the question on her because most people will do that for you.
Good luck.
2007-03-09 01:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by Sluugy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's just nuts and is toying with you. If it was still true love and she wanted you back she'd already have you back. It is hard letting some one you've loved that long go and I hear you there on the missing her company. Same thing happend to me 4 years ago. And now well funny thing is she wants me back. But that's another story. I just hope you can do what ever it is you do and do it quickly. In your shoes with her I'd just run like my life depended on it and it probably does. Find another girl and make out with her in front of your ex that might shut her up for good. I think she'd get the big picture there. Hopefully you won't date another looser.
2007-03-09 01:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the exact same boat, just split up with someone I was with for 7 yrs. Yes you still miss them, and everything about being with them, its natural. You can not spend so much time with one person and not miss them. I would say of course she misses you, but maybe she has decided that the 2 of you don't work and that it would be much easier for her to get on with her life if she had no more contact with you. You know what they say 'out of sight out of mind'. Don't worry hopefully in time both of us will get over this. Good luck !
2007-03-09 02:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate, you know what, she is hurting you now. You feel low and you shouldnt. It has been a long time, 10 years!, so i can see and understand you missing her or her company, its inevitable, of course your going to miss her. But like you started off, this aint a good relationship anymore, get out,have some time by yourself, enjoy the build up to summer and concentrate on plans for the hot long days of july! x Dont dwell to much on whats already passed, she aint called you and you are kinda waiting arnt you. So why not take control and change your chip, you will feel better, waiting for things to happen is so depressing.
Get out and enjoy yourself, please. x
2007-03-09 01:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she misses you but it sounds like your still cut up from it all so I wouldn't contact her for a little while long, otherwise it'll just really hurt plus you'll be more vulnerable. Give it a few more weeks and then arrange to swap things over. Good luck x
2007-03-09 01:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by keeley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 22:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only natural to miss them,but she left the relation and it sounds like she wants nothing to do with you.try to keep busy with friends and be good to yourself.You will get over her in time.it took me a long time and i still miss my ex,I was so in love.I wish him well and I keep myself very busy so I am not thinking of him. He'll always be in my heart.I'll never forget him .She might think about in a fleeting moment but she seems. . to be busy .Meet someone new and good luck.
2007-03-09 01:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by canteloupesweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time to think things through. If you were meant for each other, you shall surely end up together despite everything thats happening
2007-03-09 01:58:32 · answer #10 · answered by Olga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋