Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

"I am sorry if i am making everything hard for you,even if you do not say it I can feel that you don't trust me anymore.Are you trying to say that all I am saying to you is not true?that is why sometimes I don't want to talk about money matters to you i feel pity with myself as if I am begging you for money..You should know all the things that I need I do'nt have to say it again and again.You told me before we got married that you will help me with everything so I do not have to work why is it now you keep asking me what I did to the money? Why no more left?Where did I spend It?Things like that should not be asked anymore if you trust in me.You changed a lot,you are not the same man I met before even if you do'nt tell me I also feel that you are drifting away ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS.. DO YOU NOT LOVE ME NO MORE?Are we ending?many questions,sadness that i felt..I am afraid someday you will dump me and replace me with someone new.I hope your promises of love will not be broken

2007-03-07 18:33:15 · 5 answers · asked by cristina s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-07 18:33:08 · 15 answers · asked by missconfused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My father has just been given a list to follow from my mother because no matter how many times she tells him he never "remembers" what she says, she has asked him certain things that were on the list but he cant remember (the list is a list of things that need to be done for the week such as checks deposited and bills paid) and yet no matter what he cant remember any thing on the list or when it is to be paid...yet he works at a machine shop and certain things need to be done in steps and he has no problem remembering that ...is this an attention problem or what ..anyone know?

2007-03-07 18:31:04 · 7 answers · asked by sudge6915 3 in Family

2007-03-07 18:30:53 · 8 answers · asked by nina 3 in Singles & Dating

she says she is divorced but has not shown me any proof or papers that she is divorced

2007-03-07 18:28:24 · 11 answers · asked by joseph l D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we chatted for a month before we decided to meet each other ...the first time we met, i invited him to hang out with my friends!!! the problem was, another guy, who likes me for the longest time , was also there....what happened was like,..i wasn't able to entertain him...the next day i received a message from him saying " why did u do this to me?, why did u lie?....he said he was jealous....we decided to meet and work things out...the day after that...he went back to his home town for a two week holiday...on his way to his hometown, he never failed to give me a ring, even if it was just a stop-over...during the entire duration of his vacation...he often calls me , almost everyday, and send me messages...
he said he likes me and miss me....
Is it really possible to like somebody of whom u met only twice?...or he is just using me coz he is new to that place?...

2007-03-07 18:27:10 · 13 answers · asked by belle 1 in Singles & Dating

for you girls out there that like to hit the club. At what age is it considered creepy for a guy to go. Meaning....if you met some dude at a club and you asked how old he was...whats the age where you are like...thats weird that you are still going to clubs.

2007-03-07 18:26:26 · 15 answers · asked by micg70 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I am getting married June 30 this year. I just found out a close friend of mine is getting married June 18. Her's is a small low key event. I am of course going to go to her wedding, despite the pre-wedding stress, as she is a close friend. My question is that she and some of my other friends were planning a hometown party for me a shower/ bachlorette. When I found out about he wedding I called my Bridesmaids and asked if they could include her as a surprise guest of honour. I will plan a few things for her as well. I am wondering if this is enough though. Should I plan a seperate party for her, or is celebrating together good enough? (I just don't know if i have the time with my wedding plans and such.)

2007-03-07 18:24:45 · 10 answers · asked by nakiska11111 2 in Weddings

2007-03-07 18:24:24 · 19 answers · asked by Shiloh H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 18:24:12 · 13 answers · asked by yvonne d 1 in Singles & Dating

"Friendsip is a gift..... shared between true friends, and treasured for life"

2007-03-07 18:23:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We are attracted to each other sexually

2007-03-07 18:22:44 · 14 answers · asked by Sangie 1 in Friends

What does the 36 stand for,...and what does the "C" stand for....Is this a large breast, medium size,...or a small one.??

2007-03-07 18:22:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok recently...this girl that i see in the hall sometimes keeps staring at me....and i think she likes me but...i wanna get to know her better....would it be wierd if i just went up to her and said "hey...can i have ur email?" we've never spoken before....thats another problem

2007-03-07 18:21:26 · 32 answers · asked by -{s0c}- 2 in Singles & Dating

Some people are friends with you at the workplace or so. You build healthy friendly relationships. And suddenly due to some incident or reason they turn very hostile towards you. As a person I cant be very impolite and wonder why are they like that. What is the best way to handle them ?

Eg : A collegue of mine became friends with me and we went shopping and movies and met at each others homes for 2 years. Another friend of mine commented on her dress on day and she got angry with me !!I tried talking to her in every way but no. Now she talks to him (my friend who is also our collegue) but not to me. Well the talking is limited to professional aspects.

eg 2. My tenant lived for three years in the my house and I was polite and considerate in every way.The house was spoilt a bit, I spent 50k redoing it, asked him only to pay for painting as per agreement, which that too i reduced to 50% on his request only 3k. Now I gave him the money after reducing costs, he is shouting at me!

2007-03-07 18:20:56 · 11 answers · asked by vittrash 1 in Friends

What should i dress him up in, he lost a bet to me so now i get to make him my "Life size barbie"...what should i do to him?

2007-03-07 18:20:43 · 5 answers · asked by Susan 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey
This is something i really need advice on.Anyway I've been dateing this guy for about 3 months now,And he has been in college...We talk like twice every week...He tells me he loves me alot...But when we do talk he always talks about sex,He told me he is a virgin,Could that make him so curious about it?He told me he wants to wait untill im ready,But he really wants me to have sex with him...The last time i told him,i dont want to have sex with him anytime soon...He got mad,And told me that hurt him,Maybe he took it the wrong way,So later he calls me..And says im sorry baby,I just thought u'd rather have sex with a different guy,Thats the way you made it seem...He helps me when i have problems...Do you think he loves me from what you hear?I think he might...But again he talks about sex everytime

2007-03-07 18:18:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she's not into the sports she's the best at. she loves basketball but i think she sould play softball because of her strong arm and quickness. or run track because she is very very fast. how do i tell her she needs to change sports?

2007-03-07 18:18:39 · 9 answers · asked by bball092000 1 in Family

We are inlove and trying how to get married not in malaysia cause it not safe for him. as an american comming to malaysia is a risk for him. please do help us out

thank u very much

2007-03-07 18:17:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-07 18:15:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were debating last two days on this issue of marraige and my partner told me marriage is life imprisonment to him, and he'll never encourage any friend of his to get into marriage. I wanna ask you guys, do u think as my friend that marriage is such a terrible thing to get into? I MEAN, i for one, its the most honourable and respectable thing i should do in life.

2007-03-07 18:15:01 · 20 answers · asked by prettybabe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

you liked her? If so how long would it be before you asked her out or told her you like her?

2007-03-07 18:14:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my date of birth 31:08:1984 time 07:05am place jullunder

2007-03-07 18:13:43 · 24 answers · asked by nona a 1 in Weddings

well i like this guy...he knows...my plan was to ask him out this friday but i dont noe whether i should or shouldnt now. he has been givin me mixed signals all week...tuesday we were so close and today i coulnt get more then too words from him... i really like him and i really want to ask him out but i am not sure if its the right think to do anymore....what would you guys do in my postion and if you would ask him anyway wat would u say???? i am so confused
Thanx for the help and advice

2007-03-07 18:13:33 · 8 answers · asked by EmmY 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm in a constant fight with my mother,i love her the most and same frome her site .how can i control my anger and depression.she is very sensitive and i do not want to hurt her Please help me.thanks

2007-03-07 18:13:14 · 14 answers · asked by vivaswan 2 in Family

Happy International Women's Day! (- -,)

2007-03-07 18:11:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend (for a few years) and I have recently fallen head over heels for each other - we were not expecting this at all - we truly care and adore each other but we decided that right now is not a good time in our lives to have that serious relationships we long from each other. He's been STRESSED with financial/schoo/work - as for me too but we're still great friends.

I heard that SOME guys will play hard to get with the girl so that the next time the girl sees them, she'll "miss him" and want him more - flirtier. I notice with this guy is that he'll say "you need to get over me" yet he'll initiate the moves and his actions show that he REALLY wants to be with me. Then after we'll "get close", he'll "limit" himself but not completely avoid me. I'm confused - i thought he didn't want a relationship right now - i thought he wanted something serious for later? and why did he say that we needed to get over each other?

What do i do? Play hard to get back and see wht he does?

2007-03-07 18:09:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been together with this boy for just over 2 months now. I know it doesn't seem like much but he really means alot to me. I love him so much. Lately we've had a few arguments cos Im gettin worried and jealous that he's flirting with other girls, when he isn't.
Any ideas to help me?
&& Also any tips on small things I can do that he'll really appreciate?

2007-03-07 18:09:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my situation is simple yet complex. I like this girl and she liked me. I unknowingly got weird on her as I was dealing with stress and things got worse between us. We know how each other feels, and I still care but she doesn't feel the same anymore. (Note: no romantic relationship had occurred) So she wants to be friends and so do I, but I have the glimmer of hope that I will be able to redeem myself if I had time. The only bad thing is I will only get to see her for another 3-5 weeks and we are still in the whole awkward not talking stage. I am guessing she'll need another 2 weeks ish before we get to talking or even just seeing each other. I am just looking for some advice on how to deal with the feelings of guilt that I have for pushing away the best thing I've ever had, and knowing if we are going to be friends ever that it has a good chance of fading in a short while. I'm serious about her being the best things I've come across yet! So its hard for me just to let go! HELP :(

2007-03-07 18:09:09 · 5 answers · asked by TechPhox 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy for a little while now. He took me out to dinner and i've hung out with him a few times at our friends house but i've known him for a while. During this he never pulled a move. Not even a kiss. I think he's shy. I don't normally date but i don't want to be sleeping around occasionally with different guys for no actual romantic reason and besides theres something about this guy that I really like. By I don't normally date I mean this would be my first actual relationship besides a guy a date for a month that i dated after I had sex with at a party. I didn't make a move because I don't want things to go to fast because I don't want to be like I used to be but I feel like i want to with him and for more meaningful reasons. What should I do and how long do people normally wait to have sex with a guy there going to be getting into a relationship with.

2007-03-07 18:07:07 · 11 answers · asked by jessica h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships