Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

Ive been with my girl over a yr. I have told her i love her but she has told me she doenst believe in love. Yet, she wants to continue this relationship knowin that i love her and she wants to go to school in a Diff. country for 4yrs. She wont know if she gets in the school till next year, but im confused on why she wants to continue this when its HIGHLY likely that she will get in and yet she cant love me?. Is it wrong to think this will be a waste of time if she gets in and we break up? 4yrs is a long time and i love her more everyday. Im her first REAL b/f so no other guy has been there and messed with her "Love" situation. But if she wants to continue this for another yr. and see what happens does that mean she loves me? I know she cars for me. But i cant understand why she would want to put "US" in that situation. Its a yr. away but wont that make it worse? Im confused on how to take it.

2007-03-07 19:27:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 19:26:43 · 11 answers · asked by Ting 4 in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-07 19:25:55 · 8 answers · asked by kathiresan j 1 in Friends

Is that bad?

2007-03-07 19:25:52 · 28 answers · asked by claire d 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I would like to know how is it in your marriage? What are the things you let your husband do, like party with guy friends, look at porn, ect...Or what things you don't let him do & how would you know he's cheating on you, keeping secrets from you? PLEASE HELP!!! Would love to hear answers soon & suggestions how do you ladies work a good marriage.

2007-03-07 19:25:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was playing hockey yesterday and this 18year old lad joined in. He started talking to a friend of mine they where getting on quite well but I felt annoyed and anxious jealous I don’t know why.
So i wanted to know why this is and what is jealousy and why do we feel it

2007-03-07 19:23:07 · 5 answers · asked by peter_newport2003 1 in Friends

2007-03-07 19:23:05 · 9 answers · asked by TheSilverBeetles 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 19:22:19 · 3 answers · asked by TheSilverBeetles 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 19:21:25 · 10 answers · asked by stano 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been talking to this girl i knew in high school and we just reunited after a year (WOW) in my college anatomy class. We have always had sexually suggestive conversations b/c we are both facetious. However, recently we were studying anatomy (actually studying) and then it got a little fresh. Should i continue to study with her and just study unorthodoxly or remain friends like we currently are?

2007-03-07 19:21:12 · 6 answers · asked by roncho 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 19:21:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

"wow"

that's it?

I keep trying to make my ex understand how he hurt me by neglecting me and yelling at me and ignoring me during our relationship. I keep trying to explain to him that he made me feel unimportant and all he can do is keep telling me that I'm being cruel. He told me that he thinks I hate him and I told him that I dont hate him, but in fact it's because I love him that I get so upset and that I'm so hurt. I poured my heart out to him trying to make him understand how I feel and all he says is "wow"

That's it?
What is his problem?

2007-03-07 19:20:15 · 12 answers · asked by claire d 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in 6th grade, i have an early birthday, and i'm tall and really mature for my age. my only friends are in 8th and 9th grade. Most of the guys i've "dated" are in 7th and 8th grade. I REALLY like this guy, but he's in 9th. i think he MIGHT like me. Can this possible work out?

2007-03-07 19:19:25 · 6 answers · asked by star2bee1028 2 in Singles & Dating

This is a new territory for me. I have been going out with this wonderful lady for about 6 weeks, we get along great, of fact, I believe I am falling in love. Not sure it is being truefully reciprocated back. I kind of see the signs of falling away, or not really into the relationshipon here part. She has 2 kids 13 girl/12 boy and they are into all the sports and normal teenage stuff you know. She says she is having trouble organizing her time with work and family, she is so tired. She has been divorced and living on her own for 6 years, she has her own money/house/ etc.

Give me some ideas as how I can show her that I can help her with her family life and schedule some down time for us? I don't want to feel pushy. I am not sure of my next move, any help would be great. Thanks.

2007-03-07 19:19:16 · 3 answers · asked by Havnoclue 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 19:18:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thanks

2007-03-07 19:17:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy always flirts with me, and talks to me
and i really like him and i thought that he liked me too.
and then i asked him out and he said nicely said no. >.<
why did he say no when he acts like he likes me?

2007-03-07 19:17:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a coworker that is extremely attractive but has no chest and she seems to dont mind at all why?

2007-03-07 19:16:27 · 17 answers · asked by reme14u 1 in Singles & Dating

OK heres the story, im 20 years old and my ex boss shes 31 told me 5 minths ago that she likes me a lot and im the only one who understands her. I have always had a huge crush on her and now that i dont work with her anymore it will be ok. ok now the bad news. she is dating a guy who is psyco and a drunk. the only reason she is dating him is because she cant afford to keep her house if he leaves. I really turst this person a lot and over the past 5 months she has been either "I miss you" to I cant talk to you anymore and she ignores me. each one lasting weeks at a time. Right now she talks to me everyday, she means the world to me, she is smart bueatiful and funny. She is always on my mind. But when she ignores me i cry and it hurts. the last time she did i tried talking to other girls. then she says "I heard about this girl you've been talking to and im gonna stop that, cause im back. And my question is should i ignore her and walk away or keep with it or i dont know. :(

2007-03-07 19:16:08 · 6 answers · asked by Ikemike 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 19:14:28 · 21 answers · asked by muthukrishnan balaji 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 19:11:17 · 9 answers · asked by Em 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 19:10:58 · 9 answers · asked by msyummy88 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever had an intimate encounter with your same sex therapist?

2007-03-07 19:10:08 · 2 answers · asked by BONNIE 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He constantly tells me that I'm useless and a terrible wife, mother, housekeeper......and it's true. I haven't been able to function. I've been in therapy but I wonder if being alone would help me heal more than the environment I am now in. Like I said I can't seem to do the simplist of tasks when a few years ago I was an accounting manager, I have a college degree in Accounting but can't seem to concentrate. Like he says "useless". I feel like I take up space but am scared to try to leave and be alone.

2007-03-07 19:09:48 · 11 answers · asked by Rhonda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-07 19:06:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He used to look at me a lot, then i walked past him one day and my friend tried to push me into him. Ever since that he has smiled at me and he even asked me what my name is. Does he like me?

2007-03-07 19:02:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every little thing I do for him seems to delight him.
He bounces over and gives me a giant hug! I spent a whopping 14 cents at a discount bin store and got him fingernail clippers with a knife and a bottle opener. He said he was tickled I had thought about him while I was out shopping. So I guess, here comes the question...
He's the guy I got it bad for.
Do you think he's "catching on" considering all the hugging and sweet talk?
Would most guys know by now? Especially considering he knows how stingy I am with a dime.


Oh, I picked nail clippers because he mentioned last week he needed a pair.
When I gave them to him, he said "Oh, good. I need to cut my toenails!"
I was like..."Don't let me see your feet!"
He said "You'd like my feet." (Is that flirting???)

I just write kinda flowery so don't hold "delight","bounces", and "giant hug" against him..I write like a girl..damn..I am a girl..Well that explains that! And he's not gay.

2007-03-07 19:02:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend is highly intelligent, funny, and all of that good stuff, but he is strangely opinionated about certain things. Here are a few of his quirky thoughts. He thinks that cereal gives you cancer, so he won't eat it. He thinks that all bottled water is the same, which is not true, because the higher quality manufacturers run their water through infinitely better purification systems. He has played the guitar for over a year now and he thinks that every guitar basically sounds the same. He doesn't think a $2,000 Gibson guitar would sound any better than a $150 Yamaha. He basically has this thing where he thinks that every item is pretty much the same despite its price difference. Like a $10 watch is as nice as a $1,000 watch, or that a cheap steak tastes as good as a very expensive steak. I try to talk to him about these things, but he is so set in his ideals that he won't ever believe me, even if I try and show him the difference. What would you do in my position?

2007-03-07 19:01:10 · 9 answers · asked by Chrisguy4 1 in Friends

he liked me very much, and i liked him too, after 4 months of our relationship he hurt me and i cutoff with him........after 6 months he said sorry and we started contacting again, he told me about his female friend i met her also he says she is just a buddy a good friend, his behavior is not the same, his care and concern has changed for me, this girl became my friend starting calling me and last night she told me that yesterday both of them were in car he hugged and kissed her on her cheek, she was ashamed and was telling me then she said we are just friends....i said if there was somthing between you too why didnt he tell me.she said he will tell you on the right time, if he will tell you now you will go mad, i am confused

2007-03-07 18:59:49 · 4 answers · asked by Ashiii 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 18:59:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating