I was playing hockey yesterday and this 18year old lad joined in. He started talking to a friend of mine they where getting on quite well but I felt annoyed and anxious jealous I don’t know why.
So i wanted to know why this is and what is jealousy and why do we feel it
2007-03-07 19:23:07 · 5 answers · asked by peter_newport2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
very bad.someone lack control on mind usually suffers
2007-03-07 21:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jelousy is :-
a)In this case wondering why has he chosen to talk to her over you.Thinking you are seen in his eyes as not as pretty,attractive...etc when that may or may not be the case-everyone is attracted to different types.
b)jelousy of a partner talking or giving attention to the opposite sex is down to insecuity in your relationship.You do not fully believe that he is devoted to you...
c)jelousy of a partners ex is down to you think he probably wishes he was still with her and feel you arent as gr8.
d)jelousy of a friend is common because you compare yourself to people you are close to in so many ways and also if you are best friends then you want to be included.
Finally you should not act on this jelousy because you will lose a good friend and just look like a loser.Just sweep it under the carpet and remember how you felt when you are the one being chatted to and your friend is left out.A bit of jelousy is only human and healthy but becomes a problem when you
are constantly envious of someone else
2007-03-08 04:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lorraine D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy is where u envey someone for 'having something better then urself!' its not always nessessarily try but u 'feel' they have better. weather it be prettier, with a guy/girl u like, has a better job, ect. we feel it bcoz we r insecure in ourselves n feel we want better! do u feel that u dint want this person to b talking to ur friend? did u feel that u was being spoken about? or that u just wanted to know wat was being sed?? its hard to tell the reason why u felt like thhis, but it is a normal emotion n u shouldnt let it bother u!
2007-03-08 03:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by katluvsu4eva2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We feel it when we no longer trust somebody we love/care. We feel it out of insecurity.
2007-03-08 03:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by guRl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because human fell thing and so time we don't want to but we do anyway
2007-03-08 03:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by andrea t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋