Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

is it also a bad idea to reach your hand up her shirt, and when do you know that you should do it? and how long should you kiss for?

2007-03-07 19:55:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My little sister is 13 years old and has come to me asking what she should do. Her boyfriend has been trying to talk her into having sex. I know she likes him (she says she loves him) but I also know what having sex too soon can do to you mentally. She's using what I did in the past as an example to follow and she doesn't understand it was a mistake. She can't talk to my mom about it, and I know that whatever I say to her, she'll do what she wants. She's a beautiful, headstrong, brilliant young woman and I don't want to see her hurt or diminished the way I was. How do I get her to at least THINK about what I'll say to her? I'm going to talk with her tomorrow night and I want to get this right. I know that if she's old enough to think about it, she needs to hear all the facts about condoms, STD's, pregnancy and how she changes in her own mind, but how do I teach her to tell the difference between sincere compliments and flattery used to get into her pants? How do I help her?

2007-03-07 19:55:39 · 12 answers · asked by garcia_lives86 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-07 19:54:33 · 5 answers · asked by met_expectaions 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have become friends with a lady at my sons play group. I have known her for 8 months now but we are still at the stage where you can not be totally honest. The problem is she smells so bad I dont know if I can keep quiet for too much longer. Does she really not know?? I really value her frienship as she is the kindest person I have ever met. How can I tell her without hurting her?? Please help.

2007-03-07 19:53:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am dating a wonderful man who happens to be white. When I worked at a hotel he used to come in on business trips and check in, we would talk and he always asked me out, I always said no because I never dated a white man. Finally he invited the whole front desk out for drinks well I went and we talked laughed and played fooze ball, He is handsome funny intelligent and kind. The next time he came to town he invited me to the laugh factory...I went..we had fun...this progressed to the point were I looked forward to his visits. To make a long story short (to late?) We fell in love. But my family is so against me being with him. My sister tells me I am a sell out and calls me "white girl". My brothers say I better not bring him home, but I love him. He loves me. My sister says my family will never accept him. My daughter loves him but her father (my ex) is trying to turn him against calling him Casper the rich white ghost. Should I forget about happiness and just raise my daughter?

2007-03-07 19:52:11 · 15 answers · asked by tanya 3 in Singles & Dating

This it to all the girls out there...would you slap my face as hard as u can if I ask you to? and how many times would u do it !?

2007-03-07 19:51:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

dail my fiance is on craigslist and other erotic personals and refuses to stop what should i do.

2007-03-07 19:50:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-07 19:48:46 · 13 answers · asked by Pussycat 1 in Friends

A few years back my brother said he was going to join the army, and my mom cried every night for two weeks straight. He then ended up changing his mind. I don't want to see how upset she would be if I actually joined. I've been wanting this for a long time now though. It's the one thing in my life that I am really passionate about. Any thoughts?

2007-03-07 19:47:44 · 14 answers · asked by scammaj12 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have known him for almost 3 years now and have grew to love him. But he does not know. He does not feel the same for me. Well i have been threw a break up recently and have been dealing with fake people and pushing them out of my life.This guy says he has been a friend and wants to be but i only talk to him when i see him with other friends at get togethers a when i try to be a friend to him he seems to blow me off and it seems one sided. Now i feel bad because he comes to me and wants to be a friend and we both are in a hard place in our lives. But at the same time i need to think of myself and making things better for me. I want to just let things go but it seems like i would be allowing myself to be a hippacrit if i do so just because i love him. How can i be strong and caring at the same time with out hurting myself and others? Is loving someone resone enough to look the other way?

2007-03-07 19:46:25 · 5 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Friends

I had plans and I couldn't meet him yesterday, anyway he drop me an e-mail say this.....
"Today was different in some ways......the urge to kiss you was not overpowering !....but the urge to see u was :) .....hope u have a good day." My question is does this guy have feelings for me?

2007-03-07 19:45:17 · 10 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Singles & Dating

I was watching television tonight, some program about weddings, and it said, as the ceremony finished "And now, here are Mr. and Mrs. Tony Imgrams". Does a woman lose her identity completely during a marriage? Almost as if she ceases to exist?

2007-03-07 19:44:47 · 9 answers · asked by katy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Every little thing I do for him seems to delight him.
He bounces over and gives me a giant hug! I spent a whopping 14 cents at a discount bin store and got him fingernail clippers with a knife and a bottle opener. He said he was tickled I had thought about him while I was out shopping. So I guess, here comes the question...
He's the guy I got it bad for.
Do you think he's "catching on" considering all the hugging and sweet talk?
Would most guys know by now? Especially considering he knows how stingy I am with a dime.


Oh, I picked nail clippers because he mentioned last week he needed a pair.
When I gave them to him, he said "Oh, good. I need to cut my toenails!"
I was like..."Don't let me see your feet!"
He said "You'd like my feet." (Is that flirting???)

I just write kinda flowery so don't hold "delight","bounces", and "giant hug" against him..I write like a girl..damn..I am a girl..Well that explains that! And he's not gay.

2007-03-07 19:43:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met girl when I worked at another company, we get on well and have nice chats about life in general and other topics and I enjoy her company. We've been out for lunch and a drink after work, but I'm married and don't know if I should even be doing this. I don't fancy her although she is attractive and I'm sure she doesn't see me in anyway than just a friend. I'm also 36yrs and shes 21yrs but we just get on well I enjoy giving her my years of experience. If this was a guy I don't think anything would be said and he would just be a good friend, I do have other women that are friends but all of these friendship were before I met my wife so I still see them with my wife's knowledge what shoud I do?.

2007-03-07 19:43:04 · 8 answers · asked by 247 SEB 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't be bothered being angry with him but simply don't want to be with him anymore. I feel like i need to be angry so he doesn't think i'm accepting of what he's done. I just want to talk normally & nicely with him & organise the children without any fuss. Is it ok not to be mad with him? We are not living together anymore. I know it sounds like a stupid question. I have no desire to be with him anymore.

2007-03-07 19:42:40 · 10 answers · asked by Mishell 4 in Marriage & Divorce

be open to everything?

2007-03-07 19:40:48 · 10 answers · asked by sunnycali2006 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-07 19:40:20 · 14 answers · asked by Ice Breaker 1 in Singles & Dating

I've only slept with one guy, and i've never ***. So i want to sleep with a friend of mine (we like each other a lot-he's sexy), Just to know if I can *** & also experience the feeling with a real guy. Every time i mastubate I ***.
What should I do?

2007-03-07 19:39:48 · 11 answers · asked by Sangie 1 in Singles & Dating

So can we ever say wat real love really is? How its supposed to be? Id love sum answers...
Is love about connectin from the first moment? havin no problems? if 2 people dont really match should they be 2gether? When should u give up? Why is it so hard to let someone go when u know that things arent goin 2 work out?
Ive got myself into a situation where i really dont know wat 2 do... I met this guy online it was like love at first site, we had an unbelievable connection, the first time we met up it was amazin... the second time was more complicated cause i didnt tell him wat he was gonna b up 4, my father not acceptin him cause he s black. He wanted me to tell my dad about our relationship, it took me a while 2 do but i did it. He feels as if i lied 2 him, but its not like that i just wanted 2 protect him... now he s gone. . . he says he has 2 think about things. Should i wait or just realize he never really did love me?

2007-03-07 19:39:35 · 11 answers · asked by Nicole T 1 in Singles & Dating

Good idea? give a girl my number as i walk off the bus.?
I'm really shy. there's this girl i see on the bus every thursday. We go to different colleges. I've never spoken to her though. We've made eye contact a couple times but that's it. I'm VERY shy, and would panic just trying to talk to her. I was thinking I'd walk past her going off the bus (i get off b4 her) and hand her a piece of paper with my name and number... good idea?

2007-03-07 19:38:56 · 29 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

that is comfortable in there own skin ?? and is not embarrased to be open about anything , and is real and when she knows what she wants she has her way of getting it,,
well I like to say hello and admit that it is me , yes I am not affraid to be myself,, who is next????

2007-03-07 19:37:38 · 10 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Will this have a serious effect on me?

What would you think will or has happened to me?

What do you think about this issue?

2007-03-07 19:37:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

our families didn't supported for the relation, yet we talk to each other we are finding it difficult to leave each other although we are trying to accept the truth.

2007-03-07 19:36:36 · 6 answers · asked by nidhisoni_22 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 19:35:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 19:33:52 · 10 answers · asked by Ting 4 in Marriage & Divorce

For a girl like me heres my pic!
http://i68.photobucket.com/albums/i21/vanillaskydream/cardpics005.jpg
and another
http://i68.photobucket.com/albums/i21/vanillaskydream/cardpics078.jpg
and here are the boys!

Pic:1
http://i68.photobucket.com/albums/i21/vanillaskydream/dreamboy.jpg
hes goregous !
Pic:2
http://i68.photobucket.com/albums/i21/vanillaskydream/Brian1.jpg
tell me which one is better in my category!:D
no rude answers ok im not in the mood!

2007-03-07 19:29:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mother and father have struggle every night and go out of home

2007-03-07 19:29:25 · 20 answers · asked by behnam_casillas 1 in Family

I've dating my girlfriend for 6 months. Things were very good. Recently she bought a new house and moved-in. Now she announced she wants to take a break from our relationship for 1+ months? Yesterday during the day. She said she would be at work seminar and then go for drinks afterwards. When I called her at 9PM her cell answered by accident and i could hear her but she intended to put me into voicemail. Well I was curious and listened even though she did not know her phone was on. I heard some of the distant conversation. I heard Trish and also heard a man's voice. I listened for 3 minutes than the call dropped. Trish sounded like she had been drinking and the man was asking about her other boyfriends. some was not to clear to hear. The last thing I heard was Trish saying "Do what ya gotta do honey"..Then disconnected. Help me out. Should tell trish exactly what i heard and let her explain it. will she hate me for snooping? or ask in a round about way or forget it happened

2007-03-07 19:29:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Next month, it will be 2 years since my boyfriend and I have been together. (We are both in our late 30's and currently living together.)
Since about 5 years ago, I felt ready for marriage and Motherhood, passing up an opportunity with a previous boyfriend because I felt he wasn't the right one.

My current boyfriend says and always has said he wants to get married (again - he was married once before) and have kids, yet he says he is not ready yet.

As I said, it has been 2 years almost and I wonder if staying around for another year is worth it or not.

(I've told my parents and friends that one more year is the deadline time...long enough, in my book. If nothing has happened by then, I'll leave.)

Should a woman ever wait until a man is ready?
He says I am the one, but he is just not ready yet.

I'm not quite sure if I should throw in the towel or stick around and wait a bit more.

How long, if at all...should a woman wait?

2007-03-07 19:28:40 · 7 answers · asked by Brownie 1 in Singles & Dating

Last night, I went over to a girl friend of mine, house for a chat. We were in her room chatting and also enjoying a movies together. During halfway, she kisses my cheeks... I turned and we kissed and....
Today, I called her up and she doesn't want to talk to me, and even said that nothing happened yesterday... What did I do wrong...? It was her who did the 'initiative' yesterday... Was she acting 'blur'? Or she don't want to be friend with me anymore...

2007-03-07 19:27:44 · 4 answers · asked by porridge0000 3 in Friends