Well, I am getting married June 30 this year. I just found out a close friend of mine is getting married June 18. Her's is a small low key event. I am of course going to go to her wedding, despite the pre-wedding stress, as she is a close friend. My question is that she and some of my other friends were planning a hometown party for me a shower/ bachlorette. When I found out about he wedding I called my Bridesmaids and asked if they could include her as a surprise guest of honour. I will plan a few things for her as well. I am wondering if this is enough though. Should I plan a seperate party for her, or is celebrating together good enough? (I just don't know if i have the time with my wedding plans and such.)
2007-03-07 18:24:45 · 10 answers · asked by nakiska11111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I think the other answerers didn't fully understand your question....
No it wouldn't be weird to honour your friend at your bachelorette/shower, in fact I think that is a grand gesture. Do not feel guilty for not "doing something more", you're not her Maid of Honour I am guessing? It isn't your responsibility to throw her a party in the midst of your planning. You're letting her know you care by "sharing the limelight" at your bachelorette/shower in the first place. Kudos to you! You are a great friend!
2007-03-07 18:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing special!!! She would have just had her glory 12 days before This day should be yours. It would be a personal acknowledgment to toast her in front of the whole wedding party! That would be special enough! The people who attend your wedding are there for you. It might make them no attend or feel as though the would have bring a gift. Make sure you are there for her at her time of need, getting ready, stress reliever, moral support all that. Later you could give her a house warming party or something like that of her own.
2007-03-07 18:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
planning a party for her or adding her as guest of honour at your party is really not a good idea me thinks. you both should have your own days. her maid of honour will have a party for her and you should go if invited and she should be invited to yours.
2007-03-08 03:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say that if she is a really close friend, she would think the world of you for including her on YOUR day :P
I say that would be plenty, if you dont mind sharing ofcourse :P
2007-03-07 18:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she is a close friends then she will be happy that she is included too...
2007-03-08 05:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, have two weddings at a time in the same place. People do it all the time.
2007-03-07 18:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by misterb_1972 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
go 4 a holiday trip to somewhere u like.
2007-03-07 18:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You'll appreciate having separate showers better.
2007-03-07 21:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dun get married,escapeeeeeeeeeeeee
just kidding,,actually u dun hve to rush,,take ur time ,sit down n plan nicely wat to do ,when to do n how to do it...
2007-03-07 18:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by kuti 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
but isn't that your day to?? well then share it ...
2007-03-07 18:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by E.M. 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋