Ok my situation is simple yet complex. I like this girl and she liked me. I unknowingly got weird on her as I was dealing with stress and things got worse between us. We know how each other feels, and I still care but she doesn't feel the same anymore. (Note: no romantic relationship had occurred) So she wants to be friends and so do I, but I have the glimmer of hope that I will be able to redeem myself if I had time. The only bad thing is I will only get to see her for another 3-5 weeks and we are still in the whole awkward not talking stage. I am guessing she'll need another 2 weeks ish before we get to talking or even just seeing each other. I am just looking for some advice on how to deal with the feelings of guilt that I have for pushing away the best thing I've ever had, and knowing if we are going to be friends ever that it has a good chance of fading in a short while. I'm serious about her being the best things I've come across yet! So its hard for me just to let go! HELP :(
2007-03-07 18:09:09 · 5 answers · asked by TechPhox 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
editing please hold
2007-03-07 18:20:44 · update #1
-Ok...well we both know the truth about how each other feels since we've told each other!
-The unfortunate part of trying to talk with her is that ...she isn't talking to me.
-I feel guilty because I like her still and it was because I over reacted that drove her away. And now finding out she cares, it has riddled me with grief and guilt!
2007-03-07 18:24:21 · update #2
How about telling her the truth and tell her how you felt.
Don't think about the outcome. The important thing is, you've told her the truth.
2007-03-07 18:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by Opas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in that situation before. Here something you should do that I did. I called him and told him that I was sorry for the way that I was acting and that I still cared about him. I also told him that even though I really like him I would rather just be your friend then not to have at all. So try that and tell her whatever you think you need to tell or anything you think you should tell her. (GOOD LUCK) I hope things turn out OK.
2007-03-16 01:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by cbludaisy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Print out what you wrote and put it in an envelope with her name on it and leave it where she can find it. Honesty is the ONLY chance a releationship has.
2007-03-08 02:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her!! Tell her that you were going through a rough time, I'm sure she'll understand.
2007-03-08 02:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by -мari♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new interests
2007-03-08 02:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋