ok recently...this girl that i see in the hall sometimes keeps staring at me....and i think she likes me but...i wanna get to know her better....would it be wierd if i just went up to her and said "hey...can i have ur email?" we've never spoken before....thats another problem
2007-03-07 18:21:26 · 32 answers · asked by -{s0c}- 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes.
What's weird about it is you sound like you'd ask for her email and walk away. ???????
Help on an opening line, (it seems you may need it)
Hi, my name is (insert your name here), I've noticed you, thought it would be nice to meet.
Then shut up, it's her turn to talk.
LISTEN to her, it will give you insights and ideas for you to email her about later. She'll give you her email if she's interested, or maybe her phone number. The trick is, talk to her.
Wanna be Real weird. Take notes
2007-03-07 18:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it would be really weird if you had never spoken to her before...
before you ask for her email, why don't you attempt to strike a conversation with her? but do a little investigating first- figure out what she likes (does she have stickers on her trapper keeper, does she favor a particular style of dress, does she wear a brand of shoe that's unisex). so that you'll have something to talk about, if you strike out on the usual small talk.
then if you get a good conversation going, ask her some kind of question that you know she'll say yes to like, "do you like the simpsons?" "Oh that's awesome, I can email you the address to this hilarious site that has all the quotes. etc.."
2007-03-07 18:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't ask a woman for her email or phone number, you give her yours, preferably on a nice looking card. That way, she doesn't have to feel vulnerable about giving her personal info to a man she doesn't know---and it's more dangerous for a woman to give her info away than it is the other way around in most cases. So just walk right up, say "Hi!", talk for a second or two and then say: "here's my card, get in touch sometime...." then just smile every time you see her. Maybe she'll stop, maybe she won't, maybe she'll call you or email you, maybe she won't, but she'll feel safer because she has the choice about whether or not to contact you, not the other way around.
2007-03-07 18:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her in others way instead of email, perhaps. That way she will know that you are serious about getting to know her. Maybe find a common ground that you can speak about, or find ways to find out what she likes before just going up to her and asking to get her email. Maybe when she knows you a bit better then you can ask for it. It would be a tad strange for a complete stranger to ask for an email.
2007-03-07 18:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by neverwinternights_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that would be weird. Try walking up and saying hello, my name is(insert yours here) and trying to get to know he a bit better first. Then after a decent convo say I was thinking maybe I could call you sometime if all goes well as a closer, or go for the email if all else fails.
-NmD!
2007-03-07 18:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thinking about it, might be a little strange to some girls. For me, it's not a problem. Might want to get acquainted with her or something like start a light conversation. You could even give her your email address. n
2007-03-07 18:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about instead of asking for her email, ask for her name and maybe start up a quick conversation, that may lead to an email or phone #
2007-03-07 18:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by HaLF_BaKeD123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah that sounds like a bad start. get to know her or at least of her. dont ask people who like to tell anyone everything or they will be like "hey that dude was asking about you". maybe next time you see her in the hallway and she looks at you and she smiles say hi or whats goin on and smile back nicely. watch what she does and listens to what she says back. if she gives a big toothy smile its a real good start.
2007-03-07 18:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by superheroideal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pull her to the side and do it. I wouldn't ask her infront of a bunch of people. It's embarrassing at your age. Just say to her that you would really like to get to know her better. I would also search her on myspace or something. You might be able to get it without asking.
2007-03-07 18:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by Amy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that might be a bit weird. maybe try talking to her first like asking how her day is or if you share any classes talk about that. try and find some common ground before asking for her email
2007-03-07 18:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by jademlly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋