well i like this guy...he knows...my plan was to ask him out this friday but i dont noe whether i should or shouldnt now. he has been givin me mixed signals all week...tuesday we were so close and today i coulnt get more then too words from him... i really like him and i really want to ask him out but i am not sure if its the right think to do anymore....what would you guys do in my postion and if you would ask him anyway wat would u say???? i am so confused
Thanx for the help and advice
2007-03-07 18:13:33 · 8 answers · asked by EmmY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might miss out if you don't try. But don't get hurt if he says no. n
2007-03-07 18:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just having a bad day durring the times he was acting uninterested.
Guys are not like girls in the regaurd that they cannot disguise there bad feelings like we can. That's just the way they are.
Don't think for a second his mood swings have anything to do with you.
Ask him! I'm sure he will say yes and on top of that, it will probably lift his spirits.
It sounds like he could use some good news. In fact, you might use that when you ask him.
Say that you think he needs to do something to make him cheer up and tell him you have the perfect idea. Going out with you on Friday.
That sounds good to me. He won't know if you're just being a good friend or your feelings run higher. You can flirt with him once you're on the date with him to see how he reacts.
2007-03-08 02:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not ask a guy out. I could seek him out and give him an opportunity to ask me out - go stand near him, strike up a friendly conversation, mention a new movie I've been wanting to see; there are many hints; if a guy is interested, he will pick up on these hints, and will use an opportunity to ask me. If he doesn't - he is NOT that interested. And I would not be asking someone who is not that into me.
2007-03-08 02:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just shy. Consider trying to make him as comfortable as possible in your presence. Find out something he is into and talk to him about it. Once you can see he is lost in conversation with you, then you will know that the timing is right. That's when you ask him to go somewhere with you. Good luck to you.
2007-03-08 02:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by Matt from Ga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy, then it's worth a chance. You never know unless you try right? Yep. So, go for it, mixed signals, or not, he's a guy, and we all know how "weird" they can get sometimes. Who knows? Maybe he likes you too, and just get nervous sometimes?
Good luck :]
2007-03-08 02:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was iin that position, I'll give him Thursday evening to see if he's still into me, if he still shyin away I'll forget about asking him out cause chances are he had a change in heart somewhere.
2007-03-08 02:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask if he wants to go out for lunch sometime.
2007-03-08 02:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! dont ask him out. just give him mixed signals and if he wants you, he will ask you out. (trust me on that)
2007-03-08 03:14:39 · answer #8 · answered by zeke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋