Please HELP!!!!!!?

Question

i'm in a constant fight with my mother,i love her the most and same frome her site .how can i control my anger and depression.she is very sensitive and i do not want to hurt her Please help me.thanks

Answer 1

I think its nothing wrong in that... women are sensitive though; mothers are really stronger than anyone..
but as you say,"constant fight", it describes your depressed mind. if you really want not to fight your mother or don't want to hurt her.. first lay your hands understanding youself. why is it so that there is a fight all the time?dont tell me its just the generation gap. it really can' t be the whole reason for the fight. this question needs urgent attention for your own good. try figure out and tell your mother about itt trust me , she has the best advice for you in her sleeves.
if she can't help you, no one will be able to help you.

Answer 2

Whatever you do, stop fighting with her! Many women are sensitive to these things, and you're making both of you miserable! If you or she gets pissed off, simply leave the room and come back when you can talk to each other like adults.

I don't know who's right in the argument, and I don't care. Life is short, and your relationship shouldn't be busted over a few words. She's your mum, so try to avoid taking things out on her! Hopefully she will do the same.

Regardless, try to be happy around her. Who knows how many years you will have together? So make the best of it while you can, because eventually, none of the arguments will matter.

Answer 3

first of all try 2 control ur anger if at all u cant and u get angry with her remember ur childhood days the way she looked after u ,the way she cared 4 u ...........etc .if u remember all the things she has done 4 u in ur childhood u will never feel like being angry with her bcause a mother is a friend and a person of love 4 her child.if ever u get angry with her say sorry to her and u should try to analyse ur mistake

Answer 4

First of all think of a way to settle the fights, try to chill out and not be so angry all the time, i fight with my mom and dad all the time but i just bite the inside of my cheek or i bite my lip then walk away when i dont wana really hurt their feelings. Just try to chill out for a while and talk to your mom nicely about what the problems are that you guys are fighting about. my dad said when he gets angry and depressed he goes into the middle of the woods and just yells really loud then he feels better.

Answer 5

u r not in true love. once u r in true love u never fight with them. it is universal truth. whenever u fight with ur mum at that time u r the real enemy to her. because u r receiving all good things from her but u r harming when ever u r not satisfied with ur mum.

from my point u must be a worst guy.

think it positively from ur mother side gentleman.

Answer 6

The next time you get angry tell your Mom that you can't talk right now because you are too angry and tell her that you need some time alone to vent then wneh you are more clam have a rational talk with your Mom and also give her equal time and realy listen to what she has to say

Answer 7

if you really love her so you should learn to control yourself.
if you don't like about something just tell her and have a nice conversation with her. keep your anger or throw it away.
you know her the most so you should be her best friend too

Answer 8

when you feel anger don't talk. keep mum count 1t10 numbers. cool yourself. mother thinks of her children when she find something with her children she says something which by that time not correct on your part think after cool .she may not be incorrect. you Say's she is sensitive. don't her mind .she loves you ,you too.

Answer 9

My technic is prayer!! When I get anger, I shouted, crying and after sleeping and finally praying!!


When I pray i will give all my anger and my pain to God!!

Best regards

Answer 10

When u are not in anger then tell your mom that u are sorry for whatever has happened in he past. tell her that u can't control your anger& tell her to excue u if u say something wrong.Try 2 undrstand her feelings also & if she stops u for something think it positively also.