I've been together with this boy for just over 2 months now. I know it doesn't seem like much but he really means alot to me. I love him so much. Lately we've had a few arguments cos Im gettin worried and jealous that he's flirting with other girls, when he isn't.
Any ideas to help me?
&& Also any tips on small things I can do that he'll really appreciate?
2007-03-07 18:09:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should talk to him straight up & forward and ask him, if he has been flirtatious with anyone. If he is telling the truth, and he's only being faithful to you, then stop worrying so much about it. Little arguments and quick assumptions can actually ruin a relationship, or at least make him annoyed about your suspicions. Be confident about yourself, and trust your relationship. Time tells all, and if you go for a longer relationship, more trust might grow as well.
best of luck.! :]
2007-03-07 18:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless u are a control freak or crazy there is always a reason to be jealous.I also once had that problem and got the same answers u're being given- no need to be jealouse blah blah.the truth of the matter could be u are worried coz of the way he is around other gals.Well u can decide to keep ur emotions under check but don't turn a blind eye to every thing he does.Always trust ur instincts.And do try to let loose and ket him hang out with his boys.
2007-03-07 20:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by winmwangaza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a six year relationship with someone who is jealous. My advice to you is if the person truly cares about you. Then you don't have anything to worry about. Let him talk to girls it doesn't meant he wants them. If you truly care about him don't push him away by fussing at him about simply having a conversation with another female. If it is meant to be it will be regardless what comes in it's path. As to the small things that he'll really appreciate is really up to his likes and dislikes. I like to give my man a massage and let him know that I'm always here no matter what. I help him out by not fussing all the time about the Little things in life that bug me. I always let him know he is the only one in my life. But at the same time I don't smother him I let him have his guy time without any questions.
2007-03-07 18:18:32 · answer #3 · answered by kristalpeep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same prob with my guy, he has a million friends that are girls, and I would get so jealous and worried, but I guess over time I started to trust him. That is all you can really do, if you keep worrying about it, things will get worse between you two. I have learned to let it go, he loves me, he says it to me all the time, he is very reassuring about that! Trust I guess, that is all you can do. I'm sorry I don't have a golden for sure answer, but this is what I think.
2007-03-07 18:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all do respect, to tell you the real deal, there is a good chance that he's cheating on you. So whenever you feel like he's flirting with others, flirt and cheat on him. Nobody has to know, it will make you happy and then you'll probably stop worrying as much!
2007-03-07 18:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by imyonaber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships involve trust. If you don't have trust in a relationship, it can lead to other problems like stalking and restraining orders.
You on the other hand sound very insecure. Insecurity is a very unattractive trait that can turn anybody off. Stop doing it and enjoy your moments with your boyfriend.
Enjoy life and go with the flow.
2007-03-07 18:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just said it yourself that your starting drama over stuff that he's INNOCENT of. You need to act mature & GET OVER YOURSELF, before he leaves you! Dont create a fight unless youv got PROOF of some wrong doing. Now after the way you've acted, you've probably drove him to flirting, or cheating, or into thinking maybe he's had it with you! ~ ~ ~ On ways to earn back some points u lost - - if you know & love him, thinking of special/thoughtful things to do for him should be EASY!!!!! If u'v got to rack your brain over this, maybe it's not REAL LOVE that you 2 have?!?!?!
2007-03-07 18:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by Redrum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to trust others you if you want to be trusted and also if you you want your relationships to last. Love without trust never works out. Just be flexible.
2007-03-07 18:19:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sangie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to lighten up - getting jealous is really destructive....it's insulting to the other person....so the best thing you can do that he will really appreciate is to not be jealous.
2007-03-07 18:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by mustihearthis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only 2 months and u allready want to control his life..let loose gal....dont show ur inner emotions to him yet.
2007-03-07 18:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by Eledron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋