Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

A single co-worker of the opposite sex who does the following for you, romantic interest or friendship?
showing concern when you are sick, offer snacks and cookies, offer to accompany you when you are alone for lunch or dinner, bring you dinner when you missed a company dinner, drives you to work occassionally, invites you for dinner.
I thought he was showing romantic interest.
But, when I ask him to join my husband and I for dinner, he is ok with it.
So does it mean I had misread his signs and that it is purely friendship?

2007-03-07 01:39:37 · 3 answers · asked by isabella 2 in Singles & Dating

I hear many say that nothing compares to your first true love. Do you agree with this? The only person I ever loved betrayed me, and now we are getting divorced....if what people say is true...then what hope does that leave for me? Also, why is this saying so common? What do you think?

2007-03-07 01:39:35 · 12 answers · asked by caramelqueen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-07 01:38:56 · 33 answers · asked by Bob M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was just wondering if all guys even if they are in a great relationship fantasize about sleeping with other women? one of my guy friends said it was true but he's in a really bad relationship.

2007-03-07 01:38:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And yet they keep dropping hints that are way obvious.

2007-03-07 01:38:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Always taking the mickey out of these questions then i ask one,lol
Erm,havent heard from this guy mate of mine for a while,met up with him last december.heard he is a bit down and depressed at the moment,shall i e-mail him and see if he's okay.He hasnt replied to my last messages-but i'm worried about him.Then again shall i just leave him to it? Some people feel better being alone when they're depressed.Please help.

2007-03-07 01:38:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive never really checked out their hands hehe

2007-03-07 01:38:25 · 22 answers · asked by Tookie Williams 4 in Singles & Dating

He is 74 yrs. of age, and not as active as he used to be. Hardly gets out much anymore.
His interests/pasttimes are outdoor sports, church, and music.
I'm looking for something novel, something completely new to him.

2007-03-07 01:37:28 · 2 answers · asked by Jed 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems I was reported for having an opinion about the fact fathers have a say in their children even though they refuse to see them and they don't pay maintenance. I responded to someone's question and was chastised for being angry at the fact a father can't be a real man and pay for his children - in fact supporting the asker! I didn't swear once and was only stating my feelings.

I too am a single mum, my sons father doesn't pay maintenance, and has never seen his son once despite my efforts to make this possible. It seems I'm being held in the wrong for this. I guess the person who reported me was yet another guy who hasn't paid up for his own kids and doesn't like to hear the truth.

2007-03-07 01:37:06 · 26 answers · asked by Mum-Ra 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am recently divorced and starting to date again. I have been casually seeing this girl from church the past month and this past weekend we had the most amazing time and kissed on a moon lit walk on the beach. Like a movie. Since then, I can't stop thinking about this girl to the point where it affects everything I do. I feel pathetic and unable to control my emotions. I am always wondering if the next thing I say is going to mess it up and scare her off and I am always wondering if she thinks about me the way I think about her. Is this just part of it or does this mean I am not healthy enough to date? Its pretty intense, fun and scary at the same time.

2007-03-07 01:36:21 · 12 answers · asked by fedup 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do u think whout should I do? If I talk to her also I am sure she is not going to tell me whats wrong?
I have a good friend but I dont know whats wrong with her now.
she used to text me jokes whole day n we used to chat on texts alot, after she sends me texts n all I used to chat with her or talk to her in the evening when I am free.
I hv been busy in my family so used to keep her wait for whole day for even my 1 text.
She used to immediately response to my texts n calls.. but now she stopped texting me and she talks to me now also whenever I want.
she used to give me alot of attention. We have been very close friends. I must say I really had test her patience I used to make her wait whole day and then I used to chat or talk to her for half an hour then I used to say bye.. She never used to say anything to me but I didnt do it on purpose I was really busy.
Do u think I have hurt her with my behaviour? I feel like nw she is ignoring me? what should I do to get her back?

2007-03-07 01:36:18 · 5 answers · asked by lets_smile07 1 in Friends

2007-03-07 01:36:07 · 14 answers · asked by Lollipop26 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A single co-worker of the opposite sex who does the following for you, romantic interest or friendship?
showing concern when you are sick, offer snacks and cookies, offer to accompany you when you are alone for lunch or dinner, bring you dinner when you missed a company dinner, drives you to work occassionally, invites you for dinner.
I thought he was showing romantic interest.
But, when I ask him to join my husband and I for dinner, he is ok with it.
So does it mean I had misread his signs and that it is purely friendship?

2007-03-07 01:35:23 · 11 answers · asked by isabella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

have you ever gone black then gone back?

2007-03-07 01:35:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

choose one of them you prefer ; to be cheated with one of your friend or someone you dont know?

2007-03-07 01:34:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 21 and my boyfriend is 17... I love him and he loves me. the only thing is my father... How can I get my dad to understand that I want to be with him. We have been together for 14 months. Help

2007-03-07 01:34:45 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

after putting up with years of mental abuse and now finally getting your life back, being able to sleep at night not having to worry about anything, what have or would you do

2007-03-07 01:34:24 · 14 answers · asked by who 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-07 01:34:23 · 2 answers · asked by im stuck someone grab a hose 1 in Friends

A new neighbour moved in, he invited me over for a few beers to get to know each other. There was something really suspicious about him, he dressed like he has no money, his apartment had almost no furniture, but he had a brand new stereo, it looked out of place.

Anyway after a few beers he invited me down to a club to see his band play, he suggested that we take my car, my brand new sportscar. Before I left to get the car he offered me 'one for the road', a shooter, of course I accepted. He seemed pleased.

I got home to get my car keys, all of a sudden I felt dizzy, nausious, out of place. I think he drugged my drink!! I went back to his place and made up an excuse not to go to the club, meanwhile a friend of his had arrived, a shady looking character, they seemed almost angry when I told them.

I got out of there as fast as I could, as I left I heard a lot of raised voices inside the place, they were argueing loudly. I still felt drugged.

What do you think?

2007-03-07 01:34:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-07 01:32:52 · 4 answers · asked by allenjones2003 1 in Singles & Dating

She has become too boring in bed and fantasy roleplay bothers her. So what do I do next to bring excitement back into our bedroom?

2007-03-07 01:32:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I see my cousin now and again (she lives several hundred miles away - thank goodness!), but she does tend to make remarks. Once, my mother and I went to visit and when we got back home, my mom told me that my cousin had told her that I'm 'very innocent'. I find this hurtful and I'm now embarrassed to see her again, because I dread what she is thinking of me. Yes, for my age, I suppose I am quite naive, but that's me! What can I do to feel better about this? Thanks, anyone.

2007-03-07 01:31:49 · 13 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've been seeing this girl 4 years older than me. Not that much but besides the age, she clearly has experience at her side. Why would she be interested in me? I know that in the long run I cant have anything with her, its just not possible. I enjoy being with her from time to time but I dont think about her sentimentally. She has accused me a few times with seeing her only for the goodies and she said something weird "i want you to love me". what might she be up to? ohh, she also asked me if i would still want to see her if she got back with her ex bf of 2 years. it just cant go anywhere, should i stop it before it gets more mixed up? i thought she was aware of the fact that we are just fooling around and enjoying, until she started asking me weird things! what might be going on in her mind?

2007-03-07 01:30:41 · 7 answers · asked by concerneddd 3 in Singles & Dating

I’ve been dating this guy for about 4 months now, and I’m confused because I’m not quite sure if he’s looking for the same thing I’m looking for. He’ll call maybe twice a week, but he tries his best not to call that much he says that he doesn’t want to “sweat” me, which means he doesn’t want to show me that he likes me too much. I understand that because no man wants a woman to think he’s hooked on her so soon. We’ve had sex almost 4 times within the time frame that we have been seeing each other, and he’s came over maybe twice, and we’ve just chilled and watched a movie together. I’ve never dated a guy that didn’t want to be around me all the time, and it’s kind of confusing, not that I like being smothered because I don’t, I just feel like I’m not getting enough attention from him, especially if he’s supposed to be my man. Every time I complain to him about the time we spend together, he says that he’s going to change, but doesn’t, and then when I tell him that I don’t want to waste my time on someone who doesn’t want me he confesses his feelings for me, and keeps me holding on. Something keeps telling me that maybe he is interested in me, but doesn’t want to move to fast, I think he’s trying to feel me out, and see what type of woman I am before he commits to me, and I understand that. But he’s not giving me an opportunity to feel him out, because I might be the type of woman he wants, but he may not be the type of man that I want. Please give me your opinions on this situation, because I’m so confused. Should I stay or should I go?

2007-03-07 01:29:58 · 6 answers · asked by sweetstlouis 2 in Singles & Dating

Well...my fiance and I just bought a house together. It's supposed to be done sometime next month. We're 22 and 23 yrs old..and we still have seperate bank accts, etc. His dad doesn't need to help him out anymore. He just graduated college, etc.. But where we've been living in apts, his bank statements still go to his parents' just to be on the safeside, so they don't get lost or sent to someone else down here. Now the thing that annoys me is that his dad looks through every dime he spends. He even makes little comments about what he does when we go home. You know, if he bought groceries or something, his dad'll say something about it, not sarcastic, but just seriously nosy and almost grudgingly. I haven't graduated yet..and I make less money..and it just seems like his dad kind of sneers at that. Anyway, I just feel that it's none of his business since he's out of college, engaged, and 23. Am I wrong to feel this way? I haven't said anything about it...but it just feels l

2007-03-07 01:28:45 · 9 answers · asked by blah123456 1 in Family

i'm a secondary one girl....
i liked a boy in class which have a GF outside school...
i told him i liked him through a friend..
but, some people said that he sae i'm too tall for him...
some people sae that he said that his current GF was more beautiful than mie 10 times~!
but sometimes in class, he tends to look at mie alot....
but, i dunnoe if he likes mie ornot..
how can i noe and how do i get him to like mie??
Can you kind souls HELP mie please???
thanks~

2007-03-07 01:28:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anyone else that has kissed someone with a tongue ring???DId you think it was kinda gross or didn't it bother you?

2007-03-07 01:27:42 · 10 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Singles & Dating

see my bf cheated on me like a year ago and this girl is saying he is the father of her now 2 month old baby. even though he says he isn't I asked him why don't u go and get a test done and he says that she has to go and ask for one that he can't b/c they want let him. Well i want to know does the mother have to go and ask for one or the guy she is trying to say is the father having to ask for one. I know deep down he is the father but he want admit to it b/c he is 20 and she is 16. me and him are the same age.

2007-03-07 01:26:44 · 6 answers · asked by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been married for 4 years and we have had few problems latley about me beeing bie i now i should of told him but but i was scared he would not want to know me i have told him i will not do out as i love him so much but he very un easy and is always watching me wen on phone or computer

2007-03-07 01:26:42 · 26 answers · asked by sarah-lou 2 in Marriage & Divorce

once its decided that one party gets the house, how is the other person made to vacate? are they given a certain amount of time to leave by? also when the house is sold, whenever that is, they usually get half right?

2007-03-07 01:26:32 · 11 answers · asked by charli_red1218 3 in Marriage & Divorce