Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

This sounds so immature, but I can't seem to stop feeling jealous of my husbands sister! Before we were married she lived in another state and they talked about once or twice a week. I knew they were close and of course I thought that was wonderful! Now though she moved back, and she and him must talk 3 or 4 times a day! He must spend at least 2 or 3 hours with her over at her house a day! Of course he always wants me to come to which is nice, but sometimes I need to do things around our place. Mostly I enjoy my husbands company more than anything, and now I feel that he has split his time between us, and I can't help but be jealous about his new best friend! I tell myself it could be worse, that at least best friend is his sister, but I still find myself irritated when she calls at 10 or 11 at night wanting him to come over and hang out with her- (she has a family too, so I don't think it is a matter of her being lonely) I

2007-03-07 01:09:08 · 15 answers · asked by sweetpea 1 in Family

I was in the worst relationship. He would always put me down, He never worked so I paid for everything and he would cheat on me nonstop on top of all of that he would hit me. I kept giving him chances but when I found out that he was still calling girls up I had enough and we broke up. Now I'm just angry cuz of everything that I went through and I can't stop being angry I want to get over this and move on but I still think about it. He's moved on so easily that it hurts more. He told me that he never loved me and that our 2 year relationship was nothing that I was the one that caught feelings and that we were just f**king. That hurts cuz we lived together and we have a baby. I feel that everything I went through was for nothing if he's saying this. But what hurts most is that he goes around telling his cousin that I'm the one calling him trying to get him back. But he has actually been the one asking to come back. How can I stop being angry at this liar and move on?

2007-03-07 01:08:30 · 8 answers · asked by Uriko 1 in Singles & Dating

alot of people females in particular from past to present always told me im quiet.to some i said would you prefer a quiet guy like me or a loud guy most said quiet.i maybe quiet,but i still have backbone trust me.so ladies who would you rather trust and deal with a quiet guy or a loud guy?

2007-03-07 01:08:01 · 24 answers · asked by Daniel c 1 in Singles & Dating

A woman must cook, clean, not to be lazy, work, pay her share of
bills, look after children, look good, do not be fat, be good in bed
and provide her man with sex anytime he asks... Does a man "must" a woman something? From what I see and read here, he "must" her nothing...
Even if he cheats, they say that it's her fault.

2007-03-07 01:07:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I cheated on husband and and in love with other man.
Husband and I have been going trough some problems and after 26 years I thought why not he never look at me the way I deserve or thought I deserved. After a lot of arguments I finally got him to agree to move so other man could move in, or so I thought. My only son who is 13, got himself a Guardian Adlightom and got a restraining order against other man!
I can't move him in and to top it off his guardian adlightom has stated I"m an unfit parent who cheated!
My son is considered a minor, but because of his age(13) he has the right to choose who he want to live with, he said HIS FATHER, and i'm Pissed at his answer because it means I have to move from home and now sister tell me I have to pay $690.00 a month for child support! and son wont see me either! I lost home, saving, and son, if I'm finally happy it's okey, but other man left too. I have nothing now,I have child support to pay $690 and hate my son who destroyed my happiness.

2007-03-07 01:07:30 · 6 answers · asked by disturb m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-07 01:06:35 · 7 answers · asked by SA Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with him for 8 years I dont know how much more of this that I can take what can I do about this problem?

2007-03-07 01:06:03 · 22 answers · asked by Arneece J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Best answer wins a pair of her old panties

2007-03-07 01:05:34 · 9 answers · asked by Britsrule 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mum and dad died in a car crash when i was 15 and my sister was 12, and last year my aunty died from cancer, and i said my sister could live with me and my bf! now im 18 and she 15 and shes gone and gotten herself pregnant, and i said that if she wanted to keep the baby id say it was mine cos shes not showing yet and i had a baby at 15 and i no how hard it is, so all i want to no is am i donig the wright thing by saying that ill bring up her baby? cos i no i can clothe it and feed it with my design work and my bfs lawyer wadges!

2007-03-07 01:05:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-07 01:04:40 · 39 answers · asked by tb41uk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-07 01:03:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's my story.I liked this guy a lot. He was always confusing me about how he felt.One minute he'd say something like "I don't want to ruin our friendship",inregards to dating,and then in the same breath he'd say "but,you never know."So I would be patient an wait & yes,now I feel totally stupid & hurt, for having done that.I just found out, this weekend, by a friend of mine who had no idea that I liked this guy, that he DOES have a girlfriend. he's been seeing her for a while now.I asked my friend, before I found this out,several times,if he had a girlfriend.He'd always say no.So now I found out totally by accident and now he won't even be man enough to talk to me about this.Why can't people be upfront with others? Why can't we realize that the lies will hurt more when found out?Why won't he talk to me about it? I guess he never cared about me as his friend and it doesnt matter, really that he did ruin our friendship by lying.Please, no comments about how stupid I was. I know this.

2007-03-07 01:02:03 · 7 answers · asked by Fuzzy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 01:02:01 · 13 answers · asked by Britsrule 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy but he,s in 4th grade wat should i do??????

2007-03-07 01:00:36 · 6 answers · asked by Emily G 1 in Singles & Dating

1) appearance
2) an academic[educational] background
3) occupation
4) economic power
5) etc

2007-03-07 00:59:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We dated for 3 weeks and she says she wants to be friends. One night we went out dancing and really bumped and grinded, and she says she would have slept with me if it were a one night stand. But she says she won't do it because we are friends.

2007-03-07 00:58:51 · 15 answers · asked by siyafrica 1 in Singles & Dating

intelligent (sp?) womem now a days

2007-03-07 00:57:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going out with a couple of my friends and I am not sure what is the best thing to do with them? My mom says we should eat out but what should we do after that?

2007-03-07 00:56:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i really used to be a little aggesive before i dated now dumped this churchy guy. my best friend used to be all talk no action now she is all action and im well action still but less. i get shy and find my self watching more then doing now. what should i do to be my old self again i mean he is so hot and i love him and i like the kinky stuff but im now really shy what should i do?

2007-03-07 00:54:57 · 7 answers · asked by ali#1 hotcheka 1 in Singles & Dating

What should I do I have a boyfriend we have been together 1 month but this other guy who I dated last year is filrting with me again I truly do like him but i like my boyfriend too what should i do I am 17

2007-03-07 00:53:39 · 14 answers · asked by Megan R 1 in Singles & Dating

How to deal with my BF and his ex?
my boyfriend's ex gf, although she's polite enough to me, it's still pretty awkward when we're around each other, and he doesn't seem to get that (they say boys are oblivious to things, AND ITS TRUE). also, when she's around he won't show any affection towards me, like kiss me or anything. should this bother me? also, how should i behave in a situation where the 3 of us are together?

2007-03-07 00:53:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am not flirt......this is very serious matter....plz mail me at Ashiqbhat@gmail.com....i wil b thankful

2007-03-07 00:53:00 · 15 answers · asked by boyofkashmir 2 in Singles & Dating

we usually do it on the bed but i really don't enjoy it, i'd rather do it on the chair or in a standing position... is there somthing wrong
within me? what must i do to enjoy sex on the bed?...please help me!

2007-03-07 00:52:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf and i are at uni together- so's his ex. they were together for about 10 months. I know he's over her and he tells me he wants to be with me now. But i feel so insecure, I'm always comparing myself to her (she is gorgeous - looks and personality - and frankly I don't know why he broke up with her). Also, I worry that the same thing will happen to me as did to her. what to do?

2007-03-07 00:51:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am recently married to a Fort Campbell soldier and am trying to find out how I go about getting a divorce. This is both of our first marriage, no children and no major assets to split. We were married in Ny and now live in TN so will we have to divorce in NY or can we do it here? I am trying to see what the courts see as Desertion, Abandonment, adultery and irreconcilable differences. Is him leaving me to go to Iraq and getting up and moving out of our house when he was home considered deserting or abandoning me? Is him talking to mutiple woman online considering adultery or only if he has sex with them do they see that as that? Is cruel and inhuman treatment fall under him putting his hands on me and the police had to get involved or trying to burn down the house. Impotence is not being able to get it up so then can it also be considered not being able to keep it up? How much can a divorce cost up to if it is uncontested (we both agree). Do you know any good divorce lawyers in TN?

2007-03-07 00:51:20 · 19 answers · asked by lilsusie2483 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Go get your coffee...I'll wait for you!

2007-03-07 00:51:16 · 9 answers · asked by Karen 2 in Singles & Dating

If your Boyfriend got locked up should you wait for him if yall are in love and been together for a year and a half? But is it okay to have friends until he get out? Or should I just be loyal to my man and wait for him don't have friends or talk to other guys?

2007-03-07 00:51:01 · 13 answers · asked by Mz.Tweety 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 00:50:42 · 8 answers · asked by Son of the bunboy 1 in Family

but really desperately want one more then anything? Are women not genetically programmed for seeking a relationship above all else?

what happens if you pretend something really well for a long enough time?

which boat are you in huh?

2007-03-07 00:50:17 · 15 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf cheated on me and i caught him redhanded, but im not mad and i forgive him. He says hes sorry and he'll never do it again. should i keeep him??? i still love him

2007-03-07 00:49:14 · 20 answers · asked by acelover12forever 1 in Singles & Dating