My bf cheated on me and i caught him redhanded, but im not mad and i forgive him. He says hes sorry and he'll never do it again. should i keeep him??? i still love him
2007-03-07 00:49:14 · 20 answers · asked by acelover12forever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure....if you can get that picture out of your head.....not for me thanks
2007-03-07 00:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you aren't mad that he cheated is a big red flag. You deserve better than that. You need to gain respect for yourself and find someone who deserves you. Anyone who cheats is disrespecting you in the worst way. Just because you love them does not mean they are good for you. The fact that he'd cheat, and the fact that you think so little of yourself as to not be angry over it should indicate this isn't a healthy relationship.
Good luck to you!
2007-03-07 08:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes if you still love and and you want to make this work keep your man. If you trust him and you feel as if he deserve another change give him one follow your heart and nobody Else's because when it's all said and done the only matter is if your happy or not. Let me tell you my bf recently cheated on me it hurt me real bad and it was hard but i took him back because nobody is perfect i know he love me cause if he didn't when he got caught he wouldn't of cared but he did. I say you give him another chance and try to make it work if he make you happy.
2007-03-07 08:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mz.Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater, sorry. I can't believe you actually forgave him, especially catching him in the act and all. Yikes! That's something I don't think I could ever get over. How could you not be mad? Don't stay with someone just because you're afraid to be alone. You'll just end up getting hurt over and over again.
2007-03-07 08:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by writergal16 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
True forgiveness is a noble quality, a rare gift from beyond. Most will never comprehend the heart of an act such as this. a person possessing a pure unselfish heart such as yrs is deserving of respect. I truly hope yr b/f realizes what he holds in his hands. Good luck!
2007-03-07 09:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit down and talk with him, you should say just what made you cheat. Then Tell him that he must not have any respect for you or love because he did this terrible thing to you. Then decide if you want to put with him forever.
2007-03-07 08:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You caught him this time. How many times has he cheated and you didn't catch him? I know what it is like to love someone and your heart says hold on but you know you should let go. You deserve someone you can trust. I think you should let go.
2007-03-07 08:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by Janst 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, most men are not mature enough for any relationship to not stray..its in our blood? also we do a lot of thinking with our little head instead of our big head.
forgive him as he probably is a good man and just wanted to see if he still got it...but women usually don't have this kind of stinking thinking...as most men would go nuts if they thought their women cheated on them..double standard?
well, to err is human and to forgive Davine?/ just take the higher ground and be a Saint to your naughty bf..in the end they always come back to you gals..?
2007-03-07 08:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
it's up to you. I wouldn't forgive him that easy if i were u, usually cheaters don't "cure" and if he knows this is not a serious problem he will cheat again.
2007-03-07 08:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by teen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you know the problem with us (girls) is that we forgive easily but we sure cannot forget. before asking this question, ask yourself can you forget waht he has done. if you can go ahead:). but if you can't don't lower yourself. if he really liked you why would he go to some other person.
2007-03-07 08:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by sana 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes try to work it out BUT dont give him all ur trust again until he proves to u that hes really sorry
2007-03-07 08:53:55 · answer #11 · answered by ♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋