Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

I am 24 and have been with my boyfriend for 18mths. he is 22. We are currently living at his mum's to try and save money for a mortgage i thought we both wanted. He has now turned around saying he doesn't want a mortgage right now and he wants to go back to having fun and not to argue or discuss the future anymore. He is happy with living for evryday and whatever happens...happens. I just like to know we are both eventually heading in the right direction. He has told me he loves me and wants to be with me but doesn't know what to do anymore.
What should i do, how can i let him know that i can relax, be fun and not talk about a mortgage any more?

2007-03-07 01:57:15 · 22 answers · asked by Laura B 1 in Singles & Dating

My Sister in law is turning 25 on Sat and she met this doctor guy who lives in a mansion, to make this story short. She is throwing this huge combined b-day bash with her best friend, and it will be a lingerie party.
My husband and I along with friends of ours will be going, the thing is that i'm jealous and it bothers me to go to a paty where all the girls will be half naked in lingerie drinking all night, I can easily ignor the situation by dressing the same and looking hott (besides we ARE married and he will be going home with me) but now we might just go with all of our guy friends (which are like brothers to me) but this is because my girl friends are more jealous and a bit more insecure than I (they dont think they would look good in lingerie) what should I do? should I just put my jealous thoughts behind and show him that i am confident in our relationship and in my skin? Or should I band him from attending his sisters bash?

2007-03-07 01:57:04 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

When I asked my brother for getting a girlfriend (he has a girlfriend), and here's is what I wrote in the email, I paraphrased it to condense it.

"Are there any pointers on to getting a girlfriend? I never had an intimate relationship nor have a big amount of female friends. Just because a female is your friend, that doesn't mean that she will become your girlfriend. I know that 1st appearance matter so I will stop biting my nails permanently."

He is in college while I am at home. I emailed that email since Feb 10, 2007 and he didn't reply. When he got home, I asked about him about it and he said he didn't replied to it since he didn't know what to say. The relationship between my brother and I is that I never talk to him (online or phone). Our communication is dead. and also, when I email about the vacation that my cousins and I went. my email was only to bring how much money we should bring and what should we do. They all thought my emails were wierd. How is my email wierd?

2007-03-07 01:57:02 · 1 answers · asked by Salsa Dancer 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel so confused about my ex, weve been split up naw 6 months, we were together for four years..! yet im still thinking about her loads at the moment...! Whats going on..????

Im seeing someone new aswell

2007-03-07 01:56:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we had been dating for 9 months and i found my self treating her bad like if i had dominated her or like if i was the macho man, my self being to her was more of a cold person not lovable meaning not showing her how much i love her.she told me to try and to try to change and so i did but i guess it was not enough.little by little her feelings were changing and now i have lost her. i treated her in the worse way possible and now i realize how she felt. it was not my intention, i love her, she cried alot for me and now i realize how much i hurt her, the way that i am feeling she felt many times. just on monday it was over between us and i went to her house that night and talked to her in every way possible for her to give me a chance and she said that it is to late that she doesnt lov me any more and that she is hurt really bad for the way that i treated her and of my self bein.i do love her,it is my1st relation and find in hard to show her.Do i still have a chance with her?whatcan ido

2007-03-07 01:56:34 · 3 answers · asked by jota 1 in Singles & Dating

I was married for a few years a long time ago and kept my married name when I divorced for the sake of convenience as we had two young children together who were about the enter school. I'm getting married again soon and would like to take back my maiden name as well as my new husband's. For example Smith-Johnson, Smith being the maiden name. Can I do that when I get married or will I have to do that separately?

2007-03-07 01:55:57 · 11 answers · asked by Laura Renee 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My Sister in law is turning 25 on Sat and she met this doctor guy who lives in a mansion, to make this story short. She is throwing this huge combined b-day bash with her best friend, and it will be a lingerie party.
My husband and I along with friends of ours will be going, the thing is that i'm jealous and it bothers me to go to a paty where all the girls will be half naked in lingerie drinking all night, I can easily ignor the situation by dressing the same and looking hott (besides we ARE married and he will be going home with me) but now we might just go with all of our guy friends (which are like brothers to me) but this is because my girl friends are more jealous and a bit more insecure than I (they dont think they would look good in lingerie) what should I do? should I just put my jealous thoughts behind and show him that i am confident in our relationship and in my skin? Or should I band him from attending his sisters bash?

2007-03-07 01:55:46 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

am a 20 year old fem, an iv started seein a guy , an i called it of on the weekend, but we ended up giving it another go, the thing is none of my family like him, an i dont no what to do, as when i say its over i feel really bad, but when am with him i feel like i cant go out with him, is this right? shall i stay with him or are we better as friends, as iv knew him since we were kids. plz help coz am confussed on it all

2007-03-07 01:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by miss shy 1 in Singles & Dating

and even though i had a hard time getting it all the way in, it felt nice. Well, this morning when i woke up, the hole was all red and it throbs!!! Do you think it got infected?

I love wearing earrings, but really, could my earlobe be infected? How do i get this earring out if the hole is almost shut?

2007-03-07 01:54:39 · 15 answers · asked by Iook_who's_back 1 in Singles & Dating

boyfriend says hanging out with any guy at a certain time.. will make him look bad....i met him already knowing these guys.. going to eat movies etc.,

accepting gifts from other guys.. is that cheating too??

2007-03-07 01:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by CHELAKIKI 2 in Singles & Dating

He told me he loved me a couple weeks after we met. He said he wanted to marry me less than a month after that. I had to move back to the state where my father lives in another state to finish grad school so we broke up. We didn't talk for 7 months and then he suddenly called me and asked me to marry him. Is he being serious or playing games? I don't understand why a guy that normally is c*cky and has tons of girls would suddenly change and want to get married after only knowing the girl for such a short time. Could he actually mean it?

2007-03-07 01:53:13 · 16 answers · asked by 98nil 2 in Singles & Dating

Yet he doesnt always call you first. Now why is that?

2007-03-07 01:52:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have let far too many golden opportunities pass. I freeze up, I don't know what to do... Ideas all fade from my mind. My body doesn't seem to operate on the same frequencies... I just want to say something, it doesn't have to be flirtation... that can come later. Something, do SOMETHING! Move your little feet over there and say "Hi!" ... then what?

2007-03-07 01:50:58 · 5 answers · asked by Invisible_Flags 6 in Singles & Dating

We've been close to our grandaughter "BBD" since the moment she was born. our first grandchild & the absolute light of our lives My daughter returned to work when she BBD was 12 months..We were thrilled to have her 2 days a weeks H's husband is controlling , possessive alcoholic & she co-dependent.. She moved 90 minutes away for a better position at work, We maintained our relationship w/BBD and H . BBd spent the night 3 x a month(Heaven).after 6 months of no work for P, I asked H if P was getting a job, as he does No homework or childcare) She seemed to "snap" and hasn't spoken to us or responded to phone calls emails& denied us all contact w/BBD We are worried about BBD, does she think we don't love her? We're dead? she must anxious 2 sons 16&17 R heartbroken,so r we H won't speak to her 4 siblings either. H is now completely isolated. her friends dislike P she dropped them 1by1. At his demand whoever isnt his fan is gone. What will happen to BBD psychologically, emotionally?

2007-03-07 01:50:49 · 4 answers · asked by Ms. Spiegelicious 1 in Family

if im really shy but want to meet people how can i just go up and start somthing as in a conversation

2007-03-07 01:48:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband ex girlfriend says shes still in love with him shes a ex by 2 years shes kept all his pictures wrote poems about him she can't seem to let go he says she cheated on him she said he did. I finally told him she didn;t and i told him how she still felt about him ? was i wrong in doing so? my husband secert was he was still married while we were dating he got his divorce in october of last year accept he forgot to tell me until i guess it and ask him.
Hurt I was very hurt that he could not tell me to start with he left his wife five years ago and only last june he file for a divorce we were married 3 weeks ago.I don't know what to feel anymore.
With his ex girlfriend still in love with him he met after his wife but at that time he wasnt doing anything but womaniezing ever women his girlfriend knew but she stayed until the ex showed up and the girlfriend thought there was something going on i havent told her there wasnt i feel like his ex is haunting me does he still love her?

2007-03-07 01:48:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK I told to one guy that l like his iPod and he said "It can be yours" but wasnt able to talk more? what could it means??

2007-03-07 01:47:29 · 4 answers · asked by Smashing Pumkie pie 2 in Singles & Dating

Signed: confuzed and curious...

2007-03-07 01:47:14 · 9 answers · asked by nubs2stubs 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 01:46:59 · 45 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Singles & Dating

Give your personal opinion why you think a guy and girl should date?

2007-03-07 01:46:20 · 19 answers · asked by El Besos 1 in Singles & Dating

i am very attracted to my wife, i am always turn on by her looks, scent, voice, and smile. when we are next to each other we both want to make love. but i always want to make love to her. is there a problem with always being turned on?

2007-03-07 01:46:15 · 21 answers · asked by soto_a81 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK so my friend was being a f ucking idiout one day and she pushed one of my best friends into me right it was nasty and weird. So me and my other called her and siad that she was a pervert and a bag and stuff and now she is really mad? What should i say. Should i say i am sorry and make her too. PLEASE HELP!

2007-03-07 01:46:11 · 2 answers · asked by skimboardergal6 3 in Friends

My sister in law is so worried about what people thinks. She can't keep a secret, and i've never met a bigger liar. I can't think of one thing I like about her, but she is married to my brother...so I need to get along with her for his sake... b/c we are going to be around each other the rest of our lives. I've tried hard to be nice to her but i just feel like i'm being fake. How do I get over this and be nice to such a rude person?

2007-03-07 01:45:56 · 7 answers · asked by ALF 2 in Family

me and my boyfriend have been together for 5monthes and our relationship isent that good. well since we both go to skool ppl always spread stuff bout me and him and i never know whats true. like for example they tell me hes a player or that hes cheating on me and all this. should i believe it??? or should i believe him when he tells me it aint true. but i do kno his past amd he does seem like a player to me to ...but not anymore. he even still talks to his old girlfriends. what should i do?

2007-03-07 01:45:18 · 18 answers · asked by T!FF@NY R3Y3$! 1 in Singles & Dating

In the state of Nevada, when you are filing for divorce are you a petitioner or a plaintiff?

Thanks in advance.

2007-03-07 01:43:42 · 8 answers · asked by luvdov 2 in Marriage & Divorce

or other?

what body of water are you on?

2007-03-07 01:43:06 · 7 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont want to hurt him but i need sometime. he's all i've know for 3 years. how do i walk away from something like that. he has never cheated on me or anything i was need to swim a little

2007-03-07 01:41:01 · 9 answers · asked by Sexy Z 3 in Singles & Dating

father is supporting his friend family(wife n children) but he is doing this ,by telling lie to his wife because she is suspecious toward him...... so how can d daughter handle the condition to make every thing right.... please help

2007-03-07 01:40:12 · 11 answers · asked by ANGEL 1 in Family

can anyone tell me where iz tha best place to find a girlfriend? or atleast can someone help me find a girlfriend?

2007-03-07 01:40:10 · 1 answers · asked by Grififn F 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 01:40:10 · 5 answers · asked by Bob M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships