we had been dating for 9 months and i found my self treating her bad like if i had dominated her or like if i was the macho man, my self being to her was more of a cold person not lovable meaning not showing her how much i love her.she told me to try and to try to change and so i did but i guess it was not enough.little by little her feelings were changing and now i have lost her. i treated her in the worse way possible and now i realize how she felt. it was not my intention, i love her, she cried alot for me and now i realize how much i hurt her, the way that i am feeling she felt many times. just on monday it was over between us and i went to her house that night and talked to her in every way possible for her to give me a chance and she said that it is to late that she doesnt lov me any more and that she is hurt really bad for the way that i treated her and of my self bein.i do love her,it is my1st relation and find in hard to show her.Do i still have a chance with her?whatcan ido
2007-03-07 01:56:34 · 3 answers · asked by jota 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hopefully this will encourage you to seek counseling for your behavior. There are deeper reasons why you behaved as you did towards someone you supposedly love, especially if you really didn't want to push her away. Something inside you is keeping you from getting close and trusting the love of someone else. Right now you are feeling desperate at the loss of someone who once wanted to be with you and no longer does. It's the rejection that hurts the most, as the love hardly had the chance or the time to flourish. Best thing you can do is learn to respect yourself and conduct yourself in a respectful way so as to gain and maintain the respect of others. Counseling will help you if you allow it too. You really have to want to change that about yourself and be willing to make the necessary efforts. Change isn't easy, but it isn't impossible. Good luck.
2007-03-07 02:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could have already got somebody new. simply by fact the asserting is going you don't understand what you have have been given til it somewhat is lengthy previous. For 9 mos you dealt with her like crap, sorry bud yet there is not any excuse for that. i might have left you a lengthy time in the past, not attempting to be advise simply by fact i'm specific you're hurting. with a bit of luck you will use the errors you made on your first dating to be a greater effective guy on your next...good success and that i choose you the terrific.
2016-10-17 11:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she dosent hve any feelings 4 u anymore then jst try 2 4get bout her, dis is ur 1st relationship, usually it'll be hard 4 u to leave her, so now u learned ur lesson, try 2 find anotha girl, n treat her nicely n i hope ur relationship stay 4 a long time!!
2007-03-07 02:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by cairo_kittens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋