am a 20 year old fem, an iv started seein a guy , an i called it of on the weekend, but we ended up giving it another go, the thing is none of my family like him, an i dont no what to do, as when i say its over i feel really bad, but when am with him i feel like i cant go out with him, is this right? shall i stay with him or are we better as friends, as iv knew him since we were kids. plz help coz am confussed on it all
2007-03-07 01:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by miss shy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what makes it harder is when am not with him i do think about him..i dont wanna break a good friendship an i dont wanna loose somethin that could turn out t be good
2007-03-07 02:20:50 · update #1
Your still young dont panic that he will do and so have to stick with him. Listen if he was a new expensive outfit you were about to buy and was this undecided about it you would put it back on the rack and look elsewhere to get your monies worth. Be his friend he probably feels more like a brother to you and so it feels wrong.
2007-03-07 02:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u must know about his thoughts regarding u. If none of ur family dont like him then they might have some experience him. further now a days except ur family members you cannot believe on other, other wise you may have to pay for this. So be mature sepcially while u think about a guy bcoz just giving a look to some body cannot b love.
take care
2007-03-07 02:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by chanchal s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well did you call it off because of your family or because you wanted it?
If its over the family then you need to decide if you can stay with him without their approval - families dont always back us up in decisions we make - and its quite upsetting - but at the end of the day only you can decide whats more important - being with him or not being with him
If you do stay with him you can prove your family wrong - you might end up in a fantastic loving relationship with him and end up very happy!
If you're not sure due to your own personal confusion then Id take a step back - discuss it with him and try and find out why you're unsure about it.
Good luck
xx
2007-03-07 01:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what your mind is saying and stay as friends. If none of your family like him then unless the two of you have a remarkable bond then you will lose all of your family.
2007-03-07 02:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how u feel but don't call it off just talk with ur parent, if u can't face both of them, then, u could talk with ur mom and tell her what u feel for him. I know she will understand and be able to talk with the rest of the family to try and give him a chance for u to be happy.
2007-03-07 02:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by Impossible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're only with him out of guilt! No relationship is gonna work because you wud feel bad for breaking up with him. If i were you i wud let him down gently and just try to be his friend. Good Luck x
2007-03-07 02:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by **Missy** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your choice, if he treats you good and you dumped him would you feel resentment towards your family? it doesnt matter if no one else in the world likes him as long as your both happy, good luck
2007-03-07 02:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by tra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a guy friend i dated twice...we figured out we're better friends....and i went through the same thing...well he ended it both times not me...but now we are the best of friends so if you feel like you shouldn't be with him then you shouldn't..
2007-03-07 01:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your intuition is right. Listen to it. You dont belong together.
2007-03-07 01:57:36 · answer #9 · answered by rybo510 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u dont belong together.
2007-03-07 02:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by SA Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋