My sister in law is so worried about what people thinks. She can't keep a secret, and i've never met a bigger liar. I can't think of one thing I like about her, but she is married to my brother...so I need to get along with her for his sake... b/c we are going to be around each other the rest of our lives. I've tried hard to be nice to her but i just feel like i'm being fake. How do I get over this and be nice to such a rude person?
2007-03-07 01:45:56 · 7 answers · asked by ALF 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Pretty much the way that you are behaving now. Who cares if you feel like you are being fake is it making your brother happy that you get along with your sister-in-law? Then if his happieness is important to you just go along don't tell her anything you would not want public knowledge and go.
2007-03-07 01:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
when its family its not always the easy thing.
There will be a day that maybe you and her can just talk and maybe you can honestly tell her how you feel and maybe thats not what she wants to hear but maybe thats what she needs to hear and either she wil find respect for you being honest or what did you really have to lose. If she is the liar that you say she is than i would make sure that i would let someone else know that i was going to talk to her and about what or better yet back yourself up with a letter to her and make copys of it . sometimes you can write what you feel better than saying it !!! It sounds like she has hurt your feelings about something that should of been kept a secret . Dont worry you will found out maybe once you start speaking up that your not the only the one and sometimes it just takes someone that true is to themselfs !!( stick to what you believe in ) I have found people like her usually are worried about what people think cause they have alot to hide! good luck!!
2007-03-07 02:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by rocko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no getting around this one. You can either pretend to be nice to her. Which sucks. Or you can open up to your true feelings and upset your brother. Which also sucks. As long as you don't have to go around her that often would be good thing.
2007-03-07 02:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by southg11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My little sister is going to be lots taller than me. Our distinction is 6 years and he or she is already previous me. She even seems older than me (inspite of the truth that she ideas a layer of makeup and garments regrettably like maximum cutting-part 13 year olds) inspite of the truth that i became born untimely and take after my mom, even as she takes after my dad.
2016-12-05 09:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the nearist drug store and buy her a fleet enama package. Give it to her as a gift. i.e birthday or aniversity.
2007-03-07 10:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by zjkenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like ur bro married my bros ex...lol i just told my bro up front if that makes u happy then be happy but keep the drama away from me... their marriage lasted a whole 2 yrs.... bet he wishes he listened to me now... goodluck
2007-03-07 01:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by kitttkat2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do what you are doing and don't be so sure that she will be around forever. Mine wasn't! :)
2007-03-07 01:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋