me and my boyfriend have been together for 5monthes and our relationship isent that good. well since we both go to skool ppl always spread stuff bout me and him and i never know whats true. like for example they tell me hes a player or that hes cheating on me and all this. should i believe it??? or should i believe him when he tells me it aint true. but i do kno his past amd he does seem like a player to me to ...but not anymore. he even still talks to his old girlfriends. what should i do?
2007-03-07 01:45:18 · 18 answers · asked by T!FF@NY R3Y3$! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are evidently insecure in this relationship. So, get out of it and get a boyfriend at another school. Then your friends can't interfere. Boys are a dime a dozen.
2007-03-07 01:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by docelec2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a player. Players go for hot girls. lol. He just sounds like a douche, to be honest. You already know the guy is just back with you because his other relationship went sour, and you STILL took him back? Have some pride. Ditch that loser. Why would you ever dream that his behavior is going to change in a few weeks? It's going to be the same story over and over again. Stop being a doormat. Ditch him.
2016-03-28 22:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by Cornelia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow sounds like to me the guy is probably a player...but you can't always believe what people say...If you really like him stay with him and just be careful and look out for yourself....but if your not sure about everything get out while you can even though 5months is a long time.......think about how hurt you would be if you found out about it and ya'll were dating for over a year it would be a lot worse....!
2007-03-07 01:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by HelpMe123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should follow your gut feelin. If you arent already having such a good relationship. Then its not the rumors, its the chemistry that you just dont have with him. But if you feel that he playin you, then just straight out ask him, and tell him to answer honestly if not then the way you see it, is that you both cant work things out...But promise him that that wil be the last time you will ever ask him...
And never belive rumors..people just hatin..they got nothing better to do, than make up things
2007-03-07 01:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by gurl20073 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one thing I have learned is don't trust people from school. They love gossip and love to talk ****. They could do it because they are jealous or just down right mean. That happened to me in school with my boyfriend. They would say all kinds of stuff like, He was with a girl or he's just using you. But we graduated and got married and been together for 18 years now. So don't listen to them. Go by what you believe.
2007-03-07 01:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by southg11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl... talking to old girlfriends and boyfriends is off the menu when you're in a serious relationship...
Even if your S/O tells you that it's okay, it's still disrespectful to them to speak with someone who has had your heart and who has had your body.
If you suspect him of being a player, get out of the situation, and find yourself a real dude who will hold **** down for you when it gets rough.
Don't waste time on someone who will take you for what you're worth and leave you high and dry.
2007-03-07 01:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just speaking from experience, if people are telling you that he is a player and he's cheating on you, think of it this way...do they have a reason to lie to you? Unless they've given you a reason not to believe them, over this guy, I'd believe them. If you stay with him, and decide not to believe everyone else, you are going to lose alot of friends over it. And for what? Some jerk that's playing you? Doubtful...
Be strong, do what you have to do, and be happy!
2007-03-07 01:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by Katie A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy. I know guys.
If people are saying he's cheating, he's probably cheating. If he's cheated before, he's probably cheating. If he's still talking to his ex-girlfriends, he's probably cheating.
If your friends think he's cheating, ask who he's with. Then ask the girl he's supposed to be with. If she's doing him,... she'll talk. She wants to be with him not the " on the sly chick". The only way she'll lie to cover his azz is if he is her "on the sly guy", and she is in a relationship with someone else.
2007-03-07 01:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by srthompson01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just trust him as any relation ship with out trust is going to be bad..even if he does cheat..you know he will probably come back to the one he loves the best..
talking to your old gf is OK but if he starts touching them..then kick him to the curb..but at least give him a chance..it all could be just a lack of understanding and maturity on both of your parts..don't listen to gossip as most of its is false..good luck
2007-03-07 01:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u just need to keep a close eye on him, and if you trust him as much as u say u do then i think it would be safe to say that he probably isnt. People can change, and that is a definite possibilty that he did.
2007-03-07 01:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by Catiet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋