I cheated on husband and and in love with other man.
Husband and I have been going trough some problems and after 26 years I thought why not he never look at me the way I deserve or thought I deserved. After a lot of arguments I finally got him to agree to move so other man could move in, or so I thought. My only son who is 13, got himself a Guardian Adlightom and got a restraining order against other man!
I can't move him in and to top it off his guardian adlightom has stated I"m an unfit parent who cheated!
My son is considered a minor, but because of his age(13) he has the right to choose who he want to live with, he said HIS FATHER, and i'm Pissed at his answer because it means I have to move from home and now sister tell me I have to pay $690.00 a month for child support! and son wont see me either! I lost home, saving, and son, if I'm finally happy it's okey, but other man left too. I have nothing now,I have child support to pay $690 and hate my son who destroyed my happiness.
2007-03-07 01:07:30 · 6 answers · asked by disturb m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kharma is a b*tch.
Sounds like you got what you deserved.
Thank God, there is justice in this world sometimes.
2007-03-07 02:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by spamovision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How Dare You blame your son and hate him too. WOW. Your son did the right thing. Now YOU do the right thing and get professional help. Maybe that way you can deal with your lonliness and selfishness and learn to show your son that you love him. He made the right choice to live with his father because you would probably treat him horribly. There is a good reason the other man left too. Grow up and deal with yourself and take responsibility for your life, and maybe then you can have a normal life again. But until then, you will not have any luck getting yourself involved with another man. A man isn't happiness. No one can bring you happiness but yourself. Because if you notice, you are happy when YOU love someone, not when they love you.
2007-03-07 02:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by luvmrtnz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ARE disturbed. Your son didn't make you go have an affair. You made that decision all by your pitiful self. If you hate your son for something you brought on yourself, then maybe he is better off with his dad. The other guy probably left because he didn't need or want all the drama in his life that you are bringing. Grow up!!! You did it, you deal with it. DO NOT put the blame on your son.
2007-03-07 02:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame not being happy on your son. It is you who cheated and destroyed your family. Your unhappinesss rests squarely on your shoulders. You decided to taste the forbidden fruit now you have to deal with the consequences.
2007-03-07 02:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would be perfect if you could only lose your job too! Then maybe I could sleep! There is justice in the world after all!
2007-03-07 13:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
betterb go for a consultation and talk wit your son too.. the fault is basically yours.. you had put them all on yourself..
2007-03-07 02:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by yamini ananthan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋