If your Boyfriend got locked up should you wait for him if yall are in love and been together for a year and a half? But is it okay to have friends until he get out? Or should I just be loyal to my man and wait for him don't have friends or talk to other guys?
2007-03-07 00:51:01 · 13 answers · asked by Mz.Tweety 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him about it... depending on what he's locked up for, I'd reconsider the relationship... It isn't fair for you to suffer for his bad decision or (possible) mental illness.
2007-03-07 00:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference in being friends and being more than friends.
Its fine to be friends with guys whenever you have a boyfriend.
But if you really love the guy then you will wait for him to get out. You may discover that you dont love him as much as you think you love him.
2007-03-07 01:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by chelseylauren2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him...Don't isolate yourself from others, but don't allow yourself to be put in a position of unfaithfulness. Stay loyal & don't worry if he breaks up with you while he's in there. The human mind fabricates many fears while in a form of isolation such as lock up or jail. If he breaks up with you while he's in there, he's trying to protect himself from pain of you, possibly cheating. Stay loyal, wait for him, always remind him you love him & he's the only one & things will work out the way they're supposed to. I'm going through the same, exact scenario. Except it's my girlfriend. Lol.
2007-03-07 01:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by Paul P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ok to have friends as long as u don't do anything sexual with them. But if u really love ur bf then u will wait for him to get out of jail. I would if i was u. Good luck
2007-03-07 01:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with having friends but if you love him so much you will wait for him. My husband was locked up for 2yrs and I had friends but didn't talk to guys that much.
2007-03-07 00:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by bette69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you truly loved your boyfriend you wouldn't have to ask that question. Just because he's not going to be around for awhile doesn't mean you should be talking to other guys. If you were truly in love with him you would have no desire to betray him while he's gone.
2007-03-07 00:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by Candace T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on what kind of a lifestyle you want to live later...You have to be honest with yourself and accept the fact that you (and your children if you choose to have them) will always be living a financially poverty stricken life...He will NEVER have a decent paying job,
even McDonald's does a back ground check these days...but honestly why are you asking us you already know what your gonna do!
2007-03-07 00:57:17 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on what hes up for! my opinion is to stay clear of him. and have friends, dont lock yourself up too just because ur man's locker up!!
2007-03-07 01:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by SA Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u really love him you won't be able to cheat him. If u think he's not worthy of you, it's your choice, you only live once!
2007-03-07 01:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by teen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on what his and your committment is
and is he a f up and committed to being a royal f up?
then, no
why suffer in life
why??
2007-03-07 00:55:15 · answer #10 · answered by lowroad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋