after putting up with years of mental abuse and now finally getting your life back, being able to sleep at night not having to worry about anything, what have or would you do
2007-03-07 01:34:24 · 14 answers · asked by who 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first of all a bit of retail therapy, buy all those clothes he said you couldn't wear, have some great nights out with those friends he said you couldn't have. treat yourself to a makeover and show yourself you ARE beautiful, take a holiday where YOU want to go. i could go on forever but you get it don't you? find the you that he's been trying to hide from the world all this time. good luck to you
2007-03-08 08:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by sue brew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I left my husband after nearly 30 yrs of marriage. There was so much mental abuse in the marriage that it took me nearly 2 years to be able to walk down the road with my head held high. I am now divorced and I thought I would feel like celebrating, but, when it came through I felt a sense of failure on my part as I thought marriage was for ever. I now have met a wonderful man who accepts me for who I am and treats me with respect and equality. Neither of us will get married as he was in 2 abusive relationships. If you want to celebrate hun get together with some of your pals and have a night out. Good luck to you in the future and remember there are decent men out there. x
2007-03-08 20:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Isis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you real think you need to celebrate there is a lot you can do for yourself. You can start spoiling yourself like buying yourself flowers, eating out, taking up a hobby that will be stimulating. Generally all you gotta do is enjoy your life with care of course not through damaging activities and not wait for anyone to do it for you. To just be you and do what you want to do, when you want to do it.
2007-03-07 01:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by laol 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Treat yourself to a holiday at a spa resort, loads of 'you' time to pamper and relax and build your relationship with yourself again. Also will give you time to think about what you want from your life. The rest of your life has just started, I wish you all the very best x
2007-03-07 12:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy time spent by yourself and with the company of some of your closest friends-don't go out there looking to jump back in a relationship-you need to learn to love yourself first before you can love someone else. Treat yourself to some good times and in time you'll find someone special that'll treat you right.
2007-03-07 01:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by rosebud06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit back, take a deep breath and just wait until a good idea hits me and then I'd go do it. Life is too short to be unhappy.
2007-03-07 01:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need a man free, all girl weekend. Let your hair down and celebrate your new life!
2007-03-07 04:41:42 · answer #7 · answered by LauraMarie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you girl, I smile every morning knowing that all that is behind me and I had the strength to get through it.That is how I celebrate
2007-03-07 18:21:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have a large Southern Comfort and lemonade and watch whatever I want on TV x
2007-03-07 01:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
book yourself a pamper weekend in a health spa and have a massage with your girlfriends.
Book a holiday
Congrats. Hope you are going to be happy.
2007-03-07 08:01:47 · answer #10 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋