She has become too boring in bed and fantasy roleplay bothers her. So what do I do next to bring excitement back into our bedroom?
2007-03-07 01:32:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Buy her a big black dildo and assault her with it till she agrees to be more of a freak! Ha
2007-03-07 01:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
She might feel that the role playing is somehow you wanting to pretend you are with someone else, which might make her feel inadequate, turning her into a boring bed partner. You should try talking to her about the reasons, without putting her on the defensive, try reassuring her that you find her irresistable in everyway but don't simply say it, show her. Maybe try doing something super romantic for her that you only see in movies, since most women fantasize about some of the sex scenes they see in romantic movies, for example draw her a bath with rose petals in it, undress her, kiss her passionately but without too much force, when she gets in give her some champagne or wine put a warm cloth on her head and just tell her to relax, put on some soothing mood music, massage her shoulders etc. More likely than not with such an effort put into making her feel sexy she will be incredibly turned on and ready for anything. Hope you get everything to work out.
2007-03-07 01:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by cheesussinclair 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant make your wife something she isn't, if she's become boring in bed there must be a reason, new baby, stress at work, lots of things can affect her sex drive. You both need to talk about your sex life. I can be quite shy in the bedroom but with open hearted chat this soon lifts and all is good!!!
What kind of role play are you after? You cant go from nothing to full blown dominatrix!! You really need to find out what she isn't comfortable with.
Suggest a night out with friends and agree to pretend you dont know each other, chat her up, flirt together. When I was with my ex hubby we did this, I went out with my girlfriend and he went out with his best mate (my friend and his friend were an item). We agreed to be in the same pub at the same time and eyed one another up, he came over aske dif he could buy me a drink and we flirted like mad, then I asked him if he wanted to take me home a rest I will leave to your imagination.
Dont push your wife too much, be sensitive and caring and talk it through, Good Luck hun
2007-03-07 01:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 08:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take her to dinner, and talk like adults about what she wants, does she have fantasies, or desires? She may not want to get into an indepth convertsation over dinner but you have put the seed in her mind.You already know what you want. So make it only about her, The word I should'nt come up in the conversation. Then drop the subject, and take to a movie, dancing whatever, and don't bring it up again that night so she can think about it.
2007-03-07 01:45:33 · answer #5 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ive found thru the years that the thing that makes my wife want to be a freak in bed is keeping the rest of our relationship good. The times when we are getting along the best leads to the best sex.
2007-03-07 01:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here's a thought...talk to HER. I mean, being your wife and all, I'd hope you guys have some form of communication. Find out what she wants, likes...I know that over time sometimes things need a bit of spice added to it. So why not talk to her and find out what kind of spice she'd be open to? And, why dont you try kicking it up a notch? Why wait for her to do something, why dont you try something? Maybe she'd be open to it but she's not "aggressive" enough to just try it herself. Maybe she needs you to lead? But firstly, you gotta talk to the woman. Find out where she stands in all of it before you start banging your head on the wall...maybe she's bored too.
2007-03-07 02:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by monkey_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you should have figured that out before you married her. Now it's a waste of time trying to bring exitement into your bedroom. You are stuck with her and her boring atttitude towards SEX.
2007-03-07 02:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to take the lead. Some women are embarrassed to have fantasies. Really talk to her and have her tell you what she wants. Get her to open up and make sure she knows that you will not be judgemental when she tells you her desires.
2007-03-07 02:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toys, definetly! I say the weirder the better!! Tease her with a thing called the bullet, rub it on her inner thighs, making sure to not touch her you know what and then when you have her where she is squirming it's time to get your GROOVE on!
2007-03-07 01:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch some sexy movies, make your own movie. sex Toys are great too.. try something new. Ask her if he would be willing to you try some of these things first. Not to push her into them..tell her if she doesn't like it you will stop..I cant see how she wouldn't want to try.. good luck
2007-03-07 01:37:24 · answer #11 · answered by luvtopaint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋