i've been seeing this girl 4 years older than me. Not that much but besides the age, she clearly has experience at her side. Why would she be interested in me? I know that in the long run I cant have anything with her, its just not possible. I enjoy being with her from time to time but I dont think about her sentimentally. She has accused me a few times with seeing her only for the goodies and she said something weird "i want you to love me". what might she be up to? ohh, she also asked me if i would still want to see her if she got back with her ex bf of 2 years. it just cant go anywhere, should i stop it before it gets more mixed up? i thought she was aware of the fact that we are just fooling around and enjoying, until she started asking me weird things! what might be going on in her mind?
2007-03-07 01:30:41 · 7 answers · asked by concerneddd 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHOA...WHOA.... You definitely need to end what ever type of relationship you would consider this to be. Obviously she is having feelings for you that you have express that you don't have for her. The best thing to do is to be honest and end it. Because its reaching that point that she doesn't see you as just a "boy toy" if you will... but obviously seeing you for much more. Now that is not your fault at all, in most relationships with benefits someone always ends up getting all emotionally tied which obviously was not meant to happen. But you really cant help on how you feel for someone after time. I would say things seemed to already have gotten mixed up so my personal opinion is if you don't feel for this girl the way she is expressing to you. Get out of it now before something even bigger comes out of it. I'm personally in a relationship that started off just like yours (I'm the older person 5+) however both of us had started to have feelings for each other and now we've been together for a year. But again since you clearly stated that you don't see anything coming out of this relationship then there is no point of it going any further. Good Luck!
2007-03-07 01:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by h0n3y_l1ps_27 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she likes playing games. If u know u can't have anything with her why are u wasting ur time? I really don't think that u 2 are on the same page. you either need to talk to her about her intentions or keep it moving.
2007-03-07 09:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation before, the broad is obviously nuts and attention hungry, whether daddy hit her or whatever the case is. Put your pants on and leave with haste.
2007-03-07 09:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by JAMES THE PUNISHER 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to get out of there before you have a handful of DRAMA....And if she is wanting to get back with her ex let her...and just go find you someone else...Because it sounds like to me she needs to grow up a little bit!!!!
2007-03-07 09:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by HelpMe123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she still has some growing up to do. i would leave her before you waste more time and possibly get more attached than you mean to.
2007-03-07 09:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Chrissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she loves you and you tell her that you love her.
2007-03-07 09:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by suga mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her. She has some porblems and she will make them yours.
2007-03-07 09:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋