Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

2007-03-05 12:51:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Have you ever cheated on your wife or girlfriend ?if yes, why did you ? My boyfriend cheated on me and he lost his most faithful girlfriend he has ever had ! I just want to know why do or why did you cheat? is it something the girls do wrong or are you a wannabe player ?

2007-03-05 12:51:19 · 9 answers · asked by sugarbabe 1 in Singles & Dating

So we fell in love, everythin was perfect we talked for hours never argued. Now we made it 2 our 3 month and we started arguing alot lately about the stupidest stuff and its not even imp. Basically i blame him he blames me. He syas he loves me and yesterday he told me hes growin apart from me. I sugessted a break he didnt want it he wants 2 go campin w/ me Sat and and hes excited but today when i asked how hes growin apart i asked is it bc of the arguments he said i dunno, no. So im tryin 2 bring back the spark into my relationship and be how we were before without fighting and just having fun and crying when we both had to leave each other. Does anyone have any sugesstions on what i can do to have him fully back and actually feel safe again? I tried not arguing 2 day and being happy and he was happy 2. He used 2 call me and now when i call him we end up in an argument and he doent look forward to talkin 2 me over the phone due to the arguments! help people help!

2007-03-05 12:50:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 17, and its close to 2am.. i have 6 essays to type out for drama and english..
but theres a plus side, tomorrow i have my music exam in which i get to play the sh*t outta drums and sing my *** off.. basically the only reason im still at school..

for those interested, im singing
Lonestar - Amazed
Calling - Wherever You Will Go
3 Doors Down - Here Without You
Take That - Patience..

and on friday im going to a party, so its not all bad..

so hows everyone n wat uz up to.

2007-03-05 12:50:11 · 4 answers · asked by 18/M/Scotland 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

be you not no fake person say what you feel i wont be offended by what you say.

2007-03-05 12:49:34 · 7 answers · asked by omar w 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys, what kind of things do you look for in a girl? What is your idea, of the perfect girl?

2007-03-05 12:49:07 · 9 answers · asked by Shelby 2 in Singles & Dating

Someone cute funny and generous

2007-03-05 12:48:47 · 14 answers · asked by lil_poet_10 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 8 years and been with him for 12. I found out I had cervical cancer a year ago, he showed no sympathy, he holds a job for maybe a month and when he holds one longer he has to pay his exwife 70 percent of his check for support. which in tole me to support a family of four. He only cares about when he is getting sex or when I am going to buy him something. I can tell when he wants something because he isnt talking to me like im a complete idiot. I havent had sex for a year to be exact, and every time I look at him I think I have married a child. He throws temper tantrums and calls me at work to decide what to do for dinner. On my days off I clean and cook and sometimes cook when I get home at eight oclock. I dont know help?

2007-03-05 12:48:32 · 17 answers · asked by sandy w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well...my friend has been acting akward recently. He used to be dating my best friend and when I told him that he still likes her he usually pauses by typing, "..........."

Although I just mess around with him sometimes he gets offensive with it and tells me to shut up. He recently got a new girlfriend anyway, and I just play around with him as usual and I told him one day.

"Awww you have a new girlfriend? I bet you still like your ex!"

and he just says, "........"

What does he actually mean by those dots?

2007-03-05 12:48:20 · 9 answers · asked by Ally C. 3 in Singles & Dating

Are you really happy with your girlfriend/wife? Or do you feel that you have 'settled', or are with them because you don't think you can do any better even though you know there is definitely better out there? Personality or looks wise?
How aware are you that there are more beautiful women out there?
Or do you not even think about these things?
Please explain how you feel about your partner. I need you to be completely honest here. Don't sugar coat it.
I'm beginning to believe that people pair off just because they have to be with someone, but not because they really want to, or really apreciate or are happy with the one they are with.

2007-03-05 12:48:08 · 10 answers · asked by jade 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 12:47:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anna S 2 in Singles & Dating

Imagine money is not an issue.

2007-03-05 12:46:53 · 12 answers · asked by Susie S 1 in Weddings

My now ex-boyfriend (46) and I (37) were dating for 9 months. He's perfect for me in many ways and we love eachother very much, but there are some very important things that just couldn't sync up enough for us to move forward.

He makes bad decisions in his life that lead him to near financial devistation. He also disappears when things get too difficult for him. No return phone calls, e-mails, or text messages. This effects his whole family & professional life.

We've talked about it and he agreed that he needs to work on those things, but he continues to do what ever he wants. I've told him that I couldn't continue dating him if these issues weren't addressed. I'd stand by him if he was at least making an effort with counseling. I've done my best to have understanding, but I'm not getting any younger & I already have a Son.

Am I wrong for shooting a man when he's already down? Is it wrong to require an equal partner in life? Would you wait?

I miss him so much!

2007-03-05 12:45:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

as in smart, intellegent, funny, stable single women who actually know what they want in a guy and look for just that.

2007-03-05 12:45:39 · 26 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf are madly in love. We have been together for 4 years. Were currently juniors in college. Last semester, he transferred to my university to pursue an Engineering degree before that he attended a college closer to home so he stayed at home, worked and visited me every other weekend.

Now that we see each other all the time, he wants to go back home every other weekend to visit his friends. Normally, I would not see a problem with this but every time he visits his friends we end up getting into a HUGE argument over it. He is usually very calm and relaxed but whenever we get into this type of argument, he gets upset and chooses not to answer my calls or texts. This really upsets me. This happens EVERY time he leaves to visit his friends.

Lately, this has been the cause of our arguments. He feels strongly about this. He thinks he deserves to go away sometimes. I am less open to the idea becuz I dont wanna argue and dont want him to ignore me. Suggestions 4 a compromise?

2007-03-05 12:45:34 · 22 answers · asked by First Lady 5 in Singles & Dating

So I'm a guy and I've never dated. I have great confidence, and have asked many girls out, but I dont' consider that dating because i usually go out with them one or two times and then break it off.

I'm just not the dating type. So I stopped for a few years, and now that I'm 24 I feel as though I should start a family soon or not start one at all.

The problem is that I know several girls like me. However, I never make a move. I'm not nervous or scared, but I just don't feel the need to ask anyone out.

How do I not look like an idiot by not going over to them and and talking to them? Meaning, I never talk to women, and often avoid it. People think I'm rude, how do I ge tover it?

2007-03-05 12:45:21 · 3 answers · asked by needsexualhelp 1 in Singles & Dating

There was a segment on the Today show this morning talking about it. Apparently this new casual sex culture is being pushed by young women.

2007-03-05 12:45:05 · 5 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 12:44:51 · 3 answers · asked by Lee Edward 1 in Singles & Dating

not that I want a married man. I'm 25, and i notice that they seem to like me, particularly older married men.

2007-03-05 12:44:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when is the normal age that u like "develop your chest" if u know what i mean lol? any other ways to tell when other than your period? thanks

2007-03-05 12:44:22 · 12 answers · asked by redclouddobies 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy now for about a month and about a week ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. i thought that by asking me to be his girlfriend he'd take me a bit more seriously, instead sometimes he can go a whole weekend withought calling me or texting me all day. And although i attempted at first i figured why keep trying and putting into this if he basically is not. YEt after we dont talk for like two days sometimes when he actually does finally call he pretends that everything is normal and goes on about his business like nothing happened. i do see potential in our relationship but it bothers me that he can go a whole day without talking to me and forget my existence. SHould i cut him off or should i maybe talk to him about it?

2007-03-05 12:44:18 · 3 answers · asked by Betty Boop 1 in Singles & Dating

i am leaving to see my best friend friday in NYC. and durring the school day- it feels like forever. how do i pass my time quicker?

2007-03-05 12:44:00 · 7 answers · asked by Katee C 1 in Friends

i met my girlfriend 3 years ago,she had a 4 week old baby that didnt bother me because i loved her to bits! and now i love her child and the child we had together! i though we were going to be a happy family until she kissed another guy on new years eve which really broke my heart,,,,,it was her second time doing it to me! ive moved out since,,,,,,what do people think?

2007-03-05 12:43:56 · 6 answers · asked by martin b 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I still love him even though he has done some really awful things to me. He is now away in college and I miss him and I miss all the fun we had before he screwed up. You would think after being beaten and raped by him, I'd get over him. Sometimes I just think I'm too stupid to realize that he never really loved me.

2007-03-05 12:43:22 · 6 answers · asked by Kisha 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys... you flirt with a bunch of girls through out the day, and when you like one, what do you do that is different to that girl, out of nervousness, niceness, etc.
And if u tell a girl you like her and she tells you that she likes you back, and then you are quiet only around her the next days after that...what does that mean?

2007-03-05 12:43:14 · 2 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

me n this girl are friends with benefits but people keep teelling me that thats wrong. wat should i do?

2007-03-05 12:42:53 · 29 answers · asked by big juice 1 in Friends

i can't come up with anything
and i want to do something like big

2007-03-05 12:42:50 · 6 answers · asked by mizzle <3 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm known this girl for a few months and we were friends/dating can't really say which one because I don't know. Anyway, she was rude to me so I told her off said that she needs to change her future behavior. Now she isn't talking to me. Is that all it takes for a girl to drop you? Or is this just a phase?

2007-03-05 12:42:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 12:41:58 · 30 answers · asked by ---- 2 in Singles & Dating

Whenever people come to visit our house, my mom always telling them, How I graduated high school when I was 16 years old and went to college.

My mom always telling people about my education, She make it seem like I'm going to be a doctor or big professional name.

I just want to become a dental assistant. But with her telling the whole town, if I become a dentatl assistant, every is going to laugh at my mom for what she was bragging about.

I told my mom to stop doing that but there she talks again. I know she is proud of me but I am NOT doing that well, in college so she puts a lot of pressure on me.

2007-03-05 12:41:46 · 12 answers · asked by Pretty 1 in Family