I need a hand figuring out whats fair and not - and what to do.
My g/friend of 1 1/2 years and I moved in together 8 mths ago.I had to move towns to be with her-her home town is small and limited,doesn't have much,so we agreed after a few months we'd go somewhere with more future and fun,together.
Problem now is,I feel my life has stalled. After I moved it was like the truth came out - suddenly she doesn't want to move "for a while" - and her idea of spending time together is constantly having to hang around with her family - say, for 8 hours a day and each night after work! I have no life - and when I want to see my friends & family, play sport, etc, she blocks me with excuses..tells me I don't need them - that Im too dependent on them all. I love her and want to be with her - but how can I have a bit of a life of my own? I'm so bored and frustrated sitting around all day with her parents or friends (half of whom have kids now) just idling...and feeling so lonely with it all.
2007-03-05
13:31:47
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