Is it possible to completely fall for someone else, when married?

Answer 1

Of course, my married friend said to me the other day, it's a shame they don't turn the attraction bit off when you say 'I do' I laughed! :o)

Answer 2

Hi,

I think that if you are happy in a strong healthy marriage then no it is not possible to completely fall for someone else, because the strength of your marriage stops you from following through on the attraction, BUT

if your marriage is at all unhappy or not based in true love then there is every chance that your feelings for another person will develop from attraction to completely falling for them and needing to be with them.

Hope this helps.

Answer 3

It's possible if your marriage is not solid enough. Or even it is & you still feel very attracted by somebody else, it only means that you are quite normal. Being married doesn't mean you can't feel the attraction of another, only that you should control your feelings & do not act on your fancy.

Answer 4

I say yes. but you would have to consider a few things.
- one do you have kids. if yes then u have to consider them first.
- second you have to look deep down and say "am i in love with this person two or am i going to look some where else in six months.
- thirdly spice up your marriage right now and see how u feel then.

Answer 5

of course it is especially if the marriage or relationship is weak.
and, for some reason married individuals seem to be very frequent targets for unmarried people.
i guess it's the challenge of getting something that's already taken.

Answer 6

Yes. It happens anywhere, in work, in the community or in a circle of friends! But if you really value your marriage, wife and your family, you have to terminate it out right.

Answer 7

Yes, but what the outcome is depends on how strong the marriage is. Take care.

Answer 8

yes...but it can be avoided,especially if you got married out of love and not of any other reasons......If something is lacking or messing up your relationship,you have to talk about it,Seek for spiritual advises,,,,try something new like hanging out jst between the 2 of u,,,etc,,,etc

Answer 9

hell yes !! if it's not going well or u don't feel attacked it's hard to keep the love going when u have been with someone for so long..... but it's hard because u have to think of what is important...

Answer 10

I should think so.

Feelings never really stop working they go on and on... so what you once thought of one person could easily be transferred to another.